Rookie tax question: If I pay my housecleaner through Venmo, do I need to give them a 1099 or is reporting income their responsibility?
So I've been paying my housekeeper via Venmo for a while now and suddenly realized I have no idea what my tax obligations are here. She comes twice a month and I pay her $130 each time, which works out to about $3,120 per year. I'm completely new to this household employer stuff - am I supposed to be giving her a 1099 at the end of the year? Or is it totally her responsibility to report this income to the IRS? I don't want to get either of us in trouble, but I also don't want to complicate things unnecessarily if I don't have to. I've never hired household help before this year so I'm flying blind. Any help would be super appreciated!
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Marcus Marsh
This is actually a common question! For a housekeeper, the relationship is typically either that of an independent contractor or household employee - which determines your tax obligations. The key question is whether you control not just what work is done, but how it's done. If you provide the cleaning supplies, set specific hours, and direct exactly how the cleaning should be done, they're likely a household employee. If they bring their own supplies, set their own schedule, and determine how to do the work, they're probably an independent contractor. For household employees, you should be handling payroll taxes through Schedule H with your tax return (not a 1099). For independent contractors who earn $600+ in a year, you would issue a 1099-NEC. With your $3,120 annual amount, you'd need to provide documentation either way. Venmo payments don't change these requirements - they're just the payment method, not a substitute for proper tax documentation.
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Hailey O'Leary
•wait but doesn't venmo report to the irs now too? i heard they started doing that for business accounts or something. does that change anything?
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Marcus Marsh
•Yes, Venmo does report to the IRS for business profiles if the payments exceed $600 in a year. However, this doesn't change your obligation as the employer/payer. Even if Venmo reports the transactions, you still need to properly classify your housekeeper and fulfill your tax obligations accordingly. If they're an employee, you need Schedule H. If they're an independent contractor, you need to issue a 1099-NEC. The Venmo reporting is separate from your responsibility to properly document the working relationship for tax purposes.
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Cedric Chung
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Jean Claude
Everyone's talking about if your housekeeper is an employee or contractor, but don't forget about the self-employment tax issue! If she's an independent contractor, she's paying 15.3% self-employment tax on top of income tax. If she's an employee, you're splitting that FICA tax burden. A lot of house cleaners don't realize they're on the hook for this and get shocked at tax time. If you truly care about your housekeeper, have an honest conversation about taxes. Many household workers are getting paid under the table and will get blindsided if they ever try to report income properly.
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Charity Cohan
•Is there any benefit to the housekeeper being properly documented as either an employee or contractor? Like for social security or unemployment benefits?
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Jean Claude
•Absolutely! This is actually super important and often overlooked. When you properly document a household employee and pay employment taxes, they build legitimate Social Security credits which directly affects their future retirement benefits. They also qualify for unemployment benefits if the working relationship ends. For contractors who properly report their income, they still build Social Security credits through self-employment taxes, plus they develop a documented income history which helps them qualify for loans, apartments, and other financial services that require proof of income. Many household workers struggle with these things because their income is "invisible" in the system when paid under the table.
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Josef Tearle
My accountant told me that the "nanny tax" rules apply to housekeepers too if they're employees, and the threshold is only $2,400 for 2025. Since you're paying $3,120, you're definitely over that limit. The thing that confused me is the difference between a 1099 contractor and a household employee. For my housekeeper, she uses my cleaning supplies and comes on a regular schedule I set, so she's technically my employee according to IRS rules.
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Shelby Bauman
•Thanks for mentioning the $2,400 threshold! I didn't know it was that low. My housecleaner is right around that amount.
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Daniela Rossi
The $3,120 you're paying definitely puts you over the household employee threshold that Josef mentioned. Here's what I learned from my own experience: the key is figuring out if your housekeeper is truly an independent contractor or your employee. Ask yourself: Do you provide the cleaning supplies? Do you tell them what to clean and how? Do you set their schedule? If yes to most of these, they're likely your employee and you need Schedule H, not a 1099. I made the mistake of assuming anyone I paid was automatically a contractor. Turns out the IRS looks at the level of control you have over the work, not just whether you cut them a check. The fact that you're paying through Venmo doesn't change the underlying employment relationship. Since you're new to this, I'd suggest getting clarity on the employee vs contractor question first - that determines everything else about your tax obligations. Better to figure it out now than during an audit later!
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Bethany Groves
•This is really helpful! I'm in a similar boat - just started using a house cleaner and had no idea about any of these rules. The control factor makes sense though. My cleaner brings her own supplies but I do tell her which rooms to focus on each visit. Does that lean more toward contractor or employee? Also, is there a grace period if you realize you've been doing it wrong? Like if I should have been treating her as an employee from the start but was just clueless about the rules?
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Zainab Ahmed
•@Bethany Groves The fact that your cleaner brings her own supplies is a point toward contractor status, but the IRS looks at the totality of the relationship. If you re'setting the schedule, directing which specific tasks to do, and controlling how the work gets done, that leans toward employee even with their own supplies. Regarding the grace period - there s'no official grace "period but" the IRS is generally more lenient if you voluntarily come forward to correct the situation rather than waiting for them to discover it. If you realize you should have been treating someone as an employee, you can file Form SS-4 to get an employer identification number and then use Schedule H to report and pay the back employment taxes. The key is being proactive about fixing it. I d'recommend documenting your working relationship honestly and then determining the correct classification. Better to address it now while the amounts are relatively small than let it compound over multiple tax years!
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Jamal Wilson
I was in the exact same position last year with my housekeeper! The $3,120 annual amount definitely triggers tax obligations, but which ones depend on whether she's your employee or an independent contractor. Here's the simple test I used: If you control HOW the work is done (you provide supplies, set the schedule, direct specific cleaning methods), she's likely your household employee and you need to handle payroll taxes through Schedule H. If she controls her own methods and schedule while you just specify the end result, she's probably an independent contractor requiring a 1099-NEC. The Venmo payments don't change your obligations - they're just documentation of the payments you've made. Since you're over the $2,400 household employee threshold for 2025, this definitely needs to be addressed properly. One thing that helped me was having an honest conversation with my housekeeper about taxes. Many don't realize they should be reporting this income, and getting it documented properly actually helps them build Social Security credits and qualify for things like unemployment benefits. Don't stress too much about being "behind" on this - the IRS is generally reasonable if you're proactive about getting compliant rather than waiting for them to find the issue.
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Sergio Neal
•This is such a relief to hear from someone who went through the same thing! I've been losing sleep over this since I realized I might be doing something wrong. The control test you mentioned makes a lot of sense - my housekeeper does use my supplies and I do set her schedule, so it sounds like she's probably my employee. I really appreciate the advice about having a conversation with her about taxes. I was worried about bringing it up because I didn't want her to think I was trying to create problems, but you're right that it could actually benefit her in the long run with Social Security credits and everything. Quick question - when you say the IRS is reasonable about being proactive, did you have to pay any penalties when you corrected your situation? I'm just trying to prepare myself for what this might cost to fix properly.
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