Surrogate mother compensation - do we need to report this income on our taxes?

From a tax perspective, compensation received for surrogacy services is considered taxable income. The IRS has a broad definition of income - basically, any money you receive is taxable unless there's a specific exemption for it. And currently, there's no specific exemption for surrogacy compensation. The fact that the agency doesn't issue 1099s doesn't change your obligation to report the income. Many agencies avoid issuing tax forms because they want to position the payments as "gifts" or "reimbursements," but the IRS would likely view the full compensation as taxable since your wife provided a service and was paid for it. That said, you can potentially deduct related expenses that weren't reimbursed. These might include mileage for medical visits, additional medical costs not covered by the intended parents, special dietary needs, etc. Just make sure you have documentation for these expenses.

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Surrogate here! I reported my compensation as "other income" (not self-employment) on my taxes last year. My reasoning was that this was a one-time thing, not a business I was running. I deducted the expenses that weren't reimbursed separately. My tax person said surrogacy is in this weird gray area, but better to report it than not. The IRS tends to notice when large sums suddenly appear in your bank account! But I'm not a tax professional so definitely get proper advice for your situation.

You might want to check if your state has any specific guidance on surrogacy income. Here in California, the state tax board has slightly different rules than the IRS for certain types of income. Our tax preparer found that we needed to report differently on our state return than on our federal. Just something else to consider!

I think the most conservative approach is to report it as income, but you might want to consult with a tax professional who specifically has experience with surrogacy cases. There are some CPAs who specialize in this area. When my sister was a surrogate, she found one through her surrogacy support group who had handled dozens of similar cases and knew exactly how to approach it. Whatever you do, don't follow the agency's informal suggestion to not report it. The IRS has ways of finding unreported income, especially amounts this significant, and the penalties for non-reporting can be steep.

I went through this exact situation two years ago when my wife was a surrogate. After consulting with a tax attorney who specializes in reproductive law, we learned that the IRS generally treats surrogacy compensation as taxable income, but the classification (self-employment vs. other income) can make a huge difference in your tax liability. The key factors that helped us determine the proper reporting were: 1) Whether this was a one-time arrangement or part of an ongoing business, 2) How the contract was structured, and 3) The level of control the intended parents had over the process. In our case, we reported it as "other income" on Schedule 1 rather than self-employment income, which saved us thousands in self-employment taxes. We documented everything meticulously - separating actual compensation from medical expense reimbursements, which aren't taxable if properly documented. Don't let the agency's informal advice guide your tax decisions. The $42,000 you mentioned is significant enough that the IRS would likely notice if it's not reported, especially if it was paid via check or bank transfer. Better to be conservative and report it properly than face potential penalties later. I'd strongly recommend consulting with a CPA who has experience with surrogacy cases - it's worth the consultation fee for peace of mind on something this substantial.