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Just a heads up to the original poster - be aware that if you do file as married (common law or otherwise), you'll need to continue filing that way unless you legally separate or divorce. That's true even for common law marriages - you can't just go back to filing single next year if you decide the tax benefits aren't worth it! Common law divorce isn't really a thing in most places - you'd need to go through regular divorce proceedings just like formally married couples. So make sure you're ready for that commitment before changing your filing status!
This is really helpful information! I'm actually in a similar situation in Colorado with my partner of 2.5 years. We've been hesitant to file jointly because we weren't sure if we'd need some kind of official paperwork first. One thing I'm curious about - if we start filing as married jointly this year, does that create any kind of official record of our common law marriage with the state? Or is it purely for federal tax purposes? I'm wondering if filing jointly would affect things like health insurance through employers, since some companies require proof of marriage for spousal coverage. Also, has anyone here ever been asked to provide documentation during an actual audit? I'd love to know what kinds of evidence the IRS typically looks for to verify common law marriage status.
Great questions! Filing jointly for federal taxes doesn't create any official state record - it's purely for IRS purposes. Your common law marriage status is determined by state law (Colorado in your case), not by how you file your federal taxes. For employer health insurance, most companies will accept an affidavit or declaration of common law marriage rather than requiring formal documentation. You might also provide joint bank statements, lease agreements with both names, or other evidence that you present yourselves as married. Each employer has different requirements, so check with your HR department. Regarding audits, the IRS typically looks for evidence that you meet your state's common law marriage requirements. In Colorado, that means proof of cohabitation (lease, utility bills), mutual agreement to be married (affidavits from friends/family, joint accounts), and holding yourselves out as married (insurance beneficiaries, social media, how you introduce each other). Keep records like joint bank statements, shared property ownership, and witness statements from people who know you as a married couple.
Does anyone know if theres a diff between "exemptions" and "allowances"? My hr dept still uses an old form that says exemptions but everyones talking about allowances and the new W4... so confused right now lol.
They used to be similar concepts but slightly different things. Exemptions referred to the personal exemptions you could claim on your tax return (for yourself, spouse, dependents), while allowances on the old W-4 affected how much was withheld from your paycheck. Since 2018, personal exemptions were eliminated from tax returns by the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act. Then in 2020, the W-4 form was redesigned to remove allowances entirely. Now the W-4 asks more direct questions about multiple jobs, dependents, and additional income. If your company is still using forms with "exemptions," they're using outdated terminology. You might want to ask HR if they have the current W-4 form available.
Hey Everett! I was in almost the exact same situation last year - 24, single, making around $45k. The confusion is totally understandable since they changed everything recently. Here's what I learned: forget about "exemptions" - that's old terminology. The current W-4 (redesigned in 2020) doesn't use allowances or exemptions anymore. Instead, it asks specific questions about your situation. For someone like you (single, one job, $42k), you'd typically just fill out Steps 1 (personal info) and 5 (signature). That's it. This gives you standard withholding that should get you close to breaking even at tax time. If you want to factor in your student loan interest deduction, you could add that estimated amount in Step 4(b) "Deductions" to reduce your withholding slightly and get a bit more in each paycheck. The key is finding the sweet spot where you don't owe much or get a huge refund. At your income level, even a $1,500 refund means you're missing out on $125/month that could go toward paying down those student loans faster. But you also don't want to owe more than you can handle come April. I'd recommend starting with the basic form (just Steps 1 and 5) and see how your first few paystubs look, then adjust if needed.
This is really helpful advice! I'm in a similar boat as the original poster - just started my first "real" job out of college and was completely lost on the W-4. The fact that they got rid of the exemption numbers makes so much more sense now. Quick question though - you mentioned putting student loan interest in Step 4(b). How do you estimate that if you don't know exactly how much interest you'll pay for the whole year? Do you just use last year's amount or try to calculate it somehow?
Based on what everyone's shared here, it sounds like 1-3 business days is the most common timeframe for tax refund advances to hit Wisely cards. Since you're an Uber/DoorDash driver and need the money ASAP for car repairs, I'd suggest: 1) Check the Wisely app frequently but don't stress if it shows "pending" for a day or two, 2) If it goes beyond 3-4 business days, definitely call customer service, and 3) Make sure you have the approval confirmation handy when you call. Good luck with the car repairs - I know how crucial reliable transportation is for gig work!
This is really helpful advice! I'm also a gig worker and had to deal with car repairs last year - it's so stressful when your income depends on having a working vehicle. One thing I'd add is to maybe have a backup plan ready just in case the deposit takes longer than expected. Sometimes local auto shops will let you make a partial payment upfront and finish paying when your funds come through, especially if you explain the situation. Hope your advance comes through quickly @Charlotte Jones!
I've been through this exact scenario with my Wisely card for gig work expenses! In my experience, most tax refund advances hit the card within 1-2 business days, but I've seen it take up to 4 days during busy tax season. Since you're doing Uber/DoorDash and need the car repairs ASAP, here's what helped me: 1) Set up push notifications in the Wisely app so you know immediately when funds hit, 2) If you haven't already, try calling the tax prep company that processed your advance - they sometimes have more specific timing info than the generic "1-3 days" answer, and 3) Consider reaching out to your mechanic to see if they'd accept a partial payment now with the balance when your advance comes through. Many local shops are understanding about gig workers' situations. Fingers crossed it comes through quickly for you!
This is exactly the kind of practical advice I was hoping to find! I'm also in the gig economy and the car repair situation hits close to home. One additional tip - some mechanics will give you a discount if you pay cash (which your advance basically is once it hits your card), so it might be worth asking about that too. Also, if you're doing both Uber and DoorDash, you might want to prioritize the most critical repair first in case the advance is less than expected. Hope everything works out quickly for you!
Does anybody know if eBay still sends those 1099-K forms if you sell over a certain amount? I thought the threshold changed recently.
Great question! I was in a similar boat when I started selling my old baseball card collection. Just to add to what others have said - make sure you keep good records of all your sales, even if you don't think you'll owe taxes on them. I use a simple spreadsheet tracking what I sold, when I sold it, the sale price, and what I originally paid (or my best estimate). Even for items sold at a loss, having documentation can be helpful if you ever get questions later. Plus it makes it much easier to see which sales actually resulted in gains that need to be reported. I learned this the hard way after scrambling to recreate records during tax season! Also worth noting - if you start doing this regularly and making decent money, you might want to consider if it's becoming a business rather than just casual selling. That changes how you report things significantly.
This is really solid advice about keeping records! I'm just starting to sell some of my old collectibles and wasn't sure how detailed I needed to be with tracking everything. A spreadsheet sounds like a good approach - do you include things like shipping costs and eBay fees in your records too? I'm wondering if those can be deducted from the sale price when calculating gains/losses. Also curious about your point on when selling becomes a "business" - is there a specific dollar threshold or number of transactions where the IRS considers it business income instead of casual selling?
CosmicCommander
This is actually really common with TT and their banking partner SBTPG. They hold onto refunds for weird reasons sometimes. Best thing to do: 1. Call SBTPG directly (not TT customer service) 2. Check your IRS transcript 3. Make sure your bank info is correct There's also a TT forum specifically for these issues that might have more specific advice.
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Jackie Martinez
I had the exact same thing happen to me last year - filed early February, got accepted, then suddenly status switched to pending with zero explanation from TurboTax. Turns out the IRS was doing additional processing on my EITC claim (even though everything was correct). The whole thing took about 4 weeks to resolve, but I eventually got my full refund plus interest for the delay. The most frustrating part is that TurboTax customer service acts like they have no visibility into what's actually happening once your return hits the IRS systems. I ended up having to check my IRS account transcript daily to see any updates. Don't panic though - a status change doesn't mean anything is wrong with your return, it just means the IRS needs more time to process it. The advance refund feature definitely makes it more confusing because you can't track it the normal way.
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