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There might be one workaround depending on your situation. If you're self-employed and your pet is used in your business (like a guard dog for a security business, or a cat for pest control in a warehouse), those expenses might be deductible as business expenses, not medical expenses. But this is very specific and you'd need to show legitimate business use. Most family pets won't qualify.
Does this apply to social media influencers? My cat has an Instagram with 10k followers and I occasionally get free products to post about. Could the vet bills be a business expense if he's technically generating income?
That's actually a great question about social media pets. It could potentially qualify if you've properly set up a business entity and your pet's social media presence generates regular income that you report on your taxes. You'd need to treat it like a legitimate business with proper bookkeeping showing the connection between the pet's health and your business income. If you're only occasionally receiving free products but not actually reporting income from this activity, it would be much harder to justify as a business expense. The IRS looks for regular, ongoing business activity with the intent to make a profit, not just hobby activities.
My accountant told me to use a FSA (Flexible Spending Account) or HSA (Health Savings Account) to plan for pet expenses! Has anyone tried this approach??
Your accountant gave you incorrect information. FSAs and HSAs are specifically for qualified human medical expenses only. Using these accounts for pet expenses would violate IRS rules and could result in penalties. You might want to double-check this with another tax professional.
Also worth checking what the dividend withholding rate is under your specific tax treaty. Most countries have treaties with the US that reduce withholding on dividends from 30% to 15% or even lower in some cases. Since you didn't have a W8-BEN on file, they probably withheld at the full 30% rate. Depending on your new country of residence, you might be eligible for a refund of the difference when you file your US tax return.
Do you know if you can claim this refund if you're not required to file a US tax return otherwise? I'm in a similar situation (small dividend after moving) but don't have any other US income to report.
Yes, you can still claim a refund even if you're not otherwise required to file a US return. You would file Form 1040-NR specifically to claim the refund of overwithholding. For small amounts, you'll need to decide if it's worth the effort. The form isn't particularly complicated, but you'll need to include a copy of your 1042-S showing the withholding and explain that you're eligible for the lower treaty rate. Some people find it's not worth the hassle if the refund amount is very small.
The automatic reinvestment is actually more problematic than the dividend itself. When you sell that reinvested amount, it creates a new capital gains event that you'll have to report. Make sure to track the cost basis of those reinvested shares!
This is a good point. Would the broker still provide an accurate cost basis on the 1099-B for those reinvested shares even if the account holder is now a non-resident alien?
Don't forget to also contact your state tax authority! I made the mistake of only dealing with the IRS when my ex committed tax fraud, and then got hit with state tax penalties a few months later. Most states have their own innocent spouse provisions, but you usually need to file separately with them. Also, gather as much evidence as you can that you were kept in the dark about finances. This includes: - Any emails/texts where your ex refused to discuss money - Statements showing you didn't have access to accounts - Testimony from friends/family who witnessed the financial control - Documentation from your therapist about financial abuse (with your permission) The more evidence you have that you couldn't have known about the tax issues, the stronger your case will be.
That's a really good point about state taxes that I hadn't considered. I'm in Texas which doesn't have state income tax, but we did live in California for two years during our marriage. Should I be concerned about that?
Yes, absolutely contact California's tax authority (Franchise Tax Board) immediately! California is extremely aggressive about collecting back taxes, and they have a lookback period of up to 20 years for tax fraud. If your ex didn't pay proper taxes while you lived there, California could come after you separately from the IRS. California does have an innocent spouse program, but you need to be proactive about it. Don't wait for them to find you. The good news is that if you get innocent spouse relief from the IRS, California generally follows the federal determination, but you still need to file the proper paperwork with them.
As someone who went through this exact situation, make sure you're documenting EVERYTHING right now. Every letter from the IRS, every conversation (get badge numbers of agents you speak with), every communication with your ex or their attorney. Also, consider filing taxes separately from now on using Married Filing Separately status until the divorce is final. This won't help with past issues but prevents new ones. And when you file your 2024 taxes next year, make sure you work with a tax professional who specializes in innocent spouse situations.
Adding to this excellent advice - be prepared for a long process. My innocent spouse case took 14 months to resolve completely. The IRS isn't known for speed. Make sure you respond to every letter they send within the timeframe they specify, and always send things certified mail so you have proof of delivery.
Check your bank account again! Sometimes they process it as direct deposit even if you selected check. Happened to me last year. Also, make sure you're checking the correct tax year on the Where's My Refund tool. I was looking at 2023 instead of 2024 for like a month wondering where my money was lol
This is actually good advice. I had selected paper check on my return but they sent direct deposit anyway using my bank info from the previous year. Worth checking both!
Have you tried checking your transcript on the IRS website? Sometimes it shows more detailed info than the Where's My Refund tool. You can access it by creating an account on IRS.gov. The transcript might show if there are any holds or issues with your return that are causing the delay.
Issac Nightingale
Something important that nobody has mentioned - technically, at 19, your son might not even qualify as a dependent unless he's a full-time student. The rules change after they turn 19. If he's in college full-time, you can claim him until he's 24, but if he's not a full-time student, he might not qualify as your dependent regardless of who he lives with. Make sure you check the age requirements for dependency claims before you get into a battle with your ex. Also, does your son work? If he provides more than half of his own support, neither of you can claim him.
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Maggie Martinez
ā¢That's a really good point I hadn't considered! He is a full-time college student, so I think I'm still eligible to claim him. He works part-time at the campus bookstore, but I'm definitely providing well over half his support (tuition, housing, food, car insurance, phone, etc.). Do you know if there's any form or documentation I should get from his college to prove he's enrolled full-time? I want to make sure I have everything in order before this becomes an issue with the IRS.
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Issac Nightingale
ā¢You'll want to get a transcript or enrollment verification from his college showing his full-time status for the tax year. Most schools can provide this through their registrar's office or student portal. This is important documentation to have on hand. For the support test, keep records of all those expenses you mentioned. Create a spreadsheet showing what you pay versus what he earns from his job to clearly demonstrate you provide more than half his support. Also, make sure you understand the difference between the Qualifying Child and Qualifying Relative tests for dependents - at 19, he's only a Qualifying Child if he's a full-time student, otherwise you'd need to see if he meets the tests for a Qualifying Relative.
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Romeo Barrett
Has anyone mentioned that your son should be filing his own taxes? At 19, he's an adult, and if he's working (even part-time), he likely needs to file. Maybe just ask him for his SSN directly? Seems weird to go through your ex when he's an adult now. Also, the person who mentioned the full-time student requirement is 100% correct. That's super important in your case since he's over 18.
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Marina Hendrix
ā¢This is what I was thinking too. At 19, why isn't the son just providing his own SSN to his parent? Something seems off about this whole situation. Maybe there's more to the story?
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