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Ava Rodriguez

Social Security benefits for adopted children when retiring early at 62 - how to estimate?

I'm planning to file for my Social Security retirement in March when I turn 62. I have custody of 3 adopted children (ages 8, 10, and 12) who I understand will also be eligible for benefits since they're still minors. My Social Security statement shows my PIA (Primary Insurance Amount) would be around $2,050 if I waited until full retirement age, but obviously I'm taking it early. I've been trying to figure out what my kids might receive, but the SSA website is pretty confusing on this. I think they get some percentage of my PIA, not my reduced amount? And there's some family maximum that kicks in? I'm really confused about how to estimate what they might receive. Has anyone gone through this? How can I calculate approximately what the kids will get each month? I need to plan our budget for after I retire. Thanks for any help!

Miguel Diaz

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Yes, your children will be eligible for benefits based on your record! Each child can receive up to 50% of your PIA ($2,050), regardless of you taking early retirement. So potentially up to $1,025 per child. However, there's a Family Maximum Benefit (FMB) that will likely come into play with 3 children. The formula is complicated, but typically ranges from 150% to 180% of your PIA. So if your FMB is around 175% of your PIA, that would be approximately $3,587. The total benefits paid to your family members (not including you) cannot exceed the difference between your FMB and your benefit amount. Your early retirement at 62 will reduce your benefit to about 70% of your PIA, so roughly $1,435. That leaves about $2,152 to be divided equally among your three children, so around $717 per child. This is a rough estimate - Social Security will calculate the exact amounts when you apply.

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Ava Rodriguez

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Thank you so much for this explanation! So if I'm understanding correctly, my reduced benefit will be around $1,435, and then each child would get approximately $717? That actually helps a lot with my planning. Does this mean I should file for the children at the same time I file for my retirement, or is that a separate process?

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Zainab Ahmed

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when I retired my grandkids got benefits to. you have to go in person to the office and bring the adoption papers and birth certificates they DONT let you do this online.

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Ava Rodriguez

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Thanks for that info! Did you find it difficult to get an appointment at the SSA office? I've heard the wait times can be really long these days.

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I went through EXACTLY this situation 2 years ago, except I had 2 adopted kids. The person above gave mostly correct info, but there's one thing you should know - when my benefits started, there was a 2-month delay for the kids' benefits to begin. Something about processing time for dependent benefits. Make sure you have certified copies of the adoption decrees and birth certificates. They wouldn't accept my photocopies and I had to reschedule my appointment. Also, they'll deposit the kids' money separately from yours - you'll need to set up representative payee accounts. They'll explain this when you apply, but basically you'll manage separate accounts for each child's benefits until they turn 18.

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AstroAlpha

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This is right about the rep payee accounts! I had to do this for my grandkids and they WILL check how your spending the money. Keep reciepts for big purchases made with the kids benefits!! they audited me after the first year and I had to show where all the money went. Just a heads up on that part

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Yara Khoury

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I had a TERRIBLE time trying to get this set up for my kids. Went to the office THREE TIMES because they kept saying documents were missing. Then they calculated everything wrong and I had to file an appeal. The whole process took SEVEN MONTHS before my kids got a single payment!!! The SSA is completely BROKEN. They're understaffed and nobody knows what they're doing anymore. Sorry to be negative but I just want you to be prepared for a complete disaster. And good luck trying to get anyone on the phone - I spent HOURS on hold only to get disconnected!!

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Keisha Taylor

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Paolo Longo

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have u considerd waiting till your FRA to get the full amout? taking early at 62 is a BIG cut and permanant. with 3 kids maybe worth waiting???

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Ava Rodriguez

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I wish I could wait, but unfortunately I have some health issues that make it difficult to keep working. My doctor actually suggested I look into disability, but the process seems even more complicated and I'm so close to 62 anyway. It's definitely a tough decision though - that reduction is significant.

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Miguel Diaz

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To answer your question about filing - yes, you should file for the children's benefits at the same time you file for your retirement. It's all part of the same process, though they'll need to set up the representative payee arrangement the other poster mentioned. One important note: If you're still planning to work after claiming benefits at 62, be aware of the earnings limit ($2,090/month for 2025). If you earn above this amount, both your benefits AND your children's benefits could be reduced until you reach your full retirement age. This catches many people by surprise.

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Ava Rodriguez

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Oh wow, I didn't realize the earnings limit would affect the kids' benefits too! That's really important to know. I was considering some part-time work, but maybe I need to keep it very limited to stay under that threshold. Thank you for pointing this out!

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Zainab Ahmed

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my sister tried to do this online and got denied. then went to the office and got approved right away. somethign about them needing to verify the kids in person i think?? anyway good luck!!

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One other thing to be aware of - the children's benefits will continue until they graduate high school (or age 19, whichever comes first), not just until they turn 18. That extra year of benefits can make a difference for college planning. Also, the family maximum can change slightly if your PIA is recalculated due to annual COLA increases. It usually goes up a bit each year, which might mean small increases to the children's benefit amounts over time. Nothing dramatic, but worth knowing.

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Ava Rodriguez

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That's great to know about the benefits continuing through high school graduation. Our oldest will turn 18 during his senior year, so that extra time will definitely help. Is there a way to get an official calculation from SSA before I actually file? I'd really like to know the exact numbers so I can make solid plans.

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Miguel Diaz

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Yes, you can request an appointment with an SSA claims specialist who can provide you with benefit estimates for both yourself and your children before you file. Call the main SSA number (1-800-772-1213) to schedule, or visit your local office. Bring your most recent Social Security statement and the children's documents (birth certificates, adoption papers, and their Social Security cards) to the appointment. The specialist can run the calculations with your specific details and give you a much more accurate estimate than we can provide here. They can also explain the representative payee responsibilities and answer any questions about how the benefits work.

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AstroAlpha

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Good luck getting through on that number lol... I called for THREE DAYS straight and never got anyone. The waiting time was always "over 2 hours" and then I'd get disconnected! The offices around here need appointments weeks in advance too. The system is broken!!

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Darren Brooks

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I'm in a similar situation with my adopted daughter and found the SSA.gov benefit calculators pretty helpful for getting ballpark estimates before making the appointment. There's a retirement estimator that lets you plug in different scenarios - it won't calculate the kids' benefits directly, but it'll give you your reduced benefit amount at 62 which helps with the family maximum calculations others mentioned. Also, regarding the appointment scheduling - I had better luck calling right when they open at 8 AM local time. The wait was still long but I actually got through. Another tip: if you have a local SSA office, try walking in early in the morning to see if they have any same-day appointments available. Sometimes they hold a few spots for walk-ins, especially for people with more complex situations like yours with multiple dependents. The whole process is definitely confusing, but once you get the right person at SSA they're usually pretty good at explaining everything step by step. Good luck with your retirement planning!

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Emma Wilson

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Thanks for the tip about calling at 8 AM - I'll definitely try that! I hadn't thought about the SSA.gov calculators either, that's a smart approach to at least get some baseline numbers before the appointment. The walk-in suggestion is interesting too. Do you remember roughly how early you went to get a same-day slot? I'm wondering if it's worth driving to the office before they open or if showing up around opening time is sufficient. Really appreciate all the practical advice - this whole process feels overwhelming but everyone's tips are making it seem more manageable!

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Ethan Taylor

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I actually just went through this exact process last year with my two adopted grandchildren when I filed at 62. One thing I wish someone had told me earlier - make sure you have MULTIPLE certified copies of all the adoption documents. The SSA office kept one set, but then I needed another set later when setting up the representative payee accounts at the bank. Getting additional certified copies after the fact was a hassle and delayed things by a few weeks. Also, regarding the timing - I'd recommend starting the process about 3 months before you want benefits to begin. Even though they say it takes 30-45 days, with dependent benefits involved it often takes longer, especially if there are any questions about the documentation. One more tip: when you do get the representative payee accounts set up, consider opening them at a bank that has good online tools for tracking expenses. SSA can ask for detailed reports on how you spent the children's benefits, and having digital records makes that annual reporting much easier. Some banks even have specific representative payee account features that help with this tracking. The whole process is definitely worth it though - those benefits will make a real difference for your kids' future!

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Omar Farouk

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This is such valuable advice, thank you! The tip about multiple certified copies is really smart - I can definitely see how you'd need them for different parts of the process. I'll make sure to get several sets of everything before I start. Three months ahead sounds like good timing too. I was thinking of starting the process just a month before, but with everything you've described, I can see why it takes longer when kids are involved. The bank suggestion is brilliant - I hadn't even thought about the annual reporting requirements yet. Do you remember roughly what kind of documentation SSA wanted to see? Like receipts for everything, or just major expenses? I want to make sure I'm prepared for that part too. Thanks again for sharing your experience - it's so helpful to hear from someone who actually went through this recently!

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Diego Ramirez

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I went through a similar situation about 5 years ago when I retired at 62 with custody of my nephew. A few additional things to keep in mind that I learned the hard way: The SSA office will want to see proof that you're actually supporting the children financially - not just the adoption papers. I had to bring utility bills, lease agreements, and school enrollment records showing the kids lived with me. They were pretty thorough about verifying the living situation. Also, be prepared for the benefits to potentially fluctuate slightly each year. When your earnings record gets updated with your final year of work, and with annual COLA adjustments, the calculations can change a bit. It's usually small increases, but it's good to know it's not a fixed amount forever. One thing that really helped me was keeping a simple spreadsheet of all the kids' expenses (housing, food, medical, school supplies, etc.) from the start. When SSA asked for the annual representative payee report, I already had everything organized. They mainly want to see that the money is being used for the children's basic needs and welfare - you don't need receipts for every grocery trip, but keeping track of major expenses like medical bills, school costs, and clothing is smart. The whole process was definitely worth it despite the paperwork. Those monthly payments made a huge difference in our household budget during my early retirement years.

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Zainab Khalil

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This is incredibly helpful information! I hadn't even considered that they'd want proof of me actually supporting the kids beyond just the adoption papers. That makes total sense though - I'll make sure to gather utility bills and school records showing they live with me. The spreadsheet idea is brilliant too. I'm pretty organized with finances anyway, so starting that tracking system now before I even apply seems like a smart move. Better to have too much documentation than not enough when that annual report comes due. It's reassuring to hear that the benefits were worth all the paperwork hassle. With three kids, every bit of financial help will definitely make a difference in our budget. Thanks for taking the time to share all these practical details from your experience!

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Malik Thomas

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Just want to add one more thing that might be helpful - when you go to your SSA appointment, ask them to print out the benefit calculation worksheet for you. They don't always offer this automatically, but it shows exactly how they arrived at the family maximum and individual benefit amounts. Having that document was really useful for me when I needed to explain the benefits to my bank when setting up the representative payee accounts. Also, if you have any life insurance policies or other benefits through your employer that might be affected by your early retirement, make sure to coordinate the timing. I almost lost out on some employer benefits because I didn't realize there was a specific order I needed to file things in. The process really isn't as scary as it seems once you get started - just make sure you have all your documents organized and be prepared for it to take a bit longer than you initially expect. The peace of mind knowing your kids will have that financial support makes all the paperwork worth it!

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This is such great advice about asking for the calculation worksheet! I never would have thought to request that, but I can see how having those exact numbers in writing would be really helpful for the bank and for my own records. The point about coordinating with employer benefits is really important too - I do have some life insurance through work that I need to make sure doesn't get affected by the timing of my retirement filing. I'll definitely check on that before I submit anything. Everyone's responses here have been so incredibly helpful. I was feeling pretty overwhelmed when I first posted, but now I feel like I have a solid roadmap of what to expect and how to prepare. Thanks to everyone who shared their experiences - this community is amazing!

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I'm a case worker who helps families navigate Social Security benefits, and I wanted to add a few professional insights to this excellent discussion. First, regarding timing - I always recommend applying 3-4 months before you want benefits to start, especially with dependent children involved. The processing can be slower when multiple beneficiaries are on one record, and any missing documentation can add weeks to the timeline. One thing I haven't seen mentioned yet: if any of your adopted children have disabilities or special needs, they may be eligible for different benefit calculations or extended benefits beyond age 18/19. Make sure to mention any disabilities during your appointment, as this could significantly impact their long-term benefit eligibility. Also, keep in mind that if you remarry after starting benefits, it generally won't affect your children's benefits, but it's something to be aware of for future planning. The representative payee reporting isn't as scary as it sounds - SSA mainly wants to see that funds are used appropriately for the children's needs (housing, food, clothing, education, medical care). Keep receipts for major purchases, but you don't need to account for every dollar spent. Best of luck with your retirement planning! Your children are fortunate to have someone thinking so carefully about their financial future.

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