Social Security child benefits for my kids - confused about separate account requirements
Getting ready to file for Social Security next year (turning 62 in April 2025) and trying to understand the rules about my children's benefits. I have two daughters (ages 8 and 9) who'll qualify for benefits on my record. I've confirmed with SSA that we'll get approximately $750/month for each child on top of my retirement benefit. What's confusing me is how I'm supposed to handle these payments. Someone told me I MUST set up separate bank accounts for each child and have their benefits direct deposited there, or I could get in serious trouble. They said if I don't document every penny spent on the kids, the SSA will demand all the money back when they turn 18? Is this true? Do I really need separate accounts? And what kind of records am I supposed to keep about how the money is spent? The SSA website isn't very clear about this. If anyone has experience with receiving child benefits while collecting retirement, I'd really appreciate your insights!
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Caden Turner
I went through this exact situation when I retired in 2023. Here's what you need to know about child's benefits when you're the representative payee: 1. The SSA prefers that you set up separate accounts for the children's benefits - it makes accounting cleaner. They should be dedicated accounts in your name as "representative payee for [child's name]" 2. You DON'T have to document every penny, but you do need to complete the annual Representative Payee Report (Form SSA-623) that basically asks you to categorize how the funds were spent (food, housing, education, etc.) 3. The money must be used for the children's current needs or saved for their future needs if current needs are met 4. You won't have to "pay it all back" unless you misuse the funds for something other than the children's needs Keep basic records of major expenses paid with the funds. Most families use these benefits for the children's share of housing, food, clothing, medical expenses not covered by insurance, school supplies, etc.
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Clarissa Flair
•Thank you so much for the detailed explanation! This makes way more sense than what I was told. So just to be clear - I don't need to track every dollar as long as I can generally account for how the money was spent on their needs when I file that annual report? And the separate accounts are preferred but not absolutely required?
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McKenzie Shade
When my husband retired in 2024 with our younger kids, we were TOLD by the SSA office that separate accounts were MANDATORY!!!! We had to bring bank statements to our local office TWICE to prove the money was being used for the kids. The SSA worker was VERY clear that if we couldn't document everything, they would make us pay it all back. Maybe it depends on your local office? But I wouldn't risk it. Just open the separate accounts and keep ALL receipts for ANYTHING you buy for the kids using that money. Better safe than sorry!
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Harmony Love
•same thing happened to my sister. different offices seem to have different rules i guess
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Rudy Cenizo
I've been a representative payee for my grandchildren for 3 years. Here's the actual policy: The Social Security Administration strongly recommends separate accounts, but it's not technically required by law. What IS required is that you keep clear records showing the benefits were used for the children. As a representative payee, you have to file Form SSA-623 annually. This is a simple accounting of how benefits were spent (food, housing, clothing, medical, education, etc.). You don't need to attach receipts when you submit it, but you should keep records in case of an audit. Separate accounts make this accounting much easier. If you commingle the funds with your own money, you'll have a much harder time proving how the benefits were used if you're ever questioned. One more thing - any benefits not needed for current maintenance should be saved in an account that earns interest, preferably an FDIC-insured account.
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Clarissa Flair
•This is really helpful context - thank you! It sounds like separate accounts are more about making the accounting easier rather than a strict legal requirement. I think I'll set up the separate accounts anyway to avoid any potential issues. Is there a specific type of account you'd recommend?
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Natalie Khan
I've been trying to reach someone at Social Security for WEEKS to ask similar questions about my grandson's benefits. Every time I call, I'm on hold for hours and then get disconnected. The website is no help either - just generic information, nothing specific. I finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an actual SSA agent in 20 minutes! They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU The agent I spoke with confirmed that you should have dedicated accounts as a representative payee, but the main requirement is proper accounting of how the funds are used. I was also told they rarely request documentation unless they suspect misuse of funds.
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Clarissa Flair
•Thanks for the tip about Claimyr. I might need that since I've also had trouble getting through to SSA. Glad to hear another confirmation about the dedicated accounts being recommended but not strictly required as long as I keep good records.
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Daryl Bright
i get benefits for my kid and nobody ever said nothing about separate accounts. been getting them for 2 years and just use the money for rent and food and stuff. never had any problems with ss asking for receipts
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McKenzie Shade
•You're LUCKY then! Our office is super strict and threatened to report us for fraud if we didn't document everything!!
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Sienna Gomez
Something nobody mentioned - you should also check if your kids qualify for larger benefits! My friend's husband passed away and she was getting $850 per child in 2024 on his record. If your benefit is lower, maybe wait til your Full Retirement Age? I don't really understand all the rules but I think kids can get more if you get more.
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Caden Turner
•You're mixing up survivor benefits (when a parent dies) with child's benefits on a living parent's record. The maximum a child can receive on a living parent's record is 50% of the parent's Primary Insurance Amount, whereas survivor benefits can be up to 75% per child. The situations are quite different. But you do make a good point that the parent's filing age affects everyone's benefits. Filing at 62 means a permanently reduced benefit for the parent, but the children still get 50% of what the full benefit would have been at FRA. The family maximum benefit (which applies when multiple people collect on one record) may come into play here as well.
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Harmony Love
my daughter gets ss benefits and we just put it in our regular account. been doing it for years no problem. as long as the money goes to the kid who cares what account its in right?
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Rudy Cenizo
•While many people do this without issues, it's technically not following SSA guidelines for representative payees. The problem arises if you're ever audited or if someone reports suspected misuse of benefits. Without separate accounts, it becomes very difficult to prove the benefits were used appropriately for the child. The SSA can and does conduct random reviews of representative payees. If they find the funds were misused, you could be required to repay benefits and potentially face penalties. Just because you haven't had issues so far doesn't mean it's the correct approach.
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McKenzie Shade
Does anyone know if these child benefits count towards the earnings limit if I'm working part-time? I heard there's a limit of like $22,000 or something before they start reducing benefits?
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Caden Turner
•No, the children's benefits do NOT count toward your earnings limit. The earnings test (which is $22,560 for 2025 if you're under Full Retirement Age the whole year) only applies to your work income, not to any benefits received. However, if YOU exceed the earnings limit, it affects both your benefit AND any benefits payable to others (like your children) on your record. For every $2 you earn above the limit, SSA withholds $1 in total family benefits.
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Clarissa Flair
Thank you everyone for the helpful responses! Based on all your advice, I'm going to: 1. Set up separate accounts for each child's benefits (seems like the safest approach) 2. Keep basic records of how the money is spent on their needs 3. Make sure I understand the annual reporting requirements It sounds like there's some variation in how strictly different SSA offices enforce things, so I'll err on the side of caution. Really appreciate everyone sharing their experiences!
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