Can I use a donated wedding dress as a tax write off against capital gains?

Tax deductions for donations don't directly offset capital gains taxes dollar-for-dollar. They reduce your overall taxable income, which can lower your total tax bill. For the wedding dress donation, she can typically deduct the fair market value of the dress at the time of donation, not necessarily what she paid for it. Since it's new with tags, that value might be close to the purchase price, but you'd need to determine the current fair market value - which could be significantly less than retail. To claim the deduction, she'll need to itemize deductions on Schedule A instead of taking the standard deduction. For 2025, the standard deduction is quite high ($13,850 for single filers and $27,700 for married filing jointly), so unless her total itemized deductions exceed that amount, there's no tax benefit to donating. For donations valued over $250, she'll need a written acknowledgment from the charity. If the value exceeds $500, she'll also need to fill out Form 8283. For items over $5,000, she might need a qualified appraisal.

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Something nobody's mentioned yet - your fiancée should make sure the organization she's donating to is a qualified 501(c)(3) charity. Not all non-profits qualify for tax deductions! I learned this the hard way after donating a bunch of stuff to a local theater that wasn't properly registered. Also, take LOTS of photos of the dress before donating - front, back, tags, receipt if you still have it. This documentation is super important especially for higher-value items.

Has anyone considered that she might be better off just selling the dress for whatever she can get rather than donating it? Even if she gets $1000-2000 for it (way less than the $5400 paid), that's actual money in her pocket versus a potential tax deduction that might not even help if she takes the standard deduction anyway.

I'd suggest getting a formal appraisal before making the final decision between selling vs. donating. If the dress truly has a fair market value of $2,500-3,000 (which seems reasonable for a $5,400 dress in perfect condition), and if your fiancée has other itemizable deductions that would push her over the standard deduction threshold, the tax benefit could be meaningful. But here's something to consider - if she's facing $13k in capital gains, that puts her in a higher tax bracket where charitable deductions provide more benefit. A $2,500 deduction could save her $550-625 in taxes (22-25% bracket) versus maybe getting $1,000-1,500 from a sale after months of trying. Also, don't forget about state tax benefits if your state allows charitable deductions. The combined federal and state tax savings might actually exceed what you could realistically get from selling it at this point. One more tip: if you do donate, consider doing it early in the tax year so you have time to make additional charitable donations if needed to maximize the itemized deduction benefit.

I've been through a similar situation with high-value donations and capital gains, so I wanted to share a few practical insights that might help. Regarding the appraisal cost - yes, you typically pay upfront (usually $150-300 for clothing items), but this cost is also tax-deductible as a miscellaneous expense related to tax preparation. So it doesn't completely eat into your savings. For timing, you're right that it just needs to happen before December 31st for that tax year. However, I mentioned doing it early because if the donation alone doesn't get you over the standard deduction threshold, you have time to plan other charitable giving throughout the year to maximize the benefit. One strategy I used: I bunched multiple years' worth of charitable giving into one tax year (donated items I was planning to give away over 2-3 years all at once). This pushed me well over the standard deduction threshold, making all the donations much more valuable tax-wise. Also, don't overlook that if she's in a high tax bracket due to capital gains, she might benefit from the Net Investment Income Tax (3.8%) reduction as well, which could add another layer of savings on top of the regular income tax benefit. The math really does favor donation in higher tax brackets, especially when you factor in both federal and state benefits.