The "family glitch" might also apply to your situation. If your employer offers affordable coverage for just YOU but not for your family, you alone would be ineligible for premium tax credits, but your family members might still qualify for them on the marketplace. This rule was updated recently, so if you have family members on your marketplace plan, make sure to look into this specifically!

Yes, this is a really important point that many people miss! The "family glitch" fix that went into effect recently addresses exactly this situation. If your employer's family coverage costs more than 9.12% of your household income (even if your individual coverage is affordable), then your family members can qualify for premium tax credits on the marketplace. So in your example with $300/month for you and $1200/month for family coverage - if that family premium exceeds the affordability threshold based on your income, your wife and kids could potentially get subsidized marketplace coverage while you take the employer plan. You'd need to calculate whether $1200/month is more than 9.12% of your annual household income. This is definitely worth investigating if you have family members, as it could save thousands per year in premiums while keeping everyone properly covered without tax penalties.

I'm in the exact same situation! Got my 291 about 10 days ago and it's driving me crazy seeing everyone else's 846 codes rolling in. I keep refreshing my transcript like it's going to magically change 😅 From what I'm reading here, sounds like we just gotta be patient even though it's torture. Really hoping we see some movement soon! The financial stress of waiting is real when you're depending on that refund.

I totally feel your pain! I was stuck on 291 for almost a month and it was driving me absolutely insane watching everyone else get their refunds. The worst part is not knowing WHY you got the adjustment or when it'll finally move. I ended up calling the IRS (took 3 hours on hold 😩) and they told me it was an EIC adjustment that just needed extra review time. Finally got my 846 last week! Don't lose hope - I know it feels like you're forgotten but most people do eventually see movement. The waiting game is brutal but you're definitely not alone in this struggle! 💪

Just a word of caution - if your wife is on F1 and working on campus, her employer might incorrectly continue to treat her as FICA-exempt even after she becomes a resident for tax purposes. Many university payroll systems automatically exempt all F1 students from FICA without checking their 5-year exemption status. If this happens and you know she should be paying FICA (either due to the MFJ election or because she's passed the 5-year substantial presence exemption), you might need to file Form 843 to pay those taxes separately. Otherwise, you could face penalties later if the IRS catches this discrepancy during an audit.

This is a great discussion with lots of helpful insights! I wanted to add one more consideration that hasn't been mentioned yet. If your wife does end up being considered a resident alien (either through the substantial presence test as Javier mentioned, or through the MFJ election), make sure to also consider the impact on any tax treaty benefits she might currently be claiming. Many tax treaties have provisions that exempt students from US tax on certain types of income (like fellowship or scholarship income), but these benefits are typically only available to nonresident aliens. Once she becomes a resident for tax purposes, she may lose access to these treaty benefits. This could be particularly important if she receives any scholarship money beyond tuition and required fees, as that income might become taxable when she transitions to resident status. You'll want to factor this into your overall calculation of whether MFJ makes financial sense. Also, don't forget that if you do make the MFJ election, you'll need to continue making it every year until you formally revoke it or her status changes naturally. It's not a year-by-year choice once you start.

I feel your pain - I went through the exact same nightmare with my spouse's withholding! The 2020 W-4 changes really threw everyone for a loop. Here's what finally worked for us after two years of getting it wrong: Don't rely solely on the IRS calculator - it's helpful but can miss nuances. Instead, look at your previous year's tax return and calculate roughly what your tax liability should be for this year based on your expected income. For a $40,000 salary with only $212 withheld, your spouse's W-4 is definitely treating them as if they have no other household income. Make sure you check the "Multiple Jobs or Spouse Works" box in Step 2(c), but more importantly, use the worksheet that comes with the W-4 form to calculate the additional amount needed in Step 4(c). As a quick fix for this year, I'd recommend having your spouse add at least $100-150 per paycheck in additional withholding on line 4(c) to catch up. You can always adjust it down later if it's too much. Better to get a refund than owe a huge amount plus penalties! The key is coordination - both spouses need to fill out their W-4s together, not separately.

I went through this exact same frustration last year! The new W-4 form is definitely confusing, but there's a simple way to check if your withholding is on track throughout the year. Here's what I learned from my tax preparer: For someone making $40K, you should generally have around $2,000-3,000 in federal taxes withheld annually (depending on your total household income and filing status). With only $212 withheld, you're way off target. The quickest fix is to calculate what you should have withheld by now this year, then figure out how much extra to withhold from remaining paychecks. For example, if it's halfway through the year and you should have had $1,000 withheld but only have $100, you need to catch up by withholding an extra $900 over your remaining paychecks. I'd also recommend checking your pay stub every month to make sure the withholding amount looks reasonable. Don't wait until tax time to discover the problem again! One more tip: If your spouse's employer uses an online payroll system, you might be able to submit a new W-4 electronically and see the changes on the very next paycheck. Much faster than waiting for HR to process paper forms.

Has anyone here tried using TurboTax or H&R Block software to handle resubmitting a rejected return with dependent issues? I'm wondering if the commercial software makes this easier or if I should just prepare the forms manually.

I went through almost the exact same situation last year! My return was rejected due to dependent conflicts, and I also let it slide for way too long while dealing with other life stuff. The key thing is figuring out whether your return was actually processed or just rejected. If it was rejected and you never resubmitted, you're filing an original return, not an amendment. You can check this by looking at your IRS transcript online - if there's no record of a 2022 return being processed, then you definitely need to file a new original return. I ended up mailing in a complete 2022 Form 1040 with all schedules, and I included a brief cover letter explaining that this was my original return submission after an earlier e-file rejection due to dependent issues that have since been resolved. The IRS processed it without any problems, though it took about 12 weeks to get my refund since paper returns take longer. One tip: make sure to use the 2022 tax forms and instructions, not the current year ones. The IRS website has archives of all prior year forms if you need them.