Great news! Just so you know, \

I'm glad you were able to get through to SSA! It sounds like you're on the right track. Just to add another perspective - I work with retirees in my role as a benefits coordinator, and I've seen many cases where people assume their widow benefits are automatically the highest amount they can receive. The delayed retirement credits you've earned by working until 68 could make a significant difference in your monthly payment. Also, don't forget to ask about the Medicare Part D penalty when you meet with them - if you're losing employer drug coverage when you retire, you'll want to enroll in Part D during your Special Enrollment Period to avoid future penalties. Looking forward to hearing how your appointment goes!

my cousin works for ssa and told me they NEVER automatically give you spousal benefits you have to ask for them specifically!!!! the computer doesn't just figure it out. when i applied i told them i wanted to compare my benefit to my husbands spousal amount and the difference was only $31 more for spousal but still that adds up over time!!!

Just went through this exact situation myself last year! One thing I learned that might help - you can actually create estimates on the SSA website using both scenarios before you apply. Go to ssa.gov and log into your mySocialSecurity account, then use their benefit calculators to get rough estimates of your own benefit vs what 50% of your wife's would be. But here's the key thing everyone's mentioned - your wife absolutely MUST file for her own benefits first before you can claim spousal benefits on her record. That notification she did online is just for planning, not an actual application. Also, consider this timing strategy: if your wife's benefit is higher and she's already 2 years older, she could file at her FRA to start receiving benefits, then when you reach your FRA you could file for whichever is higher (your own or spousal). Just don't file early unless you absolutely need the money, because any reduction is permanent. The online calculators won't be perfect, but they'll give you a ballpark idea of which direction to lean before you deal with trying to get someone on the phone at SSA!

Just wanted to follow up - thanks everyone for the engaging discussion! I appreciate all perspectives. For those wondering, I made my choice after reading several SSA publications and creating my own spreadsheet to compare scenarios. While I'm comfortable with my decision, I think the main point is that there's no one-size-fits-all answer. Health status, family situation, other income sources, and even personal values all matter. What worked for me might not work for everyone!

As someone new to this community and approaching retirement decisions myself, this has been incredibly helpful to read through! I'm 59 and starting to think seriously about these choices. The break-even analysis you did makes a lot of sense - it's surprising how the financial advisors don't always present it this way. One thing I'm curious about - for those who took benefits early, how has the reduced monthly amount affected your day-to-day budgeting? I keep going back and forth between wanting the security of higher monthly payments later versus having the flexibility of money now. My biggest worry is whether the early amount will be enough to cover unexpected expenses as I get older, especially healthcare costs that seem to keep rising faster than COLAs. Also really appreciate the clarification on FRA - I was confused about that too! This discussion has given me a lot to think about and some good starting points for my own research.

I'm in a very similar situation - turned 62 recently and have been collecting survivor benefits for about 2 years now. Reading through all these responses has been incredibly helpful, especially hearing from people who actually went through this transition. One question I have that I haven't seen addressed: does anyone know if there are any health considerations I should factor into the decision of when to switch? I'm generally healthy now, but my family history has some concerns. I keep going back and forth between taking my own benefit at FRA (67) versus waiting until 70 for the maximum amount. The extra money would be great, but I also worry about the "what if" scenarios. Also, has anyone used the SSA's online benefit estimator tools? Are they pretty accurate for planning purposes, or should I try to get an actual consultation somehow?

I'm currently facing this same decision at 63, collecting survivor benefits while waiting to claim my own retirement benefit. One thing I learned from my financial advisor that might help others here is to also consider your overall retirement income picture, not just Social Security. For example, if you have other retirement accounts (401k, IRA, etc.), the timing of when you switch to your own SS benefit can affect your tax bracket and Medicare premiums. The higher your total income, the more you might pay in Medicare Part B and D premiums due to IRMAA (Income-Related Monthly Adjustment Amount). Also, I've found that creating a simple spreadsheet comparing total lifetime benefits under different claiming scenarios really helps visualize the decision. You can factor in your estimated lifespan, other income sources, and even inflation to see which strategy works best for your specific situation. The break-even analysis someone mentioned is crucial - but don't forget that Social Security benefits are inflation-adjusted for life, so that higher monthly amount from waiting becomes even more valuable over time compared to other fixed income sources.

One more thing! When your wife starts receiving the spousal benefits, they'll be subject to the same taxation rules as other Social Security benefits. Depending on your combined income, up to 85% of Social Security benefits may be taxable. Just something to factor into your retirement budget planning for next year.

Just want to emphasize something that hasn't been mentioned yet - make sure to keep detailed records of all the payments and adjustments. When my parents went through this process, there was a small error in the calculation that took months to resolve. I'd recommend taking screenshots of your wife's current benefit amount from her MySocialSecurity account before you file, and then monitoring it closely after your benefits start. Also, if for some reason the automatic adjustment doesn't happen within 60 days of your first payment, don't hesitate to contact SSA immediately. Sometimes these things get stuck in the system and need a manual push. The sooner you catch any issues, the easier they are to fix and get any back payments you're owed.