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Xan Dae

Single mom with cash income needs tax refund help - qualifying for credits?

I'm in desperate need of advice! I recently got divorced and I'm raising my 13-year-old on my own. I make around $1400 a month cleaning houses and doing various odd jobs, but it's all cash payments. I don't have any formal receipts for my work, though I could probably get reference letters from my regular clients if that would help with taxes? This isn't a registered business or anything - just me trying to make ends meet. My ex is basically homeless and hasn't paid a cent in child support. I'm really struggling financially and wondering what tax credits I might qualify for as a single mom? Is there anything I can do to maximize my tax refund? I've never had to figure this out on my own before and I'm totally lost about what I can claim or how to report my income properly.

You definitely have options for tax credits as a single parent! First, you should file as Head of Household which gives you better tax rates than filing as Single. Since you're supporting your child and your ex isn't paying support, you can claim your child as a dependent. For your income situation, you're considered self-employed even though it's just you doing odd jobs. You'll need to report this income on Schedule C. You don't necessarily need formal receipts, but keeping track of your earnings is important. Client letters can help document your income if needed. The big credits you should look into are: Earned Income Tax Credit (EITC) which is specifically designed for lower-income workers with children, and the Child Tax Credit which is worth up to $2,000 per qualifying child. You might also qualify for the Child and Dependent Care Credit if you pay for childcare while you work.

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Thais Soares

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For the self-employment thing, does she need to pay quarterly taxes? And what about deductions - can she deduct things like cleaning supplies or gas to get to jobs?

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Yes, technically self-employed individuals should make quarterly estimated tax payments, but it depends on how much tax you expect to owe. At your income level, after taking the standard deduction and credits, you might not owe much income tax, but you would still be responsible for self-employment tax (for Social Security and Medicare). You can definitely deduct legitimate business expenses like cleaning supplies, transportation between job sites (not commuting from home to first job), a portion of your phone bill if used for business, and any equipment you buy for work. Keep a simple log of these expenses with dates and amounts - even a notebook works. This reduces your taxable income and therefore your tax liability.

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Nalani Liu

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Axel Bourke

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Did you have to provide bank statements or anything? I'm wondering because I also get paid in cash and don't always deposit it.

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Aidan Percy

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Sounds interesting but how does it handle the EITC stuff? I've heard the IRS is super strict about documentation for that credit specifically.

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Nalani Liu

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No, you don't need to provide bank statements. The system helps you create income logs even if you haven't been keeping perfect records. It gives you templates to document your cash transactions retroactively, which is super helpful if you've been getting paid in cash. For the EITC documentation, it actually has specific guidance for that. It creates a special section explaining what supporting documents you should keep for EITC claims (like school records proving your child lives with you, medical records, etc.) and helps you identify which credits you qualify for based on your specific situation. It even flagged potential audit triggers for me to help avoid problems.

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Norman Fraser

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OK I have to admit I was totally wrong about Claimyr. After posting my skeptical comment, I was still desperate to talk to someone at the IRS about my EITC eligibility as a single parent with mixed custody, so I tried it anyway. Within 17 minutes I was talking to an actual IRS representative who walked me through the whole "qualifying child" test for the EITC when parents have split custody. Turns out I WAS eligible even though my ex claimed our daughter on his taxes this year (because she lived with me for more than 6 months). The IRS agent even emailed me the specific form I needed to dispute his claim. Would have never figured this out on my own after weeks of failed calls!

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Hattie Carson

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One thing nobody mentioned yet - make sure you're keeping track of your mileage when you drive between cleaning jobs! I'm a house cleaner too and mileage deduction is HUGE for me. Just get a little notebook and write down your odometer reading at the start and end of each workday, plus addresses you went to. The current mileage rate is like 65.5 cents per mile which adds up fast. I tracked 6,200 business miles last year which gave me a deduction of over $4,000! That really reduced my self-employment tax.

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Xan Dae

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Can I just estimate my miles if I didn't keep good records last year? I drive probably 10-15 miles between jobs most days but never wrote it down.

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Hattie Carson

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Unfortunately, the IRS won't accept estimates for mileage deductions. You need contemporaneous records showing the actual miles driven, dates, and business purpose. Since you didn't keep records last year, your best bet is to start tracking properly now for this year's taxes. For last year, you could try reconstructing a reasonable log using whatever documentation you have - like client appointment books, text messages about job scheduling, or calendar entries. Create a mileage log showing the addresses you drove between and calculate distances using Google Maps. It's not ideal, but having some documentation is better than nothing if you're ever questioned.

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Just a heads up, if your kiddo is 13, you might qualify for the Additional Child Tax Credit too which is refundable (meaning you can get money back even if you don't owe taxes). Make sure whoever does your taxes checks for this!!!

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Dyllan Nantx

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The Additional Child Tax Credit is part of the Child Tax Credit now - it's all integrated. The important thing is that up to $1,600 of the Child Tax Credit is refundable per qualifying child (for 2024 tax year filing in 2025). So yes, she should definitely qualify for this!

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Sayid Hassan

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I'm really glad you found this community to ask for help! As someone who's also navigated single parenthood and tax issues, I wanted to add a few practical tips that might help you get organized: Since you're dealing with cash income, start keeping a simple daily log RIGHT NOW - even if it's just a notebook where you write the date, client name, amount earned, and any expenses like gas or supplies. This will make next year's taxes so much easier. For this year's filing, try to gather whatever documentation you can - text messages confirming jobs, any Venmo/CashApp records if clients ever paid that way, even old calendar entries showing when you worked. The IRS understands that cash-based workers don't always have perfect records, but showing you made a good faith effort to document your income goes a long way. Also, don't forget about potential deductions beyond what others mentioned - work clothes that get ruined from cleaning chemicals, any equipment you bought (vacuum, cleaning caddy, etc.), and even a portion of your cell phone bill if you use it to coordinate with clients. Every legitimate deduction reduces your self-employment tax burden. You've got this! Single parents are incredibly resourceful, and getting your taxes sorted properly is going to make such a difference for your financial stability.

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