Do surrogate mothers pay taxes on their compensation? Tax implications for surrogacy income?
My wife recently became a surrogate mother for a couple who couldn't have children, and we're trying to figure out the tax situation. The surrogacy agency doesn't provide 1099s, and they casually mentioned that most surrogate mothers don't report the compensation as income on their taxes. I've been searching online and apparently there's nothing specific in the tax code about surrogacy compensation. But this seems like a gray area to me - just because there's no specific code doesn't mean it's not taxable under some general income category, right? The compensation is pretty substantial (around $45,000) so I want to make sure we're doing the right thing here. I don't want to get in trouble with the IRS down the road, but also don't want to pay taxes if we truly don't have to. Has anyone dealt with this situation before? Any advice would be appreciated!
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Felicity Bud
This is definitely taxable income. The IRS has a general definition that all income is taxable unless specifically excluded by law. Just because the agency doesn't issue a 1099 doesn't mean the income isn't taxable - they're likely trying to avoid their own reporting requirements. Surrogacy compensation is generally considered taxable income, similar to how other types of compensation for services are treated. Since there's no specific exemption for surrogacy in the tax code, it falls under general income rules. The agency telling you "most surrogates don't report it" is essentially suggesting tax evasion, which is a huge red flag. You should report this on Schedule C as self-employment income, which means you'll also owe self-employment tax (Medicare and Social Security) on top of regular income tax. Keep track of any related expenses that might be deductible, like mileage to medical appointments related to the surrogacy.
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Max Reyes
•Thanks for the information. If we report it as self-employment income, can my wife deduct any medical expenses related to the pregnancy? Also, is there any chance the IRS would consider this a "gift" instead of income?
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Felicity Bud
•Medical expenses directly related to the surrogacy that weren't reimbursed by the intended parents or covered by insurance might be deductible as business expenses on Schedule C. However, normal pregnancy expenses that would occur regardless of the surrogacy arrangement likely wouldn't qualify. This definitely wouldn't qualify as a gift. The IRS defines a gift as a transfer made out of "detached and disinterested generosity." Since your wife is providing a service (carrying and delivering a baby) in exchange for payment, this is clearly compensation for services rendered, not a gift. The intended parents are paying for a service, not giving your wife money out of generosity with no expectation of anything in return.
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Lindsey Fry
Former tax preparer here. One thing to consider is that if the surrogacy agency isn't issuing 1099s, the IRS won't have an automatic record of the income. BUT this doesn't mean you shouldn't report it. If you get audited and they discover unreported income of $45k, you'll face penalties and interest on top of the taxes owed. The penalty for failure to report income can be substantial - usually 20% of the unpaid tax amount. Also consider that the intended parents might deduct these expenses on their taxes in some way, which could create a paper trail back to your wife.
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Saleem Vaziri
•What if the intended parents are from another country? Would there still be a paper trail the IRS could follow?
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Lindsey Fry
•Even if the intended parents are from another country, there could still be a paper trail. International wire transfers over $10,000 are generally reported to FinCEN. If the agency is based in the US, their financial records could be examined in an audit. Additionally, audits don't always happen because the IRS "knows" something specific. They sometimes select returns randomly or based on statistical models that flag unusual patterns. If you're audited for any reason and they request bank statements showing deposits that don't match reported income, you'll have a problem. It's always better to properly report all income rather than hoping you won't get caught.
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Kayla Morgan
My sister was a surrogate in 2022 and she DID report the income on her taxes. She reported it as self-employment income on Schedule C, and yes, had to pay both income tax and self-employment tax on it. She was able to deduct some business expenses like special maternity clothes she wouldn't have otherwise needed, mileage to medical appointments, and a portion of her phone bill for surrogacy-related communications. But the base compensation was definitely treated as taxable income.
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James Maki
•Was your sister able to deduct any of the medical expenses related to the pregnancy itself? I've heard conflicting information about this.
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StarSailor
As someone who's been through a similar situation, I'd strongly recommend consulting with a tax professional who has experience with unusual income situations. The general consensus here is correct - surrogacy compensation is taxable income that should be reported on Schedule C. One thing I learned is that you'll want to keep detailed records of everything related to the surrogacy arrangement. This includes the contract, payment records, any medical expenses you incurred that weren't reimbursed, and documentation of business-related expenses like travel to appointments. The fact that the agency casually mentioned that "most surrogates don't report it" is concerning. Even if that's true, it doesn't make it legal. The IRS considers all income taxable unless there's a specific exclusion, and there's no exclusion for surrogacy compensation. Better to pay the taxes now than face penalties, interest, and potential legal issues later if you're audited. Also consider setting aside about 25-30% of the compensation for taxes if you haven't already, since you'll owe both income tax and self-employment tax on the full amount.
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William Schwarz
•This is really helpful advice. I'm curious - when you went through this, did you end up owing estimated taxes since there was no withholding? We're worried about getting hit with underpayment penalties since this is such a large amount of additional income for the year that we weren't expecting to owe taxes on initially.
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