Engagement Ring Gift Tax Question - Over $16,000 Limit for 2025?

This is a common misconception about the gift tax! When you give someone a gift over the annual exclusion amount (which is actually $18,000 for 2025), the recipient never pays the tax - the giver would be responsible for any potential tax implications. But here's the good news - you probably won't owe any actual tax either. Gifts over the annual exclusion don't trigger immediate tax payments. Instead, they reduce your lifetime gift and estate tax exemption, which is over $13 million per person in 2025. You'll just need to file a gift tax return (Form 709) to report the gift over $18,000, but no tax would be due unless you've already used up your lifetime exemption (which most people never come close to doing).

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Just adding another point - don't forget that the annual gift exclusion is per recipient, per giver. So technically, if you're both already married (which I know doesn't apply to OP's situation), both you and your spouse could each give $18,000 to the same person, meaning a total of $36,000 without hitting gift tax reporting requirements.

Something else to consider is that the ring might actually be considered a conditional gift rather than an outright gift until the marriage actually happens. There's some legal nuance here depending on your state. In many places, if the engagement is broken off, the ring goes back to the giver because it was conditional on the marriage occurring.

I went through this exact same situation last year when I proposed! The good news is that everyone here is giving you solid advice - your fiancée won't owe any taxes on the ring, and you probably won't either unless you're already close to that $13+ million lifetime exemption (which most of us definitely aren't!). Just wanted to add one practical tip: when you do file Form 709 to report the gift over $18,000, make sure you get a proper appraisal of the ring's fair market value rather than just using what you paid for it. Sometimes the actual value can be different from the purchase price, especially if you got a good deal or bought from a high-markup retailer. The IRS wants the fair market value, not necessarily your receipt amount. Also, don't stress too much about the paperwork - Form 709 is actually pretty straightforward for a simple gift like this. You've got until April 15th of the year after you give the gift to file it. Good luck with the proposal!

Great question about the appraisal timing! You don't need to get it done immediately when you purchase the ring - you have until you file Form 709 (by April 15th of the year after the gift) to obtain the appraisal. However, I'd recommend getting it done relatively soon after purchase while the market conditions are still similar. For IRS purposes, you'll want a certified appraisal from a qualified appraiser rather than just something from the jewelry store. Look for appraisers who are certified by organizations like the American Society of Appraisers (ASA) or the American Appraisal Society. The jewelry store appraisal might work for insurance purposes, but for tax reporting you want someone independent who specializes in valuations. One tip: when you get the appraisal, make sure they know it's for gift tax purposes specifically, as this can affect how they approach the valuation methodology. The fair market value should reflect what a willing buyer would pay a willing seller in the current market.