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Filed jointly for first time, but IRS sent my unemployed husband a balance due letter. Why?!

So my husband and I filed our taxes jointly for the first time this year (got married last October) and everything seemed to go smoothly. We filed back in February and even got our refund without issues. But now, out of nowhere, we just received this letter from the IRS addressed ONLY to my husband demanding payment of $4,100! I'm completely confused because my husband hasn't worked at all since 2022 when he went back to school full-time. I'm the only one with income in our household. The letter is dated June 15th, 2025 and has some reference number at the top. It says something about "tax assessment" and "balance due" but doesn't explain WHY they think he owes anything. All our W-2 forms were from my employment only. Is this some kind of mistake because we changed from single to joint filing? Has anyone dealt with something similar? I'm freaking out a little because we definitely don't have $4,100 just sitting around.

This sounds like it could be related to a couple of different issues. When you file jointly, both spouses become equally responsible for the entire tax liability, even if only one spouse earned income. However, it's unusual that the notice was addressed only to your husband if you filed jointly. First thing you should do is carefully review the notice for any explanation of the assessment. Look for codes, forms mentioned, or tax years referenced. It's possible this could be related to a prior year when your husband was working, or it could be an identity theft issue where someone filed using his information. Another possibility is that there was an error in how your filing status change was processed. Sometimes when transitioning from single to joint filing, the IRS systems don't properly link the accounts, causing confusion.

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Thanks for the reply! I looked at the notice more carefully and it does mention "Tax Year 2023" at the top. My husband wasn't working then either, but he did cash out an old 401k from his previous job to help pay for school. Could that be related? The notice doesn't mention anything specific about retirement accounts though.

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That's very likely the issue! When your husband cashed out his 401k, there would have been mandatory withholding, but it's often not enough to cover the full tax liability. The distribution is considered taxable income plus there's typically a 10% early withdrawal penalty if he was under 59½. When you filed jointly, that 401k distribution should have been reported on your joint return. If it wasn't included, the IRS would have received a Form 1099-R showing the distribution, but not seen it reported on your return, triggering this notice.

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Ev Luca

The exact same thing happened to me and my wife last year. Turned out it was from an old 401k that my wife had cashed out but we forgot to include on our joint return. Check if your husband received a 1099-R form from his old plan administrator. The IRS gets a copy of these forms automatically, so if you didn't report it on your return, their system flags it as unreported income. What's super annoying is that the IRS often calculates the worst possible tax scenario when they send these notices. They might not have applied any of your deductions or credits to the 401k distribution, which is why the amount seems so high.

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I think you're right! I just found a 1099-R from his old employer's retirement plan that came in January. With everything going on with the wedding and moving, we must have missed it when doing our taxes. But shouldn't the letter have come to both of us since we filed jointly?

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Ev Luca

Even though you filed jointly, the IRS sometimes sends notices to the specific person associated with the unreported income. Since the 1099-R was issued in your husband's name and SSN, their automated system probably generated the notice specifically to him. You should definitely file an amended return (Form 1040-X) to properly report the 401k distribution. You might end up owing less than the notice states because you'll get to apply joint filing tax rates and any deductions/credits you're eligible for. Just don't ignore it - penalties and interest will keep adding up.

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Make sure to check if your husband qualifies for any exceptions to the 10% early withdrawal penalty! If the 401k money was used for qualified education expenses, you might be able to avoid the penalty part (though you'd still owe regular income tax on the distribution). IRS Publication 590-B has all the details on early withdrawal exceptions.

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This is super important advice! My husband used his 401k for education expenses and we were able to avoid the 10% penalty by filing Form 5329 and claiming the exception. Saved us over $2,000. The IRS doesn't automatically know what you used the money for.

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Thank you! He definitely used the funds for tuition and books for his master's program. I didn't realize there might be an exception for education expenses. I'll look up that publication right away. Does anyone know if we need to file a separate form for this exception?

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Yes, you'll need to file Form 5329 to claim the education expense exception for the early withdrawal penalty. You can file it along with your amended return (1040-X) to report the 401k distribution properly. Make sure to keep all receipts and documentation for tuition, fees, books, and other qualified education expenses - you'll need to show that the withdrawal amount didn't exceed your qualified expenses for that tax year. The form has specific instructions on how to calculate and report the exception.

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