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My wife and I went through IVF, and she's due February 16, 2025. Our situation is a bit complicated - I'm a woman married to a woman who's pregnant. Her OBGYN mentioned she could give me a referral for 2 weeks of PFL as a caregiver when the baby arrives, but I'm wondering if after those 2 weeks, I can extend my leave using baby bonding benefits even though I'm not the birth mother? Specifically: 1. Can I qualify for the full 8 weeks of baby bonding after my 2 weeks of caregiving ends? 2. Does EDD consider non-birth mothers as "fathers" for PFL purposes? 3. How quickly would the payments start after my application? 4. Would there be a gap between the caregiving portion and baby bonding portion? We're trying to plan our finances and I'm getting confused looking through all the EDD documentation. Thank you!
Just wrapped up the first week of my 8-week baby bonding leave with our daughter! Super excited to have this time with her, but getting a little anxious about finances. Filed my PFL claim online last Monday, got the confirmation email that same day, but haven't received any updates or payments yet. For those who've done baby bonding leave recently - how long did your first payment take to arrive? The paperwork said 5-7 business days but it's been 8 now and nothing in my account. Should I be calling them already or am I being impatient? And if calling is necessary, which number actually gets you through to a human? Thanks for any advice!
Quick update - payment finally came through today! It took exactly 12 business days from filing. The EDD rep I spoke with (finally got through after using the 8am trick) said they're currently processing most baby bonding claims in 10-14 business days, so right on schedule I guess. And yes, it came on a debit card even though I selected direct deposit. Thanks everyone for the help and advice!
Congrats on your baby girl and glad to hear your payment finally came through! That's really helpful to know the actual timeline. I'm curious - when you called using the 8am trick, how long were you on hold before speaking to someone? And did the EDD rep mention anything about why some claims get flagged for additional review? I'm expecting my second child in a few months and want to be prepared for the PFL process this time around.
Hey everyone, I'm having an issue with my pay and I need some advice. I called the EDD to dispute my pay, but they told me they don't handle SDI (State Disability Insurance). I'm really confused about what to do next. Has anyone else run into this problem? What should my next steps be?
I went through something similar last month! The confusion between EDD and SDI is super common. Just to add to what others have said - when you call SDI, make sure you have your Social Security number and any claim numbers handy. Also, if you're dealing with a pay dispute specifically, you might want to ask about filing a formal appeal in writing too. Sometimes having a paper trail helps move things along faster. Good luck and don't give up! ๐ช
Hey everyone, I just filed for paid family leave and I'm wondering how long it usually takes to get the first payment? Anyone have experience with this? I'm getting anxious waiting and could use some insight.
Hang in there OP! I know the waits tough, but itll be worth it when that first payment hits ur account. Sending good vibes ur way! โจ
I just went through this process last month! Mine took exactly 3 weeks from the date my claim was approved. Make sure you're checking the right date - it's not from when you first applied, but from when EDD actually approves your claim (you'll get a notice). Also, if you haven't already, sign up for text alerts on your EDD account - they'll notify you when payments are processed. The first payment usually covers your waiting week plus the current week, so it might be a bit bigger than expected. Good luck!
I just got approved for intermittent leave through EDD for my chronic pain condition, but I'm really confused about the pay situation. From what I understand, intermittent leave protects my job when I need to miss work or leave early (which happens at least 1-2 times every week), but it doesn't actually provide any income? I've already burned through all my PTO for 2025, and I'm taking Unpaid Time Off almost weekly now. The unpaid absences are piling up which is honestly making my stress AND pain worse. My doctor said this could qualify for some benefits but the EDD website is so confusing. Has anyone successfully claimed any kind of partial wage replacement while on intermittent leave? Is there some form I'm missing? My HR dept just keeps referring me back to EDD.
Thank you all SO MUCH for the helpful responses! I've got a doctor's appointment Friday and now I know to ask specifically for the partial SDI certification on the DE2501 form. Will also try Claimyr to speak with an EDD rep directly. I'm relieved to know there's actually a benefit available - my HR person made it sound like I just had to deal with the unpaid time off forever. I'll update once I get everything submitted!
Good luck with your appointment Friday! One more tip - if your doctor seems hesitant about the partial disability certification, you can mention that California specifically allows for "part-time work" while on SDI as long as your earnings don't exceed your weekly benefit amount. Some doctors worry they're committing fraud by certifying someone as disabled who's still working, but partial SDI is totally legitimate and designed exactly for situations like yours. Also, don't forget to ask about backdating your claim - you might be able to recover some of those unpaid hours from recent weeks if your doctor can certify that your condition required reduced hours during that period.
This is really great advice about mentioning the legitimacy of partial work while on SDI to doctors! I had no idea about potentially backdating the claim either - that could make such a huge difference financially. @Grace Johnson definitely ask about that backdating option when you talk to the EDD rep through Claimyr. Even getting a few weeks of back benefits could help with all those unpaid hours you ve'been dealing with. Fingers crossed everything works out smoothly!
Juan Moreno
To answer your follow-up question - yes, both parents can take bonding leave simultaneously! Each eligible parent gets their own 8 weeks of PFL bonding benefits, and you can overlap if you choose to. There's no requirement to take them sequentially. Many families choose to have some overlap in the beginning when having an extra set of hands is most helpful, and then stagger the remaining time to extend the total period a parent is home with the baby. Just remember that you both need to file separate claims. Your wife would transition from her pregnancy disability (if she takes that) to her bonding time, while you would transition from caregiving to your bonding time.
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Leslie Parker
AuthorThat's perfect! I think we'll definitely overlap for the first few weeks and then stagger the rest. This community has been so helpful - I feel much more confident about navigating the process now. Thank you all!
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Sophia Bennett
Just wanted to add one more tip from my experience - make sure you keep copies of EVERYTHING you submit to EDD. I had to resubmit my wife's medical certification twice because they claimed they never received it the first time. Also, if you're planning to breastfeed/pump, you might want to look into whether your employer has lactation accommodation requirements under CA law - it's separate from PFL but good to know about for when you return to work. The whole process can feel overwhelming but you've got this! Congratulations on your upcoming addition to the family! ๐
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