Can I claim Social Security survivor benefits at 60 then switch to my own retirement at 67?
I lost my husband in a workplace accident 8 months ago and I'm struggling to understand all the Social Security survivor benefits rules. I'm 45 years old with our children who are 7 and 12. The kids are each receiving about $2,150 per month in survivor benefits. The SSA rep told me something about a 'family maximum' when I applied for the kids, and said I couldn't get benefits for myself right now because of that limit. I've been a part-time teacher's aide while raising our kids, so my own Social Security record is pretty minimal (maybe 7-8 years of credits?). My question is: If I work full-time from now until age 60 to build up my own credits, can I apply for widow's benefits at 60 and then switch to my own retirement benefit at my full retirement age (67)? Or am I completely locked out of survivor benefits forever because of this family maximum thing? The SSA office is impossible to reach by phone and I can't take more time off work to sit there all day. Also wondering if my survivor benefit would be reduced if I take it early at 60 vs waiting? Thanks for any help!
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Elin Robinson
Yes, you can absolutely claim survivor benefits at 60 and then switch to your own retirement benefits at 67 if your own benefit would be higher at that point. This is called a "restricted application" strategy and it's actually one of the few remaining ways to maximize your total lifetime benefits. The family maximum limit only applies to the TOTAL amount payable to all family members on one worker's record at the same time. When your children age out of benefits (at 18, or 19 if still in high school), this will free up room under the family maximum. A few important points: 1. Survivor benefits taken at age 60 would be reduced to 71.5% of your husband's full benefit amount 2. If you wait until your FRA (67) to claim survivor benefits, you'd get 100% 3. Your own retirement benefit would not be reduced by claiming survivor benefits early 4. You need 40 credits (10 years of work) for your own retirement benefit I'd suggest you file for your own survivor benefits as soon as your youngest turns 16, as you'd be eligible for mother's benefits at that point without reduction.
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Ivanna St. Pierre
•Thank you so much for explaining this! The SSA rep wasn't clear about whether I was permanently blocked from survivor benefits or just temporarily because of the family maximum. This makes much more sense. I had no idea I could get mother's benefits when my youngest turns 16 - that's really good to know. Is there a specific name for this benefit I should ask about when I contact SSA?
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Atticus Domingo
The SSA lies to people ALL THE TIME about their benefits!! They told me something similar when my husband died and I had to fight for MONTHS to get my proper benefits. Don't trust what ONE rep tells you - always get a second opinion!!! Family maximum is real but it doesn't mean you NEVER get benefits, it just limits the TOTAL amount paid out at one time. When your kids age out or if one of them gets married before 18, your benefit opportunity changes. And YES you can absolutely claim widow benefits at 60 and switch later!!!! That's EXACTLY what I did.
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Ivanna St. Pierre
•I'm so sorry you had to fight for your benefits. That must have been awful, especially while grieving. Did you find any specific resources or use any particular words/phrases that helped when you were dealing with SSA? I get so anxious making these calls that I sometimes don't ask the right questions.
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Beth Ford
my condolences on your loss. i went thru this 2 yrs ago. the family max is around 150-180% of your husband's benefit amount (depends on his earnings). once the kids turn 18 youll have room to get your survivors. but yeah you can take reduced survivors at 60 and switch to your own at 67 if its higher. thats what my sister is doing.
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Ivanna St. Pierre
•Thank you. I'm sorry for your loss as well. It's been a difficult adjustment. It's reassuring to hear that your sister is using this exact strategy - makes me feel more confident that I'm on the right track with my planning.
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Morita Montoya
I'd recommend calling the SSA directly to get information specific to your situation, but I've had to call them multiple times recently about my mother's benefits and it's nearly impossible to get through. After being frustrated with hours of hold times and disconnects, I found a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected with an agent in about 15 minutes instead of waiting for hours. They have a video showing how it works at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. As for your specific question, the previous commenters are correct. You can claim survivor benefits as early as 60 (with a reduction) and later switch to your own retirement at 67 if it would be higher. But you need 40 credits (10 years of work) for your own retirement benefit to qualify. The family maximum does not permanently disqualify you from survivor benefits.
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Ivanna St. Pierre
•Thank you for the recommendation! I've been so frustrated trying to reach someone at SSA. I'll check out that service - anything to avoid spending another day on hold just to get disconnected. I'm on track to get my 40 credits in the next few years if I keep working. It's good to know that this switching strategy is confirmed by multiple people here.
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Kingston Bellamy
Congrats on finding this forum! When my wife died i was so confused about all the SS rules. Just want to say that everyone here is right - you CAN take survivor benefits at 60 and switch later. But remember that working while collecting survivors before your FRA will reduce your benefit check if you earn above the earnings limit ($1,770/month in 2025).
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Ivanna St. Pierre
•That's a really important point about the earnings limit - I hadn't thought about that! If I'm understanding correctly, once I reach full retirement age, the earnings limit goes away? So I could take reduced survivor benefits at 60, but might lose some of it if I'm still working full time?
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Joy Olmedo
I'm in exact same boat but 2 years ahead of you. Kids r 9 & 14 and I'm getting NOTHING cause of family max. so frustrating!! Did u ask about lump sum death benefit? Its only $255 but at least its something. if ur husband had life insurance u can put some in a college fund for kids since SS stops at 18 (or 19 if still in hs).
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Isaiah Cross
•The lump sum death payment is actually one of the oldest parts of Social Security, dating back to the 1935 Social Security Act. Surprisingly, the $255 amount hasn't been increased since 1954! It was originally intended to help with burial costs, but obviously doesn't go very far today. The family maximum formula is complex - it's typically between 150-180% of the deceased worker's full benefit amount, but the exact percentage depends on their primary insurance amount (PIA). This is why professional guidance is so valuable when navigating survivor benefits.
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Isaiah Cross
There's a lot of good advice here, but I want to clarify a few technical points: 1. The strategy you're describing (claiming survivors at 60, then your own at FRA) is technically NOT a "restricted application" as one commenter mentioned. Restricted applications only apply to spousal benefits, not survivor benefits. 2. You'll need 40 credits (typically 10 years of work) to qualify for your own retirement benefit. At your age, you'd need to earn about 33 more credits. 3. The Family Maximum Benefit (FMB) for survivors is generally 150-180% of your husband's basic benefit rate, though the exact formula is complex. 4. If you work while receiving survivor benefits before your FRA, you'll be subject to the earnings test. In 2025, for every $2 you earn above $22,440 annually, $1 will be withheld from your benefits. 5. Mother's/father's benefits are available until your youngest child turns 16, regardless of the family maximum, so that's another option. I'd recommend scheduling an appointment at your local office rather than just calling - you'll get more personalized attention.
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Ivanna St. Pierre
•Thank you for these clarifications! I was definitely confused about the restricted application term. The earnings test information is really helpful too - I'll need to factor that into my planning. I've been trying to make an appointment at my local office but they're scheduled out for months. I might try again after reading all this helpful information since I'll know what specific questions to ask.
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Kiara Greene
Just to add my two cents - I receive survivors benefits (I'm 63) and I'll switch to my own benefit when I turn 67. It works great! The SSA computer system automatically compares your survivor benefit to your own benefit amount each year, so when your own benefit eventually exceeds your survivor benefit, they'll automatically switch you. You don't even have to file a separate application. BUT - big warning - do NOT claim your own retirement benefit at 62 if you're planning this strategy! If you do, you'll get the LOWER of the two benefits forever. This is a common mistake people make.
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Elin Robinson
•This is an excellent point! Many people don't realize that if they claim their own retirement benefit early, they permanently restrict themselves to the higher of the two benefits (own or survivor's) at that point, rather than being able to take one first and switch later. Just to clarify for everyone: With survivor benefits, you can claim one benefit type first and switch to the other later IF you haven't taken your own retirement early. This is different from spousal benefits, where the rules changed after the 2015 Bipartisan Budget Act.
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