Will removing partner from CalWORKs affect my Cash Aid amount? Questions about child support requirements
I'm currently receiving Cash Aid and CalFresh with my partner and our 2 kids (3 & 5). We've been fighting a lot lately and I'm considering taking him off our case. I'm worried about how this might change our benefits though. If I remove him, will my Cash Aid amount go down a lot? Also, I heard that I'd be forced to open a child support case against him even though he does help with the kids financially when he can. He lives with his mom nearby and still buys diapers and clothes for them. Would CalWORKs still make me pursue child support if I tell them he's supporting the kids? Would appreciate any info from people who've been through this.
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Oliver Becker
Yes, removing your partner will definitely affect your Cash Aid amount, but it might not be as bad as you think. CalWORKs calculates benefits based on how many people are in the household, so removing an adult will reduce your grant. However, if your partner has income that's being counted right now, removing them might actually increase your benefits in some cases. As for child support - yes, applying for CalWORKs as a single parent requires cooperation with child support services (DCSS) in most cases. When you report the change and remove your partner, your eligibility worker will refer you to DCSS to open a case. They'll want information about your children's father to pursue support.
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Amina Bah
•Thank you for explaining. Do you know if it matters that he's still involved with the kids? Like would they still make me go after child support even if I tell them he buys stuff for the kids and helps out?
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CosmicCowboy
Omg i just did this last month wth my bf!!! They lowered my cash aid by like $200 but my food stamps went up a little. The worst part was all the paperwork they made me fill out when i reported the change. took FOREVER to process. but yeah they did make me sign child support forms even tho i told them he still helps with kids.
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Amina Bah
•Ugh that's what I was afraid of. Did they actually go after him for child support or was it just filing paperwork?
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Natasha Orlova
They ALWAYS make u do child support unless u can get a good cause exemption. I tried telling them my ex helps out but they didnt care. Said its mandatory. But I've heard if u can prove DV or that child support would cause harm to u or kids u can get exemption.
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Javier Cruz
•This is partially correct, but there's more to it. You can request a "good cause" exemption from the child support requirement if pursuing it would be harmful to you or your children. Valid reasons include: - Domestic violence concerns - Conception due to rape or incest - Ongoing adoption proceedings - Risk of physical or emotional harm to the child You'll need to fill out the CW 51 form to request this exemption and provide whatever evidence you can. Your worker should explain this process when you report removing your partner from the household.
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Emma Thompson
When I took my kids' dad off our case in 2024, my cash aid dropped by $321 but my CalFresh went up by $150. The stupid part was they still counted his income for 6 months after he moved out because I didn't have "verification" of him being gone even though I TOLD THEM he moved out. It was a nightmare trying to get it fixed with the county office - couldn't get through on the phone for WEEKS.
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Malik Jackson
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Javier Cruz
Let me clarify a few things about removing a household member from your CalWORKs case: 1. Your cash grant will be recalculated based on one less adult in the home. This typically results in a reduction of approximately $100-200 per month depending on your county and current grant amount. 2. Child support cooperation is generally required, but there are some nuances: - You must cooperate with DCSS unless you have an approved exemption - Informal support arrangements don't satisfy the requirement - Any child support collected will offset your cash aid (the first $100 for one child or $200 for two or more children goes to you as a "pass-through" payment) 3. If your partner is still providing financial support, you'll need to report this as income when you complete your SAR 7 or recertification. Most importantly, make the change official by submitting a written statement to your eligibility worker explaining the household change. Don't delay reporting - failing to report could result in an overpayment that you'd have to pay back.
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Isabella Costa
•My cousin went thru this and didnt know about the pass through payment. She thought all the child support went to the county but she gets to keep the first $200 cuz she has 2 kids
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Malik Jackson
One thing nobody mentioned yet - timing matters! If you're going to remove him, do it right after you submit your SAR7. That way the change processes quicker and you avoid confusing them with multiple changes at once. I'd recommend calling your worker first to discuss how this will impact your specific situation before making any changes.
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Amina Bah
•That's really good advice about the timing with the SAR7. We just did our recertification last month so maybe I should wait until after the next report? I'm going to try calling my worker tomorrow to ask about this whole situation.
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Emma Thompson
I don't know why nobody talked about this but when I removed my partner, they made me VERIFY he moved out!! Had to get a statement from his new landlord and everything. Be prepared for them to ask for proof that he's no longer in the home - they can be super strict about this depending on which county worker you get.
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Javier Cruz
•This is an important point. CalWORKs often requires verification of household changes. This could include: - A statement from your partner's new residence (landlord or utility bill) - An updated lease showing he's not on it - A written statement from someone who can verify the living arrangement changed - Sometimes a collateral contact (someone the county can call to verify) It varies by county how strict they are, but having documentation ready will help avoid delays in processing your case change.
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