Filed for PFL Bonding with EDD - What to expect for relationship evidence?
Hey everyone, I just filed for Paid Family Leave Bonding on 4/17. Has anyone gone through the process of providing relationship connection evidence? I'm wondering what to expect next and how long it usually takes to hear back from EDD. Any tips or experiences would be super helpful!
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Emma Thompson
Congrats on the new addition to your family! 🎉 I went through this process last year. After filing, it took about 2 weeks for EDD to request additional documents. They asked for my child's birth certificate and proof of my relationship (marriage certificate). Make sure you have those ready!
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Javier Cruz
•Thanks for the info! Did you send physical copies or were you able to upload them online?
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Emma Thompson
•I was able to upload everything online through their portal. Much easier than mailing stuff in!
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Malik Jackson
•Just a heads up, sometimes the online portal can be glitchy. I had to try uploading my docs a few times before it worked. Don't panic if it doesn't go through right away!
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Isabella Costa
Ugh, the EDD is such a pain to deal with. I filed for PFL bonding 3 months ago and I'm still waiting for them to process my claim. Good luck, OP. You're gonna need it. 🙄
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StarSurfer
•3 months?! That's insane. Have you tried calling them?
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Isabella Costa
•Lol, calling EDD. Good one. 😂 I've tried but can never get through. It's like they don't want us to actually use the benefits we're entitled to.
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Ravi Malhotra
•I found a way to actually get someone on the phone. I used this site's (claimyr.com) calling tool that dials the phone menu, stays on hold, waits for a live agent to pick up, then sends the call to my phone. It does cost $20, but it works. Here's a video about it: https://youtu.be/Ize0EkN4HDI
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Isabella Costa
•Wait, for real? That sounds too good to be true. Has anyone else tried this?
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Ravi Malhotra
•Yeah, it's legit. I was skeptical at first too, but it saved me hours of frustration. Worth every penny imo.
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Freya Christensen
•I've used it too. Feels kinda wrong that we have to pay extra just to talk to someone, but it definitely works.
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Omar Hassan
Pro tip: Keep copies of EVERYTHING you send to EDD. I learned this the hard way when they claimed they never received my docs and I had to start the whole process over again. 😫
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Chloe Robinson
Does anyone know if the process is different for adoptive parents? We're in the process of adopting and I'm not sure what kind of 'relationship evidence' we'll need to provide.
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Diego Chavez
•Adoptive parent here! 🙋♀️ You'll need to provide the adoption placement agreement or court documents. The process is pretty similar otherwise.
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Chloe Robinson
•Thank you so much! That's really helpful. Did you have any issues with your claim?
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Diego Chavez
•Nope, it was surprisingly smooth sailing. Just make sure all your paperwork is in order and you should be fine. Congrats on your adoption journey! ❤️
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NeonNebula
I've been through this process twice now, so here's my comprehensive guide to PFL Bonding claims: 1. File your claim as soon as possible after the birth/adoption. 2. Gather your documents early: birth certificate, proof of relationship (marriage certificate, domestic partnership registration, etc.) 3. Be prepared for EDD to request additional info. They usually do this within 2-3 weeks of filing. 4. Upload documents online if possible - it's faster than mailing. 5. Keep copies of EVERYTHING you send. 6. If you don't hear back within a month, try to contact them. (Yes, it's a pain, but necessary) 7. Be patient. The process can take 4-6 weeks from filing to receiving benefits. 8. If you run into issues, don't be afraid to contact your local state representative. They can sometimes help expedite things. Remember, you're entitled to these benefits. Don't give up if you hit roadblocks!
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Javier Cruz
•Wow, thank you so much for this detailed guide! This is incredibly helpful. I'll definitely be referring back to this as I go through the process.
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Anastasia Kozlov
•This should be pinned to the top of the sub tbh. So much good info here!
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Sean Kelly
•Quick question - what if you're not married? My partner and I aren't married but I'm the father. Will that complicate things?
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NeonNebula
•Good question! If you're not married, you'll need to provide a voluntary declaration of paternity. You can get this form at the hospital when the baby is born, or from your local child support agency.
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Zara Mirza
is it just me or does anyone else think its ridiculous that we have to jump through so many hoops just to get time off with our newborns? the system is broken af 😤
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Luca Russo
•Preach! 🙌 It's like they want us to fail. Other countries have it so much better when it comes to parental leave.
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Nia Harris
•Totally agree. We should be focusing on our families, not stressing about paperwork and phone calls. 😩
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GalaxyGazer
Hey OP, congrats on the new family member! Quick heads up - make sure you're also looking into SDI (State Disability Insurance) if you gave birth. You can get up to 4 weeks before your due date and 6-8 weeks after for recovery, THEN your PFL bonding time starts. Don't leave money on the table!
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Javier Cruz
•Oh wow, I had no idea! Thanks for the tip. I'll definitely look into that.
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Mateo Sanchez
•This! 👆 I almost missed out on my SDI benefits because I didn't know about them. Spread the word, people!
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Freya Andersen
I went through this exact process about 6 months ago! The relationship evidence part was actually pretty straightforward - they just wanted to see that I was legally connected to the baby. Since I'm married, I uploaded our marriage certificate along with the birth certificate showing both our names. One thing that helped me was calling them right after I submitted my initial claim to ask what specific documents they'd need so I could get everything ready in advance. Took a few tries to get through, but it saved me time later when they made their official request. The whole process took about 5 weeks from filing to getting my first payment, which seems to be pretty typical based on what I've seen here. Make sure you certify for benefits every two weeks once you're approved - that part is easy to forget! Best of luck with everything, and congrats on your new addition! 🍼
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