Social Security combining spousal and earned benefits - deposit dates confusing me
I just turned 67 last month and filed for my SS retirement benefits. My wife (62) has been receiving her retirement benefits for about a year now. When I spoke with the SSA rep about my application, they mentioned something about me getting a spousal benefit on top of my own benefit because my wife's work history is longer than mine. I'm confused about how this actually works with deposits. Will I get two separate payments each month? Or do they combine them into one deposit? And if it's combined, will I get paid based on my birthday or my wife's birthday? The SSA rep rushed through this part and I forgot to ask for clarification.
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Nasira Ibanez
they combine it into 1 payment, you'll never even see the breakdown unless you look at your benefit verification letter. its all 1 deposit based on YOUR birthday not your wifes.
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Hugo Kass
•Thanks for the quick reply! That makes sense. So I'll get my payment on the schedule based on my birth date, not hers. That's a relief - was worried about keeping track of two different payment dates.
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Khalil Urso
The previous response is correct - SSA combines any dual entitlement into a single monthly payment. Your payment date is determined by your own birthday, not your spouse's. To explain a bit more thoroughly: when you're eligible for both your own retirement benefit and a spousal benefit, SSA doesn't actually pay you both full amounts. They pay your own retirement benefit in full, then they add only enough of the spousal benefit to bring your total up to the higher amount (if applicable). For example, if your own benefit is $1,800 and your spousal benefit would be $1,000, you don't get $2,800. You get $1,800 (your own benefit). But if your own benefit is $1,000 and the spousal benefit would be $1,200, you'd get $1,200 total ($1,000 from your own benefit plus $200 partial spousal). This combined amount arrives as a single direct deposit on the schedule determined by your birth date (2nd, 3rd, or 4th Wednesday of the month).
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Hugo Kass
•This is SUPER helpful, thank you! So to make sure I understand - if my own benefit is less than what I'd get as a spouse, they'll top it up to match the spousal amount? And it all comes as one payment? That makes the budgeting easier at least.
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Myles Regis
•wait does this mean my husband can get benefits from MY record even tho he never worked??? he's been a stay at home dad for 25 years and i make good money.
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Khalil Urso
@profile7 - Yes, your husband can potentially receive spousal benefits based on your earnings record even if he has little or no work history of his own. He would be eligible for up to 50% of your full retirement benefit amount (if he waits until his own full retirement age to claim). If he claims earlier than his full retirement age, the amount would be reduced.
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Myles Regis
•wow thats great!!! i had no idea. he's 63 now and i'm 61 still working. so he could get benefits now even tho i'm not collecting yet???
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Brian Downey
•NO! Your husband cannot collect spousal benefits until YOU file for your own benefits. This is a common misconception. He can only get spousal benefits once you start collecting your retirement benefits.
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Jacinda Yu
Just want to add my experience - my husband receives a combined payment that includes both his own retirement benefit and a partial spousal benefit (since I was the higher earner). It comes as one single direct deposit on the 3rd Wednesday because his birthday is on the 16th. The deposit date is definitely based on HIS birthday, not mine. BTW if you're having trouble getting through to SSA to ask follow-up questions (their phone lines are TERRIBLE), I used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) last month when I needed to sort out an underpayment issue. They got me connected to a real SSA agent in about 20 minutes instead of waiting for hours or getting disconnected. There's a video showing how it works here: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU
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Hugo Kass
•Thanks for sharing your real experience - that confirms what others have said. And thanks for the tip about Claimyr! I've been trying to call SSA for days with no luck. Will definitely check that out because I still have some questions about how this affects our tax situation.
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Landon Flounder
SSA completely messed up my spousal benefit calculation when I applied last year!!! They didn't include my husband's military earnings in his PIA calculation which affected my spousal amount. Took SEVEN MONTHS to get it fixed and get backpay. Make sure you check your award letter carefully when you get it!!!
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Callum Savage
•This is really important advice. The determination letter you'll receive should show both your own Primary Insurance Amount (PIA) and any additional amount coming from spousal benefits. If the numbers don't look right based on what you know about your and your wife's earnings histories, request a reconsideration promptly. You only have 60 days from receiving the determination to appeal.
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Brian Downey
The payment schedule depends on your birthday: - Born on 1st-10th: Second Wednesday - Born on 11th-20th: Third Wednesday - Born on 21st-31st: Fourth Wednesday If you started receiving benefits before May 1997, you get paid on the 3rd of each month regardless of birthdate.
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Hugo Kass
•Thank you for that breakdown! My birthday is on the 24th, so looks like I'll be in the fourth Wednesday group. Good to know exactly when to expect it.
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Myles Regis
my dad gets his SS and then a seperate payment for his VA benefits. maybe ur thinking of something like that? SS is just one payment tho
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Khalil Urso
•That's correct - VA benefits and Social Security benefits are from different federal agencies, so they come as separate payments. But within Social Security itself, all benefits you're entitled to (retirement, spousal, survivor, etc.) are combined into a single monthly payment.
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Nasira Ibanez
btw make sure ur wife knows about the earnings test if shes only 62 and still working! they take back $1 for every $2 she earns over $22,320 in 2025 until she reaches her FRA
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Hugo Kass
•She actually retired completely last year, so no issues with the earnings test. But thanks for mentioning it - I know that trips up a lot of people!
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Daniel White
One thing to keep in mind - when you get your first combined payment, it might be prorated if you're starting mid-month. Don't panic if the first deposit looks lower than expected! SSA typically pays benefits for the month after you're entitled, so if you became eligible in February, your first payment in March might only cover part of February. The following month should be the full combined amount. Also, if there are any delays in processing the spousal benefit portion, they'll send you retroactive payments to make up the difference.
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Harold Oh
•That's really good to know about the prorated first payment! I was wondering why my first deposit might look different. So if I became eligible in February, my March payment would only be for the partial February period, and then April would be the full monthly amount? And any delays in calculating the spousal portion get made up retroactively - that's reassuring since I know SSA can be slow with processing sometimes.
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Freya Larsen
Hugo, I'm in a very similar situation - just filed at 67 and my husband has been collecting for a while. One thing I learned that might help you: when SSA processes dual entitlement cases like yours, there can sometimes be a delay between when your own retirement benefit starts and when they add the spousal portion. Don't be surprised if your first few payments are just your own retirement amount, and then you get a lump sum adjustment later once they finish calculating the spousal benefit. This happened to me - took about 6 weeks for them to sort out the spousal calculation and then I got a nice retroactive payment to make up the difference. The combined amount has been coming as one deposit ever since, right on schedule based on my birthday. Keep your paperwork handy in case you need to follow up!
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Kolton Murphy
•Thanks Freya, this is exactly what I was worried about! Good to know that the delay between the retirement benefit starting and the spousal portion being added is normal. I'll definitely keep all my paperwork organized and not panic if the first few payments are lower than expected. Did you have to do anything to follow up during those 6 weeks, or did it all get sorted out automatically? I'm trying to figure out if I should be proactive about checking on the status or just wait it out.
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