I'm going through something very similar right now - my 2020 amended return was mailed certified on February 28th and it's been 12 weeks with absolutely nothing showing up in the "Where's My Amended Return" tool. I have the delivery confirmation that they received it on March 1st. What's really frustrating is that I called the main IRS number (1-800-829-1040) three times over the past month and each time I was told something different. First rep said "give it another few weeks," second one couldn't find any record of it at all, and the third one said paper returns are taking 4-6 months just to be entered into their system right now. The inconsistent information is almost worse than the delay itself. At least if they gave everyone the same realistic timeline, we'd know what to expect. But when their own website says 3 weeks and their phone reps are saying 4-6 months, it's impossible to know what's actually happening. I'm considering trying some of the services mentioned in this thread to get better information, because the uncertainty is really getting to me. Has anyone had luck getting consistent information from the IRS recently?

I feel your frustration completely - I went through something very similar with my 2018 amended return a couple years ago. The "3 weeks to show up in system" timeline on their website is honestly outdated and misleading at this point. Here's what I learned from my experience: The IRS processes paper amended returns in batches, and right now they're severely understaffed. Your return is almost certainly sitting in a physical pile somewhere waiting to be manually entered into their computer system. The fact that you have certified mail confirmation of delivery on April 11th is crucial - keep that documentation safe. At 8 weeks, you're definitely within your rights to call and inquire. Try calling early in the morning (8-9 AM) on Tuesday or Wednesday for the best chance of getting through quickly. When you call, have your SSN, filing status, exact dates, and that certified mail tracking number ready. One thing that helped me was asking the representative to put notes on my account about my inquiry. That way if you need to call again, there's a record of your previous calls and concerns. Also ask for a case reference number if they can provide one. The waiting is absolutely the worst part, but in my experience, these "lost" returns usually aren't actually lost - they're just buried in processing backlogs that are much longer than what their website suggests.

Pro tip: Write down all your previous addresses and employers for the past 3 years before you go. They love asking those surprise questions to trip people up lol

Been through this twice unfortunately. Besides what everyone mentioned, they might also ask about any changes in your banking info or direct deposit details from previous years. Also bring a recent pay stub if you're employed - they asked me about my current job even though it wasn't on my return yet. The whole thing took about 45 minutes but most of that was waiting. Good luck! 🤞

Thank you so much for asking this question! I'm in a similar situation - just started working full-time after college and this is my first year really needing to track my refund closely. From what I'm gathering from everyone's responses, transcripts are basically like getting a behind-the-scenes look at what the IRS is actually doing with your return, rather than just the basic "still processing" message on Where's My Refund. A few follow-up questions if anyone doesn't mind: 1. How often do transcripts typically update? Is it worth checking daily or just once a week? 2. Are there any specific codes that would indicate my return has an issue vs. just normal processing? 3. For someone like me who filed a pretty straightforward return (just W-2, standard deduction), what should I expect to see on my transcript timeline-wise? I really appreciate everyone taking the time to explain this stuff without making newcomers feel dumb for not knowing. The tax system can be so overwhelming when you're just starting out!

Great question! I'm also pretty new to this whole transcript thing. What I've learned from my own experience and reading through forums is that transcripts are basically like getting a detailed receipt of everything the IRS is doing with your return. The key thing that helped me understand it: think of the Where's My Refund tool as getting a text message saying "your package is in transit" versus the transcript being like detailed tracking that shows "package picked up at 2:15 PM, arrived at sorting facility at 4:30 PM, out for delivery at 8:00 AM" etc. For accessing them, you'll need to create an account on IRS.gov and verify your identity (they'll ask for info from credit reports, past tax returns, etc.). Once you're in, look for the "Account Transcript" option - that's the one that shows refund processing. The codes can look intimidating at first, but the main ones to know are: - 150: Your return was received and processed - 846: Refund issued (this will show your deposit date) - 570: Hold placed (usually just means they're verifying something) Since you filed a straightforward return, you'll probably just see the basic processing codes. Most people here check their transcripts weekly on their "cycle day" - you'll see what day that is once you access yours. Don't stress too much about learning every code right away; the community here is really helpful if you see something confusing!

Don't forget to consider other deductions like mortgage interest, student loan interest, retirement contributions, and charitable giving when figuring out your withholding. These can significantly impact your final tax bill. For example, if you're contributing to 401(k)s or IRAs, that reduces your taxable income. Same with HSA contributions if you have a high-deductible health plan. Also, with three kids, you should be getting substantial child tax credits depending on their ages. The child tax credit is $2,000 per qualifying child (currently), so that's a significant reduction in your actual tax liability.

With your combined income of around $168,000 and three dependents, you're definitely right to be concerned about withholding strategy. The income disparity between you and your wife (roughly 3.2:1 ratio) means the standard "Married Filing Jointly" withholding tables will likely underwithhold for your situation. Here's what I'd recommend based on your specific numbers: **For Your W-4:** - Keep "Married Filing Jointly" status - Claim all three dependents in Step 3 ($6,000 total) - Check box 2(c) for "Multiple Jobs or Spouse Works" - Consider adding an additional amount on line 4(c) - I'd estimate around $200-300 per month to be safe **For Your Wife's W-4:** - "Married Filing Jointly" status - Don't claim any dependents (since you're claiming them) - Also check box 2(c) The reason both of you should check 2(c) is that with such a significant income difference, the withholding needs to account for your combined income pushing you into higher tax brackets. However, the most accurate approach would be to run your numbers through the IRS Tax Withholding Estimator after your wife gets her first few paystubs. This will give you the exact additional withholding amount needed. Don't forget that your bonus will have taxes withheld at the supplemental rate (22% federal), but depending on your total tax liability, this might not be enough coverage anymore with your higher combined income.

I'm going through the exact same thing right now! My DDD is also 2/25 with Wells Fargo and I've been checking constantly since Friday with no pending deposit showing. After reading everyone's experiences here, it sounds like this is totally normal for Wells Fargo - they seem to be the most conservative bank when it comes to showing tax refunds as pending. Based on what others are saying, I'm going to try to relax and just check Sunday night/Monday morning. It's reassuring to hear that even when WF shows deposits super late, they still hit on time. Thanks for posting this - you're definitely not alone in the obsessive checking! 😅

I'm in the exact same situation! DDD of 2/25 with Wells Fargo and have been checking nonstop since Thursday with nothing showing as pending yet. This thread is so reassuring - I had no idea Wells Fargo was consistently this slow with showing pending deposits compared to other banks. Based on everyone's experiences here, it sounds like I shouldn't expect to see anything until Sunday night or Monday morning at the earliest. The waiting is killing me but at least now I know this is completely normal for WF. Thanks for posting this question - you saved me from a lot of unnecessary stress and probably a pointless call to customer service! 😊