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Social Security child benefits - which parent should apply when one has much higher FRA benefits?

I'm turning 62 in April and planning to file for my Social Security retirement benefits soon. My husband reaches his full retirement age in July and will be applying then. Our situation is a bit complicated because we have twin girls who just turned 14 last month. From what I understand, our children might be eligible for additional benefits, but I'm confused about which one of us should apply for these child benefits. My husband's SS benefit will be around $3,100/month at his FRA, while mine will only be about $1,450/month at 62. I've heard that only one parent can apply for the child benefits - is that true? And if so, should it definitely be my husband since his benefit amount is so much higher? I'm worried about making the wrong choice and leaving money on the table that could help with the girls' college funds. Any advice from those who've navigated this?

Mila Walker

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The children can actually receive benefits based on either parent's record, but the amount will be higher based on your husband's record since his PIA is higher. Each child could receive up to 50% of the parent's PIA (Primary Insurance Amount), subject to the family maximum limit. Since your husband's benefit is significantly higher, they would get more if they claim on his record. You should both file for your own retirement benefits when you're ready, and then your husband should mention the dependent children when he applies. The SSA will determine the maximum family benefit on his record.

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Ethan Clark

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Thank you so much! I was stressing about this. So if I understand correctly, both of us file for our own benefits separately (me at 62, him at FRA), and then he just needs to mention our daughters when he applies? Will this happen automatically or does he need to specifically request the children's benefits?

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Logan Scott

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Yes both of u need to apply for YOUR OWN benefits first... then u apply for the kids benefits. Just know theres a family maximum that limits the total amt everyone can get off one persons record. My neighbor's kids got benefits off their dad's record and it helped so much with expenses!

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Ethan Clark

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Thanks for the info! Do you know if your neighbor had to fill out separate applications for each kid? And did they have to go into the SS office or could they do it online?

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Chloe Green

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You've received some good advice, but let me clarify a few points about child benefits: 1. Children can qualify for benefits when a parent begins receiving Social Security retirement (or disability) benefits 2. Each child can receive up to 50% of the parent's full benefit amount 3. There is a Family Maximum Benefit (FMB) that limits the total amount dependents can receive (usually 150-180% of the worker's benefit) 4. The higher earner's record will provide higher benefits for the children 5. Children's benefits continue until age 18 (or 19 if still in high school) In your case, having your husband list the children on his application when he files at FRA in July would maximize their benefit amounts. The children will each receive separate payments. You should apply for your retirement at 62 as planned, and he'll apply at his FRA with the children listed as dependents.

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Lucas Adams

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This is SUPER HELPFUL but can I just say how FRUSTRATING it is that SSA makes all this so complicated?? I've been trying to figure out the family maximum thing for my own situation and the formulas they use make absolutely no sense! Why can't they just use plain English on their website instead of all the technical jargon? And good luck getting anyone on the phone to explain it!

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Harper Hill

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My kids got benefits when I retired and it was around $800 each per month. Best college savings plan ever! But we had to take their birth certificates and our marriage certificate to the office. They don't let you do the kids part online for some reason.

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Caden Nguyen

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Same here! Though when I did it last year, I had to wait 3 hours at the office just to submit the paperwork. What a nightmare.

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Ethan Clark

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Oh wow, I hadn't heard of that service. Thanks for sharing! I've been dreading the phone calls because my neighbor said she was on hold for over 2 hours before getting disconnected. I'll definitely look into this!

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Mila Walker

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One important thing to note: there's a separate application process for the children's benefits. After your husband applies for his retirement benefits, you'll need to submit applications for each child. This typically requires: 1. The children's birth certificates 2. Your marriage certificate 3. Your and your husband's Social Security numbers 4. Bank information for direct deposit You'll likely need to schedule an appointment at your local SSA office for this part, as child benefit applications usually can't be completed online. I'd recommend calling to schedule this appointment around the same time your husband applies for his benefits.

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Ethan Clark

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This is exactly the kind of specific info I needed! I'll start gathering those documents now so we're ready when the time comes. Really appreciate everyone's help with this - it's been confusing trying to figure out the right approach.

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Caden Nguyen

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My brother got benefits for his kids but then SSA said they overpaid and wanted all the money back! Make sure you report any income the kids have and keep really good records! The whole system is designed to trip people up i swear

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Chloe Green

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To clarify - children's benefits aren't typically affected by the child's own income unless they earn substantial amounts. The overpayment situation you described might have been related to something else, like a change in the parent's status or incorrect reporting. But you're right that keeping good records is always important when dealing with any government program.

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Harper Hill

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Oh meant to say, when your husband files at FRA, make sure he specifically mentions the kids' eligibility. Sometimes the claims specialists forget to ask about eligible children, then you have to start the whole process over again. Ask me how I know lol

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Lucas Adams

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Isn't that just TYPICAL of the SSA? They should have a system that catches these things! My cousin had to fight for 4 MONTHS to get retroactive payments because someone forgot to check a box. The whole system is broken!!

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