Can I claim my deceased husband's Social Security at 60 while making over $16K, or wait until 70?
Six years ago I lost my husband after 34 years of marriage. I'm now 60 and trying to figure out my Social Security options. When I called SSA, I was told that to get survivor benefits now, I'd need to keep my income under $16K per year due to earnings limits. Since I work full-time, that's not possible. The rep also told me something confusing - that even though my husband earned significantly more than me during his working years, I would only get my own benefit amount and his higher amount "wouldn't matter." This doesn't sound right based on what I've read elsewhere. My current plan is to continue working and wait until I'm 70 to file for benefits to maximize my monthly amount. But I'm wondering if I'm missing out on survivor benefits I could claim now or at my full retirement age? Has anyone navigated survivor benefits with higher earnings? Any insight would be appreciated!
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Aisha Rahman
The SSA rep gave you partially correct information, but missed some important details. As a widow, you have several options: 1. At 60, you can claim survivor benefits, but they'll be reduced to about 71.5% of your husband's full benefit AND subject to the earnings test ($21,240 for 2025 if you're under FRA). 2. At your Full Retirement Age (66-67 depending on birth year), you can claim 100% of your husband's benefit with NO earnings limit. 3. You can also do a restricted application strategy: claim ONLY survivor benefits at your FRA, let your own benefit grow until 70, then switch to your own (if it's higher). The rep was incorrect suggesting your husband's benefit wouldn't matter. As a widow, you're entitled to the HIGHER of either your own benefit or your husband's.
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Mateo Perez
•Thank you so much for this detailed explanation! I had no idea about the restricted application strategy. So if I understand correctly, I could take his full survivor benefit at my FRA (which is 67) with no earnings limit, then switch to my own benefit at 70 if it's higher? That sounds much better than waiting until 70 to get anything at all.
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CosmicCrusader
I dnt think any1 here knows what they talking about. My mom got widow benifits at 62 and they gave her less money than she was supposed to get!!! SS always trying to cheat ppl out of their money!!
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Aisha Rahman
•Your mother likely received reduced benefits because she claimed before her Full Retirement Age. Widow(er) benefits claimed between 60-FRA are reduced based on a formula. At 62, she would've received approximately 81.7% of her late husband's full benefit amount. This isn't SSA cheating anyone - it's just how the benefit calculation works when claiming early.
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Ethan Brown
I'm in almost the exact same situation - lost my husband 5 years ago and I'm 61 now. I also work full-time making about $65K. When I called SSA last month, they weren't very helpful either. What I learned after doing some research is that the earnings limit for 2025 is $21,240 (not $16K) if you're under full retirement age. For every $2 you earn above that limit, they deduct $1 from your benefits. So with my salary, any survivor benefits would be completely wiped out until I reach my FRA. I'm planning to take survivor benefits at my FRA (66+8mo) when there's no earnings test, then switch to my own benefit at 70 since it'll be higher by then.
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Mateo Perez
•That's really helpful to know about the current earnings limit being higher - $21,240 instead of $16K. Still way below what I make, but good to have the accurate number. The strategy of taking survivor benefits at FRA and then switching to your own at 70 seems smart. I'll definitely look into that more.
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Yuki Yamamoto
Let me clarify something important that many people misunderstand about survivor benefits: 1. If you claim ANY Social Security benefit before your Full Retirement Age while working, you're subject to the earnings limit ($21,240 in 2025). 2. After reaching your Full Retirement Age, there is NO earnings limit. You can earn any amount without penalty. 3. As a widow, you have the valuable option to claim one benefit type first and switch to the other later. Most financial experts recommend: - If your own benefit will be larger at age 70, take the survivor benefit at your FRA and switch to your own at 70. - If the survivor benefit will always be larger, take your own reduced retirement at 62 and switch to the survivor benefit at your FRA. The SSA phone representatives sometimes provide incomplete information. I recommend scheduling an appointment with a claims specialist who can do calculations specific to your situation.
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Mateo Perez
•This is extremely helpful - thank you! I had no idea I could potentially take one type of benefit first and then switch later. I'm definitely going to schedule an appointment with a claims specialist to run the numbers for my specific situation. The phone rep I talked to never mentioned any of these strategies.
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Carmen Ortiz
my wife passed to and i tryed to get her SS but they said i had to be 62?? im 58 now so i got to wait i guess. its so confusing. do u have kids? i herd if u had kids under 16 you can get benafits
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Andre Rousseau
•Survivor benefits for a widower/widow start at age 60 (or 50 if disabled). You're right that retirement benefits on your own record start at 62, but survivor benefits are different. And yes, if you have children under 16 from the marriage, you might qualify for parent's benefits even before 60. Worth checking with SSA directly about your specific situation.
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Zoe Papadakis
I tried calling the SSA for WEEKS about my survivor benefits and couldn't get through - constant busy signals or disconnections after waiting on hold forever. Finally found this service called Claimyr that got me connected to an SSA agent in under 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU The agent I spoke with went through all my survivor benefit options and confirmed I could do exactly what others here mentioned - take survivor benefits at my FRA and switch to my own at 70. Total game-changer compared to the incomplete info I got before.
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Mateo Perez
•Thanks for sharing this resource. I've been frustrated with the long hold times too. I'll check out that video - getting through to talk to someone who can explain all my options would be really helpful right now.
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Andre Rousseau
Something no one has mentioned yet is that survivor benefits are based on what your husband would be receiving if he were alive today, including any delayed retirement credits he earned if he died after his FRA. So if your husband would have turned 70 by now and had not claimed benefits before passing, his benefit amount (and thus your potential survivor benefit) would have been increased by 24-32% from delayed retirement credits. This is why it's so important to get a calculation specific to your situation from SSA rather than relying on general information. Your survivor benefit amount depends on several factors specific to your husband's earnings record and when he passed away.
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Mateo Perez
•That's an interesting point I hadn't considered. My husband was 62 when he passed and hadn't started taking his benefits yet. I'll definitely ask about how that affects the calculation when I talk to a specialist.
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CosmicCrusader
I HATE how complicated they make evrything!!! y cant they just tell us straight what we get?? my friend told me widows get 100% of husbands SS but turns out thats only at full retirment age? such BS!!
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Ethan Brown
•I feel your frustration! It took me months of research to understand all this. You're right - widows only get 100% at FRA. Before that, it's reduced (as low as 71.5% at age 60). After dealing with grief, the last thing we need is confusing benefit rules. I found that writing everything down before calling SSA helped me keep track of what they told me.
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Yuki Yamamoto
Here's a simplified breakdown of your options as I understand your situation: 1. From 60-FRA: Reduced survivor benefits (71.5-99.9% of husband's benefit) BUT subject to earnings test 2. At FRA: Full survivor benefits (100% of husband's benefit) with NO earnings limit 3. At 70: Maximized personal retirement benefit (132% of your FRA amount) Best strategy is usually to claim whichever benefit is smaller first, then switch to the larger one later. For many widows, this means taking survivor benefits at FRA, then switching to their own at 70 if it will be higher. Remember that when comparing, you need to know: - Your FRA benefit amount - Your age-70 benefit amount (with delayed credits) - Your husband's PIA (primary insurance amount) An SSA claims specialist can provide these exact figures for you to make an informed decision.
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Mateo Perez
•This summary is incredibly helpful! I'm going to save this and use it as a guide when I talk to the claims specialist. Having these specific numbers will help me figure out which option gives me the best lifetime benefit. Based on our work histories, I suspect my own benefit at 70 will be higher than his survivor benefit, so your suggested strategy makes a lot of sense.
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