Can I report child tax credit fraud if money wasn't shared with me?
So I'm living in Nevada now but I think this might fall under Arizona law since the taxes were originally filed there. Here's my situation: My sister was staying with my cousin until around February this year. He basically only covered the apartment rent and utilities, while I was the one buying all her clothes, school supplies, and personal items she needed. Then in February, he suddenly told my sister she couldn't stay there anymore, so she moved in with me. The problem is, he rushed and claimed her as a dependent on his taxes before I could file mine. When we talked about it, he promised he'd give me the monthly child tax credit payments since I'm actually taking care of her now. The first payment, he sent me the full amount. The second month, he only gave me half of what he was supposed to. Now he's completely blocked my number and social media, so I didn't get anything for August and probably won't see September's payment either. What I want to know is - do I have any legal options here? Can I report him for this or is that money legally his since he claimed her first? I'm the one actually supporting my sister now, but he's keeping the tax credit money meant for her care.
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Malik Thomas
This is definitely a tricky situation, but I can help clarify some things about the Child Tax Credit. The child tax credit belongs to whoever legally claims the child as a dependent on their tax return. When your cousin claimed your sister, he became entitled to those advance payments. However, there are some important considerations: To legitimately claim a dependent, the child must have lived with the taxpayer for more than half the year. Since your sister moved in with you in February, your cousin might not meet this residency requirement for 2025's taxes. You may have a stronger claim for next year's taxes, but for this year's payments, it comes down to who had the right to claim her. If your cousin didn't actually provide more than half of her support or if she didn't live with him for the required time, that could potentially be considered improper. What I'd suggest is documenting all the support you've provided (receipts for clothes, supplies, etc.) and consulting with a tax professional. You could potentially file your own return claiming her, which would flag the situation for the IRS to investigate, though this would likely delay any refund.
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Isabella Oliveira
•If I'm in this situation but I have proof that I've been supporting my niece for 9 months this year (bank statements, receipts, etc.) but my sister already claimed her, can I still file and claim her? Would the IRS actually look at my documentation or just automatically reject since someone else claimed her first?
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Malik Thomas
•If you have documentation showing you provided support for 9 months, you absolutely can claim your niece on your return. The IRS doesn't just go with whoever files first - they look at who actually qualifies under the tax rules. When two people claim the same dependent, the IRS will typically send notices to both parties requesting documentation. They'll review the evidence from both sides to determine who truly had the right to claim the dependent. Having records like receipts, bank statements, school records showing your address, and medical bills will be extremely helpful in proving your case.
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Ravi Kapoor
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Freya Larsen
•How long did the whole process take for you? Did you have to wait until next tax season or were you able to get it resolved faster? I'm in a similar boat with my stepkid.
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GalacticGladiator
•Sounds like another sketchy service. Did they actually help with the IRS communication or just give you general advice? I'm suspicious of anything that claims to help with tax disputes.
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Ravi Kapoor
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GalacticGladiator
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Omar Zaki
If you need to actually talk to someone at the IRS about this (which you probably will), good luck getting through on your own. I spent WEEKS trying to reach someone about a similar dependent issue. Then someone told me about Claimyr (https://claimyr.com) - you can see how it works at https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c They basically hold your place in the IRS phone queue and call you when an agent picks up. I was skeptical but it worked perfectly. Got through to an actual human at the IRS who helped me understand my options for disputing an incorrectly claimed dependent. Saved me hours of listening to hold music and getting disconnected. In your case, you'll probably need to speak directly with the IRS to explain your situation and find out what documentation they need from you to resolve this.
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Chloe Taylor
•Wait, so this is just a service that waits on hold for you? How much does it cost? Seems like something I could just ask a friend to do for me.
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Diego Flores
•I don't buy it. The IRS phone system is designed to be impossible. Even if you got through, they'd just tell you to submit paperwork anyway. Sounds like a waste of money to me.
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Omar Zaki
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Diego Flores
I'm actually embarrassed to be posting this after my skeptical comment above. I finally broke down and tried Claimyr last week after my third rejection letter from the IRS about my dependent claim issue. Got connected to an IRS agent in about 25 minutes (after spending literal HOURS trying on my own multiple times). The agent walked me through exactly what documentation I needed for my specific situation and even told me about a form I didn't know existed that would support my case better. Just received confirmation yesterday that my amended return was accepted and I'll be getting the full child tax credit for my daughter. I've never been so happy to admit I was wrong about something. Would have saved myself months of frustration if I'd done this sooner.
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Anastasia Ivanova
Something nobody's mentioned yet - even if your cousin was technically allowed to claim her for 2024 taxes, you should be documenting EVERYTHING now for your 2025 taxes. Save receipts for: - Clothing/school supplies - Medical expenses - Food costs - Portion of rent/utilities - Transportation costs - Any activities or lessons The more documentation you have showing you're providing over 50% of support, the stronger your case will be next year. Also, make sure your sister is registered at school with your address! That's a big one the IRS looks at.
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Emma Wilson
•Thanks for this advice! I've already started keeping receipts but I didn't think about the school registration part. Her school still has my cousin's address listed as her home address. Should I get that changed right away or wait until the start of next semester?
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Anastasia Ivanova
•Definitely get the school address updated immediately. Don't wait for next semester. This is one of the strongest pieces of documentation the IRS considers when determining where a child actually lives. While you're at it, make sure any doctor's offices, dentists, and other official records have your current address too. Also, if your sister sees any kind of therapist or counselor, having them document that she lives with you can be extremely helpful. The more official records showing she's under your care, the better position you'll be in for next year's taxes.
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Sean Murphy
I actually work at a tax prep office and see this kind of thing all the time. One thing to consider - if your sister is over 17, the child tax credit wouldn't apply anyway. Make sure she's actually eligible before pursuing this.
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StarStrider
•Good point. The post doesn't mention the sister's age. For 2024/2025 taxes, the child tax credit is only for kids under 17 at the end of the tax year. If she's older, this would be about the dependent exemption, not the child tax credit.
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Emma Wilson
•She's 14, so definitely eligible for the child tax credit. I should have mentioned that in my original post, sorry for the confusion! Good to know there's an age cutoff though.
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