Will letting someone else claim my kids on taxes affect my CalWORKs Cash Aid eligibility?
I'm in a complicated situation with my ex. We've been going back and forth about who claims our kids (3 and 5) on taxes. He's offering to give me half of what he gets back if I let him claim them this year. I currently receive CalWORKs cash aid and CalFresh for me and my kids, and I'm worried this might cause problems with my benefits. Has anyone ever let someone else claim their children as dependents on taxes while getting benefits? Will the county find out and cut my cash aid since it's based on me having the kids? I don't want to mess up my benefits but really need the extra money he's offering.
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Maya Lewis
This is a really important question because it ABSOLUTELY affects your benefits. When you apply for CalWORKs, you declare that your children live with you and you're claiming them as dependents. If someone else claims them on taxes, it creates a contradiction that can trigger a fraud investigation. The tax system and benefit system do communicate with each other. I've seen cases where people lost benefits entirely and had to repay thousands in overpayments because of this exact situation.
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Benjamin Carter
•Oh no, I had no idea it was that serious! So even if the kids do live with me full-time, letting him claim them on taxes could still get me in trouble with CalWORKs?
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Isaac Wright
my cousin got into big truble for this last yr. her ex claimed the kids and she got a notice 4 months later saying she had an overpayment of like $4500 cuz she wasnt sposed to be getting benefits for kids that "dont live with her" according to taxes. she had to fight it for like 5 months to prove the kids actually lived with her even tho she let him claim them
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Benjamin Carter
•That's terrifying! I had no idea they would assume the kids don't live with me just because of taxes. Did your cousin eventually get it resolved or did she have to pay back all that money?
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Lucy Taylor
i let my kids dad claim them last year and nothing happened with my calfresh but now im worried reading these comments lol
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Maya Lewis
•You might have just gotten lucky so far. Sometimes the systems take time to catch up or flag these inconsistencies. I would strongly recommend not doing it again in the future to avoid potential problems.
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Connor Murphy
The problem is that when someone claims a child as a dependent on their taxes, they're declaring that the child lives with them for more than half the year. If you receive CalWORKs for those same children, you're declaring they live with you. These contradictory statements can trigger what's called an "IEVS match" (Income and Eligibility Verification System) where tax data is compared to benefit data. You have a few options: 1. Only allow him to claim the children if you have court documentation showing a legal right to do so despite the children living with you (some custody agreements specify this) 2. Report to your eligibility worker if you do let him claim them (but this could reduce your benefits) 3. Decline his offer and claim the children yourself as you're legally entitled to do if they live with you The monetary offer he's making isn't worth the risk of benefit termination and potential overpayment recovery.
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Benjamin Carter
•Thank you for explaining this so clearly. We don't have any formal custody agreement, just a verbal understanding. I had no idea I could end up owing thousands back to the county. Definitely not worth the risk for a few hundred dollars from him.
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KhalilStar
Has anyone tried calling the county to ask about this without giving their name? I'm curious if they have a clear policy. Sometimes I feel like different workers tell you different things.
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Amelia Dietrich
•Tried that once for a similar question and they wouldn't give me a straight answer without my case info. Getting through to a CalWORKs worker was impossible anyway - I kept getting disconnected after waiting forever. I finally used Claimyr (claimyr.com) and got through in like 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/jzISHxCPLwE. It was worth it because I actually got to talk to someone who could look at my specific case and give me the right answer instead of general info.
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Kaiya Rivera
OMG THE COUNTY WILL ABSOLUTELY FIND OUT!! I made this mistake in 2024 and I'm STILL dealing with the fallout! My ex claimed our daughter on his taxes even though she lives with me 100% of the time and I get CalWORKs. Six months later I got a Notice of Action saying I was overpaid almost $6,000 because my daughter "wasn't in the home" according to tax records!!!! I had to get proof from her school, doctor, and even neighbors writing statements that she lives with me. It was a NIGHTMARE and I'm still fighting it. DON'T DO IT!!!
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Benjamin Carter
•That's absolutely terrifying. I had no idea they would just assume she wasn't living with you. Did you have any warning this might happen or did the notice just show up out of nowhere?
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Kaiya Rivera
•NO WARNING AT ALL!!! Just a notice in the mail one day saying I owed all this money back! And they reduced my current benefits while investigating too which made everything worse. The worst part is they act like YOU did something wrong even when you're trying to explain. Get everything in writing if you talk to them about ANYTHING!
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Connor Murphy
There's another important aspect to consider: the Earned Income Tax Credit (EITC). If you qualify for CalWORKs, you likely qualify for EITC when filing taxes, which could be worth more than what your ex is offering to give you. By letting him claim the children, you're potentially losing out on tax credits that would benefit you more than his offer. Additionally, there's a specific question on the Semi-Annual Report (SAR7) about whether anyone else has claimed your child as a dependent. If you answer no but someone else has, that's considered misrepresentation.
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Benjamin Carter
•I didn't even think about the EITC! I've always gotten a decent refund because of it. You're right - I might be giving up more than he's offering me. And I definitely don't want to lie on my SAR7. Based on everyone's advice, I'm going to tell him I can't let him claim the kids. Thank you all so much for the warnings and advice!
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Lucy Taylor
wat if ur not on the lease where u live? can they still check if kids live with u?
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Connor Murphy
•Yes, they absolutely can. The county has many ways to verify residency besides a lease. They can look at school records, medical records, statements from landlords (even without a formal lease), utility bills, and can even do home visits if they suspect fraud. Being off the lease doesn't prevent them from investigating where your children actually live.
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