What qualifies as a Household Employee for IRS tax purposes?
I'm trying to figure out this household employee tax stuff for 2025 and getting a bit confused. I'm planning to hire a house cleaner who'll come once a month at $190 per cleaning. I was reading the IRS website and it said something about if you pay $2,800 or more to any household worker in a tax year, you're responsible for either withholding or paying 7.65% of their wages for taxes. I'll be telling her which rooms to clean and what needs special attention, but I'm not going to micromanage how she cleans as long as everything looks good when she's done. So what exactly do I need to withhold, if anything, for $190 x 12 = $2,280? Also related question - my parents hired a mobile pet groomer who comes every other month on a regular schedule. They pay her about $140 by check each visit to groom their cat. They don't tell her how to do the grooming, she just does her thing. Would she be considered a household employee or an independent contractor? Does it even matter since they're only paying her around $840 per year which is well under that $2,800 threshold?
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Harmony Love
The key distinction between a household employee and an independent contractor comes down to control. Since you'll be directing what to clean (even if not how), the house cleaner would likely be considered a household employee. However, at $190/month ($2,280/year), you're under the $2,800 threshold for 2025, so you wouldn't need to worry about the "nanny tax" requirements yet. For your parents' situation, the pet groomer is almost certainly an independent contractor. They don't control how she performs her work, she likely has other clients, and she brings her own equipment. Plus, as you noted, they're well under the threshold anyway at $840/year. If either worker is properly classified as an independent contractor, the threshold doesn't apply - that's only for household employees. But it sounds like you're fine either way since both are under $2,800 annually.
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Rudy Cenizo
•Thanks for explaining! Just to clarify - if my cleaner ends up working some extra days and goes over the $2,800 threshold, what exactly would I need to do? Do I suddenly need to withhold taxes from her pay or can I just pay the employer portion? Also, does it matter if I pay her through Venmo vs cash?
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Harmony Love
•If your cleaner exceeds the $2,800 threshold, you'd become responsible for Social Security and Medicare taxes (FICA) - which is that 7.65% you mentioned. You have two options: either withhold the employee's 7.65% share from their paychecks and pay your matching 7.65% employer portion, or you can choose to pay both portions yourself (15.3% total). Payment method doesn't change the tax obligations - whether cash, check, Venmo, etc. What matters is the amount and nature of the work. If you go over the threshold, you'd need to file Schedule H with your tax return and get an employer identification number (EIN). You might also have state-level requirements depending on where you live.
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Daryl Bright
•Did it help with understanding state requirements too? I'm in California and heard there are additional forms beyond the federal stuff. Also wondering if it helps with the actual payroll calculations throughout the year or just the year-end tax forms?
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Sienna Gomez
•I'm skeptical about these tax tools. How is this different from just using TurboTax or something? I've been paying our housekeeper for years and never bothered with any of this because she says she files her own taxes.
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Ahooker-Equator
One thing nobody mentioned yet - make sure you get a Form W-9 from anyone you're paying, even if they're under the threshold amount! I learned this the hard way. The W-9 gets their taxpayer ID (usually SSN) and confirms they're responsible for their own taxes if they're an independent contractor. If they refuse to fill it out, that's a huge red flag that they're not reporting their income.
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McKenzie Shade
•That's really helpful advice, thanks! Do I need to do anything with the W-9 form after they fill it out? Like do I submit it somewhere or just keep it for my records?
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Ahooker-Equator
•You just keep the W-9 for your records - you don't submit it anywhere. It's protection for you in case you get audited and the IRS questions your worker classification decisions. If your worker ends up being classified as an independent contractor AND you pay them $600 or more in a year, you'll need to issue them a 1099-NEC form using the information from the W-9. But for household employees, you'd use the information for your Schedule H instead.
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Anderson Prospero
Has anyone dealt with the situation where someone occasionally babysits? My neighbor watches my kids maybe once a month when we go out, and I pay her about $80 each time. She's only 17 though, so not sure if different rules apply?
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Harmony Love
•You're fine! The IRS specifically exempts babysitters under 18 from being considered household employees for tax purposes (as long as childcare isn't their principal occupation). So you don't need to worry about any of these rules for your teenage neighbor, regardless of how much you pay her throughout the year.
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Jasmine Hernandez
Great question! I went through something similar last year. For your house cleaner at $2,280/year, you're actually under the 2025 threshold of $2,800, so no "nanny tax" requirements apply. However, the key factor is whether she's truly an independent contractor or household employee. If you're directing what to clean and when, she might be considered an employee even under the threshold. One thing I'd recommend is documenting the working relationship clearly - does she bring her own supplies, set her own schedule, have other regular clients? These factors support independent contractor status. For your parents' pet groomer, that's definitely an independent contractor situation - specialized skill, own equipment, likely other clients, and they're not controlling the method of work. Pro tip: Even if you're under the threshold now, consider what happens if you increase frequency or rates. I started with monthly cleaning and ended up going weekly, which pushed me over the limit mid-year and created some paperwork headaches!
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NebulaNova
•That's a really good point about documenting the working relationship! I'm definitely going to make sure I have that stuff written down. Quick question though - if my cleaner brings her own supplies but I'm still telling her which rooms to focus on each visit, does that lean more toward independent contractor or employee status? I'm trying to figure out which factors carry more weight in the IRS determination. Also curious about your experience going from monthly to weekly - did you have to go back and recalculate everything from earlier in the year when you crossed the threshold, or does it only apply going forward?
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Liam O'Connor
•Good question about which factors carry more weight! The IRS uses a "totality of circumstances" test, but control over the work is usually the biggest factor. Bringing her own supplies definitely helps with independent contractor status, but if you're directing which rooms and what specific tasks each visit, that could still tip it toward employee. The key is whether you're controlling what work gets done vs how the work gets done. When I crossed the threshold mid-year, I had to go back and calculate from the beginning of the year - the $2,800 threshold is cumulative for the entire tax year, not just going forward. So if you hit $2,800 in September, you owe taxes on all wages paid from January onwards. I had to file amended quarterly forms and pay some penalties for late payments. Definitely learned to plan ahead after that!
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Freya Johansen
One important detail that hasn't been mentioned yet - if your house cleaner is classified as a household employee and you do go over the $2,800 threshold, you'll also need to consider state unemployment insurance requirements. Most states require you to pay SUTA (State Unemployment Tax) for household employees, and some states have lower thresholds than the federal $2,800 limit. For example, in my state the threshold is only $1,000 per year for unemployment tax purposes. So even though your cleaner at $2,280/year wouldn't trigger federal requirements, you might still have state-level obligations depending on where you live. I'd suggest checking your state's labor department website or calling them to confirm the rules in your area. It's one of those things that can catch you off guard if you're only focused on the federal requirements!
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Alexis Robinson
•This is such an important point that I wish more people knew about! I got hit with state unemployment tax requirements last year even though I was well under the federal threshold. My state had a $1,500 limit and I was paying my regular babysitter about $200/month, so I thought I was safe at $2,400 for the year. Turned out I still owed state unemployment taxes and had to register as an employer with the state. The paperwork wasn't too bad once I figured it out, but the penalties for filing late were annoying. Each state really does have its own rules - some even require workers' compensation insurance for household employees. Definitely worth a quick call to your state's employment department before you start paying anyone regularly, even if you think you're under all the thresholds.
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Dylan Wright
This is such a helpful thread! I'm in a similar boat and was completely unaware of the state-level requirements that Freya mentioned. I've been paying a dog walker $150/month ($1,800/year) and assumed I was fine since it's under the federal threshold, but now I'm worried about state unemployment requirements. Does anyone know if there's a good resource to quickly check all the state-specific thresholds and requirements? It sounds like each state can have different rules for unemployment insurance, workers' comp, and who knows what else. I'd rather get ahead of this now than deal with penalties later like some of you experienced! Also wondering - if someone is clearly an independent contractor (brings own supplies, has other clients, sets their own methods), do the state thresholds still apply or are those only for household employees?
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Isabella Ferreira
•Great questions! For checking state requirements quickly, I'd recommend starting with your state's Department of Labor website - most have dedicated sections for household employers that break down all the thresholds and requirements in one place. The IRS Publication 926 also has a helpful state-by-state chart, though it's not always the most up-to-date. Regarding your dog walker question - if they're truly an independent contractor, the state household employee thresholds typically don't apply. Those rules are specifically for employees, not contractors. But here's the tricky part: states can have different criteria than the IRS for determining worker classification, so someone might be considered a contractor federally but an employee at the state level. Your dog walker situation sounds like a clear independent contractor case (own supplies, other clients, sets methods), but I'd still recommend getting that W-9 form like others mentioned and documenting the working relationship. Better to have the paperwork ready if anyone ever questions the classification!
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Brielle Johnson
This thread has been incredibly informative! I'm dealing with a similar situation but with a twist - I have a part-time gardener who comes twice a month at $120 per visit ($2,880/year), which puts me just over the federal threshold. What's confusing me is that he brings all his own tools and has other clients in the neighborhood, but I do tell him specifically which areas of my yard need attention each visit and what plants to focus on. Based on the discussion here, it sounds like the "control" factor might make him a household employee despite the other independent contractor indicators. I'm definitely going to check my state requirements too after reading about the different thresholds - I had no idea states could have their own rules that kick in at lower amounts. Has anyone dealt with a similar outdoor worker situation? I'm trying to figure out if directing which areas to work on is the same level of "control" as telling a house cleaner which rooms to clean. Also planning to get that W-9 form regardless - seems like good practice even if I end up treating him as an employee rather than a contractor.
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Ethan Anderson
•Your gardener situation is a perfect example of how tricky worker classification can be! The fact that he brings his own tools and has other clients definitely points toward independent contractor status. However, you're right that directing which specific areas to work on could be seen as controlling the work. Here's how I'd think about it: Are you telling him "focus on the rose bushes and trim the hedges" (directing what work) or are you telling him "use these specific pruning techniques and start at exactly 9 AM" (controlling how and when)? Gardening often involves some client direction about priorities and preferences, which is different from micromanaging the methods. Since you're just over the threshold at $2,880, I'd definitely recommend documenting the relationship clearly - does he quote you prices, invoice you, carry his own insurance? These business-like behaviors support contractor status. And yes, absolutely get that W-9! Even if you end up treating him as an employee, you'll have the tax ID info you need for your Schedule H. One other thing to consider - could you structure the payments to stay under the federal threshold? Maybe $119 per visit instead of $120? That would put you at $2,856 annually and avoid the whole issue, though you'd still need to check your state requirements as others mentioned.
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Dylan Campbell
This is such a comprehensive discussion! I'm a tax professional and want to add one crucial point that might save some of you headaches - even if you determine your worker is an independent contractor, you still need to issue a 1099-NEC if you pay them $600 or more in a year. So for the original poster, if your house cleaner is truly an independent contractor at $2,280/year, you'd need to file a 1099-NEC by January 31st. This is separate from the household employee rules but still a requirement many people miss. Also, regarding the control test everyone's discussing - the IRS has a helpful 20-factor test in Revenue Ruling 87-41 that can help clarify borderline cases. Things like whether the worker can realize a profit or loss from their work, whether they advertise their services, and whether they work for multiple clients all factor into the determination. One last tip: if you're genuinely unsure about classification, you can file Form SS-8 with the IRS to get an official determination. It takes several months to get a response, but it gives you definitive guidance and protects you from penalties if you follow their ruling.
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Caleb Stark
•This is incredibly helpful information! I had no idea about the 1099-NEC requirement for independent contractors over $600. That definitely applies to my situation since I'm paying $2,280/year. The Form SS-8 option is really interesting too - I've been going back and forth on whether my cleaner is an employee or contractor, and it sounds like getting an official IRS determination might be worth the wait to have that peace of mind. Do you know if there are any downsides to filing SS-8, like does it increase audit risk or anything? Also curious about the 20-factor test you mentioned - is that something readily available online or do I need to request it from the IRS? It would be great to have a more structured way to evaluate the relationship instead of just guessing based on a few factors. Thanks for bringing the professional perspective to this discussion - it's exactly what we needed to tie all these pieces together!
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Diez Ellis
•Filing Form SS-8 doesn't increase audit risk - it's actually a protective measure! If you follow the IRS's official determination, you're generally protected from penalties even if they later change their position. The main downside is just the time factor (usually 6+ months for a response) and you have to stop guessing in the meantime. You can find Revenue Ruling 87-41 with the 20-factor test on the IRS website - just search for "Rev. Rul. 87-41" in their publications section. It's also referenced in IRS Publication 15-A if you want the more readable version. The factors include things like training requirements, integration into business operations, order of performance, and financial aspects of the relationship. For your $2,280 cleaning situation, you're definitely in 1099-NEC territory if she's a contractor. Just make sure to get that W-9 before year-end so you have her tax ID for the 1099. And remember the January 31st deadline for both giving her the form and filing with the IRS!
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Lena Kowalski
This has been an incredibly thorough discussion! As someone new to hiring household help, I really appreciate how you've all broken down the complexities of worker classification and tax thresholds. One thing I'm still wondering about - for those of you who've gone through the process of setting up proper payroll for household employees, how much additional time and cost does it typically add to your routine? I'm considering hiring a regular cleaner but want to understand the full administrative burden if I end up over the threshold. Also, has anyone used payroll services specifically designed for household employers? I've seen some advertised but wondering if they're worth the cost versus just handling the paperwork yourself with Schedule H. The state-specific requirements mentioned here were eye-opening too - definitely going to research my state's rules before making any hiring decisions. Thanks everyone for sharing your real-world experiences!
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Amina Diallo
•Great question about the administrative burden! I've been managing household employee payroll for about two years now, and honestly, it's not as overwhelming as it initially seemed. The key is getting organized from the start. For time commitment, I probably spend about 30 minutes per month on payroll tasks - calculating withholdings, keeping records, and filing quarterly forms. The annual Schedule H adds maybe another hour or two during tax season. It's definitely more work than just handing over cash, but very manageable once you have a system. Regarding payroll services for household employers, I looked into a few but ended up doing it myself to save money. The services typically charge $30-50 per month, which seemed steep for my relatively simple situation (one part-time employee). However, if you have multiple workers or live in a state with complex requirements, the service might be worth it for peace of mind. The biggest upfront effort is getting your EIN, setting up state registrations, and creating a record-keeping system. After that, it becomes pretty routine. I use a simple spreadsheet to track wages and withholdings, and set quarterly reminders for tax filings. Much less intimidating than I initially thought it would be!
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