How to handle taxes for my house keeper - W-2 or 1099?
Hi everyone, I'm trying to figure out the tax situation with my house keeper and could use some advice. I've been paying her $150 cash every two weeks for the past 8 months to clean my house. She brings her own supplies and sets her own schedule (usually comes on Thursdays when I'm at work). I'm wondering if I need to report this on my taxes somehow? Do I need to issue her a 1099? Or would this be more of a W-2 employee situation since it's regular? I've never dealt with household employees before and don't want to mess anything up when I file next year. She's great and I'd hate to lose her over tax issues. I've heard something about a "nanny tax" but I'm not sure if that applies here. Any advice would be really appreciated!
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Summer Green
This is a common question! What determines whether someone is an employee (W-2) vs. independent contractor (1099) isn't just about regularity, but about control. Since your housekeeper brings her own supplies and sets her own schedule, she's likely an independent contractor. For household workers, you generally need to issue a 1099-NEC if you pay someone $600+ in a year for services as an independent contractor. At $150 every two weeks for 8 months, you're at about $2,400, so you would need to issue one. You'll need her SSN or Tax ID number, and you'll need to file the 1099-NEC by January 31, 2026 for 2025 services. The "nanny tax" (household employment taxes) would only apply if she was your employee, which doesn't sound like the case based on what you described.
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Gael Robinson
•Wait, so if I have a lawn guy who comes every week in the summer ($50 each time) should I be giving him a 1099 too? I've never done this and now I'm worried I've been doing it wrong for years!
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Summer Green
•Yes, if you paid your lawn service provider $600 or more during the tax year, you should issue them a 1099-NEC. In your case, at $50 per week during summer months, it would depend on how many weeks they worked. If it was 12+ weeks, you'd cross that $600 threshold. For both your lawn provider and the original poster's housekeeper, the key factors that make them independent contractors are that they control how and when they do the work, use their own equipment, and likely work for multiple clients. Many people don't realize they have this obligation for household service providers, so it's a common oversight.
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Edward McBride
I was in your exact same position last year and was completely confused about the W-2 vs 1099 situation for my house cleaner. I spent hours trying to figure out IRS publications and got nowhere. Then I found this AI tool called taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) that helped me figure out the whole household employee vs. contractor situation in minutes. I just uploaded a screenshot of my payment history and explained my situation, and it gave me a clear answer about whether I needed to file a 1099-NEC or W-2. It also provided instructions on exactly how to handle it properly. Saved me so much stress and probably prevented an audit headache!
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Darcy Moore
•Does it actually work with household employee questions? Most tax software I've tried is terrible with anything outside of basic W2 income. How detailed was the guidance?
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Dana Doyle
•I'm kinda skeptical about AI tools for tax advice... isn't there a risk it could give you wrong information? What makes this better than just calling a CPA?
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Edward McBride
•It works really well with household employee questions. Unlike regular tax software, it actually explains the control factors the IRS looks at (schedule control, supplies, multiple clients, etc.) and asks you specific questions to determine the correct classification. Then it gives you a step-by-step plan for compliance. What makes it different from a CPA is immediate access and cost. When I was panicking at 11pm about this tax issue, I couldn't call a CPA, but I could use taxr.ai. It also provides specific citations to IRS publications so you can verify everything. I still ran the final conclusion by my accountant, but she confirmed it was correct.
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Dana Doyle
So I was really skeptical about using AI for tax advice (as you can see from my comment above), but I finally tried taxr.ai when I was desperate trying to figure out if my dog walker was a household employee or contractor. I was genuinely surprised - it asked me really specific questions about who controlled the work schedule, who provided supplies, whether they worked for other people, etc. Then it gave me a clear determination with IRS citations explaining why my dog walker was a contractor, not an employee. It even generated the right forms I needed for my records. Honestly wish I'd known about this sooner before I spent hours on the IRS website getting more confused with each publication I read.
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Liam Duke
If you need to contact the IRS to get clarification on household employee rules, good luck getting through. I spent THREE DAYS trying to reach someone about this exact issue last year. Finally found this service called Claimyr (https://claimyr.com) that got me through to an actual IRS agent in under 20 minutes. You can see how it works here: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c The agent walked me through the household employee vs. contractor test and confirmed I was handling my housekeeper's taxes correctly. Such a relief after days of getting disconnected or waiting on hold.
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Manny Lark
•Wait, how does this actually work? Does it just call the IRS for you or something? I'm confused how a third party service could get you through faster than calling directly.
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Rita Jacobs
•This sounds like BS honestly. The IRS phone system is the same for everyone. No way some service can magically get you through faster than me calling myself. They're probably just taking your money for nothing.
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Liam Duke
•It doesn't call for you - it holds your place in line and notifies you when you're about to reach an agent. It uses technology to navigate the IRS phone tree and stay on hold so you don't have to sit there listening to the hold music for hours. It absolutely works, though I was skeptical too. The IRS phone system has capacity limits - they only let a certain number of callers into the queue at once. The service keeps trying to get in the queue when others are giving up, then when you're close to an agent, they call you so you can take over. It's not magic, just clever automation of a tedious process.
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Rita Jacobs
Alright, I need to eat my words from my skeptical comment above. After battling the IRS phone system for 4 days trying to get household employee guidance, I broke down and tried Claimyr out of desperation. I got a call back in about 25 minutes saying I was being connected to an agent. I was honestly shocked. Got through to someone in the household employment tax department who confirmed my housekeeper IS an employee since I provide cleaning supplies and set specific cleaning tasks. This literally saved me hours of frustration and possibly an audit. I'm still surprised it worked, but now I'm telling everyone about it.
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Khalid Howes
One thing I haven't seen mentioned - if your housekeeper is determined to be an employee rather than contractor, you might need to pay FICA taxes (Social Security and Medicare). For 2025, that's 7.65% that you pay as the employer PLUS 7.65% that you withhold from their wages. You also might need to pay federal and state unemployment taxes. This is why many people avoid properly classifying household help - it's expensive and complicated! But the penalties for misclassification can be much worse.
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Amun-Ra Azra
•Thanks for adding this! Do you know if there's a minimum threshold for household employees? Like if I only pay her a few thousand a year, do all these requirements still apply?
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Khalid Howes
•Yes, there are thresholds that make it a bit easier for casual household employers. For 2025, you don't need to pay Social Security and Medicare taxes if you pay a household employee less than $2,600 for the year. Federal unemployment tax (FUTA) only applies if you paid $1,000 or more in any calendar quarter to household employees. State thresholds vary, so you'd need to check your specific state rules. However, even if you're under these thresholds, if they're legally an employee rather than a contractor, you still should have them complete a W-4 and you should keep records of payments. It's a gray area that trips up many household employers.
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Ben Cooper
Just wanna throw out there - a lot of housekeepers prefer cash without paperwork. If you start doing 1099s, she might raise her rates or find other clients. Not saying you shouldn't follow tax laws, but be prepared that there could be a business impact.
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Naila Gordon
•This is terrible advice. Tax evasion is a crime for both parties. Just because "a lot of housekeepers prefer" avoiding taxes doesn't make it legal or ethical. OP should follow the law regardless.
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Savanna Franklin
Great question! I went through this exact situation last year. Based on what you've described - she brings her own supplies, sets her own schedule, and works independently - she sounds like an independent contractor rather than an employee. Since you've paid her $2,400 over 8 months ($150 × 2 × 8), you'll need to issue her a 1099-NEC because it's over the $600 threshold. You'll need her SSN or Tax ID number, and the form is due by January 31st for the previous tax year. The key factors the IRS looks at are: who controls when/how the work is done, who provides equipment/supplies, and whether they work for multiple clients. Your situation checks the contractor boxes. Just make sure to keep good records of payments and get her tax info before year-end!
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LilMama23
I actually had this exact situation with my housekeeper last year and learned the hard way that the IRS looks at multiple factors beyond just supplies and scheduling. Even though my housekeeper brought her own supplies, the IRS agent I spoke with explained that since I was directing specific tasks (like "clean the bathrooms first, then kitchen") and she only worked for me regularly, she was actually classified as an employee. The determining factors aren't just about supplies - it's really about the degree of control you have over the work. If you're telling her what to clean, when to clean it, or how to do specific tasks, that leans toward employee status. If she's truly independent (you just say "clean the house" and she decides everything else), then contractor makes sense. I ended up having to file Schedule H and pay the household employment taxes retroactively. It was a pain, but better than dealing with penalties later. I'd recommend really carefully going through the IRS 20-factor test or getting professional advice before deciding, because the consequences of getting it wrong can be expensive.
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Anita George
•This is really helpful to hear from someone who actually went through an audit! The 20-factor test you mentioned - is that something that's readily available online or did you have to get it from the IRS agent? I'm now second-guessing myself because I do give my housekeeper specific instructions about which rooms to prioritize and how I like certain things done. How much did the retroactive household employment taxes end up costing you if you don't mind me asking? Trying to figure out if it's worth potentially having an awkward conversation with my housekeeper about switching to employee status vs just hoping I classified correctly as contractor.
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Elijah Brown
•@e975fecc016e The 20-factor test (now called the "common law test") is available in IRS Publication 15-A, but honestly it's pretty dense reading. The IRS website has a simplified version that's easier to understand. For me, the retroactive taxes weren't terrible - maybe around $400 total for FICA taxes (both employer and employee portions) plus some penalties. But that was for about $3,000 in wages over 6 months. The bigger pain was the paperwork and having to explain to my housekeeper why she was suddenly getting a W-2. If you're giving specific instructions about priorities and methods, that definitely pushes toward employee status. I'd honestly recommend using one of those AI tools others mentioned or calling the IRS (maybe through that Claimyr service) to get clarity before year-end. It's way less awkward to get it right from the start than to have to backtrack later.
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Niko Ramsey
I've been dealing with a similar situation with my cleaning lady for the past two years. What really helped me figure it out was focusing on the "control" aspect that others have mentioned. The IRS basically asks: do you control what work is done, when it's done, and how it's done? In my case, I realized I was definitely controlling WHAT (specific cleaning tasks) and WHEN (I preferred certain days), but my cleaner controlled HOW (her methods, her products, her routine). Since you mentioned she sets her own schedule and brings supplies, that's leaning contractor. But if you're giving her specific instructions about what to clean or how you want things done, that could push it toward employee status. One practical tip: I started keeping a simple log of our interactions. If most of your communication is just "see you Thursday" vs "please make sure to vacuum the stairs and dust the ceiling fans," that can help clarify the relationship. The documentation also helps if you ever need to justify your classification to the IRS. At $2,400/year, you're definitely over the 1099 threshold, so you'll need her tax ID either way. I'd suggest having that conversation soon since year-end is coming up fast!
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Faith Kingston
•This is such a practical approach! The documentation tip is brilliant - I never thought about keeping a log of interactions to help clarify the relationship. I'm definitely in the "see you Thursday" camp rather than giving specific task instructions, which makes me feel more confident about contractor classification. Quick question though - when you say you needed her tax ID "either way," do you mean even if she was classified as an employee you'd still need the same information? I'm trying to get all my ducks in a row before having the tax ID conversation with my housekeeper, and I want to make sure I'm asking for the right documentation regardless of how this gets classified. Also, at what point in the year did you have that conversation? I'm worried about it being awkward since we've been doing cash payments for months without discussing taxes at all.
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