Social Security spousal benefits calculation at 62 - will my wife get more than her own $425 benefit?
I started collecting Social Security at 62 last month and receive $2,450 monthly. My wife turns 62 next month and we're trying to figure out her best option. She worked part-time for several years while raising our kids, so she only qualifies for about $425/month on her own record. I've heard she might get more with a spousal benefit based on my earnings, but I'm confused about how this works when we're both taking benefits early. Does she automatically get both benefits combined? Do we need to apply separately for the spousal portion? And will her benefit amount be reduced because she's not at full retirement age? Any guidance would be really appreciated!
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Ava Harris
Here's how spousal benefits work in your situation. Your wife can receive up to 50% of your Primary Insurance Amount (PIA) - that's what you would receive at your full retirement age, not your reduced benefit. However, since she's taking benefits at 62, her spousal benefit will be permanently reduced to about 32.5% of your PIA instead of the full 50%. The SSA will automatically pay her own earned benefit plus the additional spousal amount to reach the higher spousal level. She doesn't get both full amounts added together. You should contact SSA to apply for spousal benefits - they aren't automatic. Also consider that if you pass away, she would be eligible for survivor benefits, which could be 71.5% of your benefit amount if claimed at her current age.
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Chloe Delgado
•Thanks for explaining! So if I understand correctly, if my full retirement age benefit would have been around $3,200, her maximum spousal benefit at FRA would be $1,600, but since she's taking it at 62, it would be reduced to about $1,040? And then SSA would pay her $425 from her own record plus $615 in spousal benefits to reach that $1,040? Is that right?
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Jacob Lee
My wife did something similar last year. Make sure you're both on the same SSA record! When she applies they will look at both her own benefit and the spousal benefit and give her whichever is higher, NOT both combined. And yeah the early claiming reduction is pretty steep on spousal benefits!! She got way less than she thought she would. Good luck!
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Emily Thompson
•Wait I'm confused. I thought spouses always get half of the other persons benefit?? My aunt gets exactly half of what my uncle gets, she told me. Is it different for different people or something?
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Sophie Hernandez
The spousal benefit calculation is a bit complex. Here are the key factors: 1. Your wife will get her own benefit OR up to 50% of your PIA (your full retirement age benefit before any reductions), whichever is HIGHER - not both added together 2. Taking spousal benefits at age 62 results in a maximum of about 32.5% of your PIA due to early claiming reduction 3. The actual math: If your FRA benefit is $3,200, the maximum spousal benefit at her FRA would be $1,600. At age 62, it's reduced to approximately $1,040. Since her own benefit is $425, she would receive a total of $1,040 (not $1,465) I recommend calling SSA directly to get the exact calculation for your situation. You can also check the SSA benefit calculators on their website.
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Daniela Rossi
•op should also know that any spousal benefits are only available AFTER the higher-earning spouse files for their own benefits. since you're already collecting this isnt an issue but just fyi for anyone else reading!
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Ryan Kim
GOOD LUCK getting accurate info from the SSA!!!! I spent MONTHS trying to sort out my wife's spousal benefits and got a different answer EVERY TIME I called. One rep told me she'd get $900, another said $740, and when the benefit finally started it was $825!!! The whole system is a MESS. And don't even get me started on the hours I wasted on hold...
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Zoe Walker
•I had the same issue trying to reach SSA about my spousal benefits last month. After four failed attempts (disconnected twice!), I tried Claimyr.com and got through to an agent in under 30 minutes. They have this video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. Seriously saved my sanity. The agent I spoke with gave me a complete breakdown of how my spousal benefit was calculated, which was super helpful.
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Emily Thompson
just went through this with my husband last year. so many confusing rules! remember her benefit is permanently reduced if she takes it at 62. has she considered waiting until her full retirement age? the difference can be pretty significant, especially if shes in good health and might live a long time
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Chloe Delgado
•We've discussed waiting, but our financial situation makes it difficult to get by on just my reduced benefit. I wonder if there's a calculator that could show us the lifetime difference between taking it now versus waiting? That might help us decide if we should try to make it work for a few more years.
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Daniela Rossi
when she applies make sure she specifically mentions wanting spousal benefits cuz sometimes they just automatically give the person their own benefit without checking if they qualify for more on their spouse's record this happened to my sister and she had to go back and fix it what a headache
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Jacob Lee
•Exactly! My cousin didn't mention spousal benefits when applying and they only gave her own benefit. She lost 3 months of higher payments before she realized the mistake. Call the SSA and specifically say you're applying for "retirement and spousal benefits" not just retirement.
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Ava Harris
One more thing to consider: if either of you are still working, the earnings test might reduce your benefits. In 2025, if you earn more than $22,750 (for those under FRA), your benefits are reduced by $1 for every $2 you earn above that limit. This applies to both regular retirement and spousal benefits.
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Chloe Delgado
•Thank you for mentioning this. I'm fully retired but my wife still does occasional consulting work. She might earn about $15,000 this year, so it sounds like we'd be under that earnings limit.
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Jacob Lee
do you guys know if they send the spousal money separate or is it all together in one payment? and is it on the same day as the regular ss payment?
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Sophie Hernandez
•They combine everything into one payment. Your wife will receive a single direct deposit or check that includes both her retirement benefit and the spousal supplement. Payment dates are determined by birth dates - if her birthday is between the 1st-10th, she'll be paid on the second Wednesday; 11th-20th, third Wednesday; 21st-31st, fourth Wednesday of each month.
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Admin_Masters
I'm in a similar situation and found it helpful to request a Social Security Statement online at ssa.gov to see your wife's exact Primary Insurance Amount (PIA) and projected benefits. This gives you the precise numbers to work with rather than estimates. Also, when you call SSA, ask them to walk through the "deemed filing" rules - since your wife will be under full retirement age, she'll automatically be considered to be filing for both her own retirement benefit AND spousal benefits simultaneously. They're required to give her whichever amount is higher. One tip: get the benefit estimate in writing (ask them to mail it) so you have documentation of what they told you, given how inconsistent phone representatives can be.
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Natasha Volkova
•This is really helpful advice! I didn't know about the "deemed filing" rule - that explains why some people were saying she can't choose just one benefit or the other. Getting the estimate in writing is a great tip too, especially after reading about all the inconsistent information people have gotten from phone reps. I'll definitely have her create an account on ssa.gov to get her official statement before we call. Thanks for the detailed explanation!
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Isla Fischer
As someone who just navigated this process with my spouse, I'd recommend calling SSA and asking for a "spousal benefit estimate" specifically. When my husband applied at 62, they initially only processed his own retirement benefit and we had to call back to add the spousal component. The key thing to understand is that your wife will receive the HIGHER of either her own $425 benefit OR the reduced spousal benefit (about 32.5% of your full retirement age benefit). She won't get both amounts stacked together. Also, make sure to apply soon after she turns 62 - spousal benefits can't be paid retroactively for more than 6 months. The SSA website has a retirement estimator tool that might help you run different scenarios before making the call.
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Olivia Harris
•This is exactly the kind of practical advice I was hoping for! I didn't realize spousal benefits can't be paid retroactively for more than 6 months - that's really important timing information. We'll make sure to apply right after she turns 62 next month. The retirement estimator tool sounds like a great place to start before we make the call. It's reassuring to hear from someone who just went through this process successfully. Did you find that having specific questions written down beforehand helped when you called SSA?
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Romeo Barrett
One thing I'd add that hasn't been mentioned yet - if your wife has worked in a government job or for certain employers that don't pay into Social Security (like some teachers or postal workers), she might be subject to the Government Pension Offset (GPO). This could reduce or even eliminate her spousal benefits. Also, double-check that you both have your earnings records correct on your Social Security statements before applying - any missing or incorrect earnings could affect the benefit calculations. I've seen cases where people discovered years of missing earnings that significantly boosted their benefits once corrected. The SSA has a process to correct earnings records, but it's much easier to catch these issues before you start collecting benefits rather than after.
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Emily Nguyen-Smith
•Great point about the Government Pension Offset! That's something we definitely need to check. My wife did work for the school district for a few years early in her career, but I believe they did pay into Social Security. We'll make sure to verify this when we review her earnings record. The tip about checking earnings records before applying is really valuable too - I hadn't thought about that. Is there a specific timeframe for correcting missing earnings, or can you fix those issues anytime? We want to make sure we get this right the first time rather than having to deal with corrections later.
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Liam Sullivan
Just wanted to add that you should also consider the long-term impact on Medicare premiums. When your wife starts receiving Social Security benefits, her Medicare Part B and Part D premiums (when she becomes eligible at 65) will be based on her modified adjusted gross income from two years prior. If she's still doing consulting work, the combined income from both your Social Security benefits plus any work income could potentially push you into higher Medicare premium brackets. It might be worth consulting with a financial planner who specializes in retirement benefits to run some projections on the total impact - not just the immediate Social Security benefit amounts, but also how it affects your overall tax situation and future Medicare costs. The decision isn't just about maximizing Social Security; it's about optimizing your entire retirement income strategy.
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Fatima Al-Hashemi
•This is such an important perspective that I hadn't considered! The Medicare premium implications are definitely something we need to factor into our decision. With my wife's consulting income plus both our Social Security benefits, we could potentially be looking at higher IRMAA surcharges down the road. Do you happen to know what the income thresholds are for the Medicare premium adjustments? It sounds like we really should sit down with a financial planner before making this decision - there are so many interconnected pieces that I'm starting to realize we might be missing. Thanks for bringing up this broader view of retirement planning!
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QuantumQuasar
I went through this exact same situation with my husband two years ago! One thing that really helped us was creating a simple spreadsheet to compare scenarios. We calculated what my wife would get taking spousal benefits at 62 versus waiting until full retirement age, then factored in the total amount she'd receive over different lifespans (like age 80, 85, 90). The break-even point was around age 78-79 in our case. Also, don't forget that once you start receiving spousal benefits, you can't switch strategies later - it's a permanent decision. Given that your wife's own benefit is relatively low at $425, the spousal benefit will almost certainly be higher even with the early claiming reduction. I'd also suggest calling SSA during off-peak hours (mid-morning on weekdays) to avoid long hold times. Good luck navigating this - it's confusing but you'll get through it!
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Isabella Oliveira
•This spreadsheet approach sounds incredibly helpful! I'm definitely going to set something like this up to visualize the different scenarios. The break-even analysis at different life expectancies is exactly what we need to make an informed decision. You're absolutely right that with her $425 benefit being so low, the spousal benefit will almost certainly be better even with the reduction. I appreciate the tip about calling during off-peak hours too - that could save us a lot of frustration. Did you find that the SSA reps were able to give you the specific numbers you needed for your calculations, or did you have to piece together the information from multiple sources?
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Ava Rodriguez
•The spreadsheet idea is brilliant! I'm going to create one right away. Quick question though - when you calculated the break-even point, did you factor in any cost-of-living adjustments (COLA) to the benefits over time? I'm wondering if that would shift the break-even age at all. Also, since you mentioned it's a permanent decision, I assume there's no way to "undo" taking spousal benefits early if circumstances change later? That makes getting this right the first time even more important.
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Adaline Wong
•Yes, I did include COLA adjustments in my spreadsheet - I used the historical average of about 2.5% annually, though it varies year to year. It didn't dramatically shift the break-even point, maybe by 6-8 months. And you're correct - once you start taking reduced spousal benefits at 62, that reduction is permanent. Even if you change your mind later, you can't "restart" at a higher amount. The only exception is if you're within 12 months of first claiming and can afford to pay back all benefits received, but that's rarely practical. That's why running these numbers beforehand is so crucial. One more tip: when I called SSA, I had much better luck getting detailed calculations by asking to speak with a claims specialist rather than the general customer service line.
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