Can I get California EDD unemployment if I got fired for not having a babysitter?
So I just got let go from my job at a distribution warehouse and I'm honestly not sure if I even qualify for unemployment benefits. Here's what happened — my regular childcare fell through completely out of nowhere. My usual sitter quit without warning and I could not find a replacement in time. I called my supervisor and explained the situation, told them I had zero backup options and couldn't come in until I figured something out. They were understanding at first but after missing three shifts trying to sort out childcare, HR called and said they were terminating me for job abandonment basically. I've been reading conflicting stuff online about whether California EDD will approve my claim or deny it. Some people say getting fired automatically disqualifies you from UI benefits, but others say it depends on the reason. I genuinely had NO choice — I'm a single parent with no family nearby and every daycare in my area had a waitlist. This wasn't me slacking off or not caring about my job. I loved that job. Has anyone been in a similar situation where childcare issues led to termination? Did California EDD approve your claim or did you end up in adjudication? I filed online three days ago and I'm anxious waiting. I'm also wondering if I should be documenting everything — texts with my boss, proof I was trying to find childcare, daycare rejection emails, etc. Any advice would be really appreciated.
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Connor Richards
This is actually a really common situation and the answer isn't as black and white as people think. California EDD doesn't automatically disqualify you just because you were fired. What matters is whether you were fired for 'misconduct' under California unemployment law. Missing work because you genuinely had no childcare and you communicated that to your employer is very different from just not showing up without explanation. The key question EDD will ask is: did you make reasonable efforts to find alternative childcare? If the answer is yes — and it sounds like it is — then your termination may not qualify as misconduct under UI code. You have a real case here. Start gathering everything: texts, emails to daycares, any written communication with HR.
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Zoe Wang
AuthorThank you so much, this is reassuring. I definitely have texts with my supervisor explaining the situation and I have like 6 emails from daycares saying they were full. Should I upload all of this when I certify or wait until EDD asks for it?
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Grace Durand
upload everything proactively don't wait. when i filed mine i waited and it took an extra 3 weeks because they had to send me a separate request for docs
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Steven Adams
Agreed with uploading early. Also make sure your documentation shows the DATES line up with the shifts you missed. EDD will cross-reference the timeline.
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Alice Fleming
wait so you can get unemployment even if you got fired?? i always thought fired = no benefits automatically. been telling people this for years lol my bad
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Connor Richards
Super common misconception! California EDD differentiates between being fired for misconduct vs. being fired for reasons outside your control or poor performance. Misconduct has a specific legal definition in unemployment law — it's not just any reason an employer fires you.
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Hassan Khoury
yeah i learned this the hard way. got fired 2 years ago and didn't even bother filing because i assumed i'd be denied. turns out i probably would have qualified. just assumed the worst
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Victoria Stark
I went through something really similar about eight months ago. Not childcare exactly but I had a family emergency situation that caused me to miss several days and my employer terminated me. Filed with California EDD and ended up in adjudication for about five weeks. It was stressful but I was eventually approved because I could show I had a legitimate reason and communicated with my employer. One thing that REALLY helped me was actually getting to speak with an EDD rep on the phone when my claim got stuck. I used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that basically gets you connected to a live EDD agent without spending hours redialing. They have a demo video at https://youtu.be/JmuwXR7HA10 that explains how it works. When my adjudication dragged past the 3-week mark I used it and finally got a real person who could tell me exactly what documentation they needed. Worth it if you hit a wall.
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Zoe Wang
AuthorFive weeks in adjudication sounds terrifying honestly. Did they ever give you a reason for why it took that long? I'm on day 3 and already anxious
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Benjamin Kim
adjudication timelines are all over the place. my cousin had a similar fired-for-attendance thing and hers resolved in 12 days. another friend waited 9 weeks. theres no real pattern
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Victoria Stark
They never gave me a clear reason for the delay. When I finally got through to someone via Claimyr they said my file had been sitting waiting for an interviewer to be assigned. The agent actually expedited it after we spoke.
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Samantha Howard
good to know about that service. ive been trying to get through to EDD for 2 weeks on an unrelated issue and the phone situation is absolutely maddening
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Megan D'Acosta
I work in HR (not for your former employer obviously) and want to give you a realistic picture. When EDD contacts your former employer as part of the adjudication process, the employer will submit their version of events. They'll likely say it was job abandonment or attendance violations. Your job is to counter that narrative with documentation showing you communicated proactively and had a legitimate reason. The fact that you called your supervisor and explained — and have texts to prove it — is significant. That shows you didn't abandon the job. You had an unforeseeable childcare emergency. California courts have consistently held that childcare failures can constitute good cause under certain circumstances.
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Zoe Wang
AuthorThis is incredibly helpful context. So EDD basically hears both sides? I didn't realize they contact the employer too. That makes me a little nervous but I do have the texts so hopefully that helps.
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Grace Durand
yes they absolutely contact the employer. happened to me. employer tried to say i quit when i was laid off. had to fight it but won because i had everything documented
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Sarah Ali
Can they deny you just based on what the employer says even if you have proof? That seems unfair
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Hassan Khoury
not to be a downer but just prepare yourself mentally for adjudication. almost every claim that involves being fired goes into adjudication automatically its just how the system works. doesnt mean youll be denied it just means they have to investigate. keep certifying your weekly claims every week no matter what while you wait!!
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Zoe Wang
AuthorYes I've been certifying every week, I read that you have to keep doing that even while waiting. Good reminder though because I know some people forget and miss out on back pay.
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Connor Richards
This is correct — never stop filing your weekly certifications during adjudication or appeals. If you're eventually approved, you get paid for all the weeks you certified. If you stopped certifying, those weeks are gone permanently.
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Ryan Vasquez
My situation wasn't identical but close enough that I feel for you. I got fired because I kept having to leave early to pick up my kids when after-school care kept falling through. EDD put me in adjudication and scheduled a phone interview with an EDD interviewer. That interview was actually the turning point — I got to explain everything directly and they asked follow-up questions. Make sure when they schedule that interview you PICK UP THE PHONE. I almost missed mine because it came from a number I didn't recognize. They don't call twice and if you miss it your claim can get delayed significantly.
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Zoe Wang
AuthorOh wow I didn't know they do a phone interview — nobody mentioned that. I'll make sure to pick up every unknown number. Thank you for the heads up!
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Alice Fleming
this is so important. my roommate missed the EDD interview call and her claim got delayed like 6 additional weeks. answer every call
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Megan D'Acosta
Yes the interviewer call is critical. Also be concise and factual during the interview. Stick to what happened, when it happened, and what steps you took. Don't volunteer extra information that could complicate things.
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Hassan Khoury
also save the voicemail if they do leave one. the voicemail will usually tell you the case number and interviewer info so you can call back directly
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Steven Adams
Just to add some factual context about California UI law: Under Unemployment Insurance Code Section 1256, you're disqualified if you were terminated for MISCONDUCT connected to your work. California defines misconduct as a willful or wanton disregard for the employer's interests — not just any rule violation or performance issue. Childcare failure leading to absences, especially when you communicated with your employer and made genuine efforts to find alternatives, would be very difficult for EDD to classify as misconduct under that standard. You weren't willfully disregarding your employer. You were dealing with a genuine emergency situation beyond your control.
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Zoe Wang
AuthorSeeing the actual legal code reference makes me feel so much more confident. Section 1256 — I'm going to remember that if I need to reference it during an interview or appeal.
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Benjamin Kim
does this mean if you just like decided not to show up for no reason that would be misconduct? where's the line exactly
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Steven Adams
Generally yes — if you had no reason and just didn't show up without communication, that's more likely to be considered misconduct or voluntary leaving without good cause. The communication and legitimate reason are what separate your situation from that scenario.
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Avery Saint
UGHHH reading this thread because I'm going through almost the EXACT same thing right now. Fired last week because my daycare closed permanently with basically no notice and I missed 4 days straight trying to scramble. My manager was NOT understanding about it at all, acted like I should have had three backup plans ready. I filed Sunday and I'm terrified.
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Victoria Stark
You're not alone! This is way more common than people realize. File, document everything, keep certifying weekly, and be patient. The adjudication process exists literally for situations like yours where the termination reason isn't clear-cut misconduct.
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Connor Richards
Make sure you frame your situation accurately on your initial claim — 'discharged' not 'quit' and explain the childcare situation clearly in the additional information box. First impressions matter in how your claim gets categorized.
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Avery Saint
I think I put discharged but honestly the whole form was overwhelming and I'm not sure I explained it well enough in the box. Can I add more info somehow after submitting?
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Grace Durand
Something nobody's mentioned yet — make sure you're meeting the job search requirements while your claim is active. Even during adjudication you're technically supposed to be conducting job searches each week (3 contacts per week in California). When you certify you have to confirm you did this. Don't let the job search requirement slip because you're focused on the adjudication situation.
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Zoe Wang
AuthorOh shoot, I wasn't sure if job search applied during adjudication. I've been doing it anyway just in case but good to know it's required. 3 contacts per week — logging them in my notes app.
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Taylor Chen
wait is it 3 per week now? I thought it was 1 per week still? it changed?
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Grace Durand
Yes it went back to 3 employer contacts per week. This was the requirement pre-pandemic and it's back in effect now. Check your UI Online account under 'work search requirements' for your specific claim details.
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Hassan Khoury
also you can use CalJOBS to log your work search activities which makes it much easier to track and proves you were doing it if EDD ever asks
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Keith Davidson
I'll be honest I'm a little skeptical reading some of these responses. I've heard of people in very similar situations getting flat out denied by EDD. Not trying to be harsh but I think people are giving too much optimism here. EDD denies a LOT of claims, especially anything termination-related. Just be mentally prepared for that outcome and know that you can appeal a denial.
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Megan D'Acosta
This is fair to say. Approvals aren't guaranteed and it does depend on how both sides present their case. But the facts as described genuinely do lean toward 'not misconduct' under California law. Worth filing and fighting for.
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Zoe Wang
AuthorI appreciate the reality check honestly. I'm trying to stay realistic. If I get denied I'll definitely appeal — I've read that a lot of denials get overturned on appeal when people actually show up to present their case.
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Steven Adams
Appeals are won by claimants more often than people realize, especially in childcare/family emergency cases. The appeal hearing is more informal than people expect — it's not like a courtroom. An Administrative Law Judge hears both sides.
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Samantha Howard
Just want to circle back to the phone access issue because it genuinely affected my claim timeline. I had an adjudication situation earlier this year and could NOT get through to EDD by phone for three weeks straight. Every call ended in the automated 'we cannot take your call' message. I eventually tried Claimyr (claimyr.com) after seeing it mentioned somewhere and I'm genuinely glad I did. Got connected to an actual EDD agent who was able to see notes in my file and clarify exactly what was holding things up. There's a video walkthrough at https://youtu.be/JmuwXR7HA10 if you want to see how it works before trying it. For anyone whose adjudication is dragging on and you can't get info — this is a real option.
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Avery Saint
Saving this for when I inevitably can't get through. The EDD phone situation is notoriously terrible from everything I've read.
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Keith Davidson
I've heard of Claimyr too. A friend used it when her claim got stuck and said the same thing — actually got a live person who could access her account and give specific info. Way better than the generic recorded messages.
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Zoe Wang
AuthorBookmarking the Claimyr link just in case. Hoping I don't need it but if my claim drags past a few weeks I'll definitely try it.
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Benjamin Kim
random q but did anyone else have trouble with the UI Online portal when uploading documents? i tried to upload my termination letter and it kept timing out. eventually got it through but it took like 8 tries
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Grace Durand
The document upload portal is notoriously glitchy. Try using a different browser — Chrome tends to work better than Firefox or Edge for EDD's portal. Also compress large files before uploading, anything over 2MB tends to fail.
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Benjamin Kim
trying chrome thanks. been using safari this whole time lol
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Taylor Chen
Also make sure to use pdf format not photos of documents if possible. The system reads pdfs much more reliably
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Ezra Bates
Something I want to flag for OP specifically: when you certify each week and it asks 'why did you stop working' make sure your answer is consistent every single week. I made the mistake of phrasing it slightly differently week to week and it triggered an additional review on my claim. Keep your explanation of the termination reason identical each time you answer that question.
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Zoe Wang
AuthorThat is such a specific and useful tip I never would have thought of. Consistency in how I describe the separation. Writing this down right now.
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Connor Richards
Great advice. Consistency matters a lot because EDD looks for discrepancies. Your claim file is reviewed holistically and conflicting statements raise flags even if unintentional.
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Megan D'Acosta
This is spot on. Also make sure what you tell the phone interviewer matches what you put on the initial claim form. Interviewers are trained to probe for inconsistencies.
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Hassan Khoury
update us when you hear back OP!! threads like these are so helpful for people going through the same thing and knowing the outcome really helps future readers know what to expect
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Zoe Wang
AuthorI absolutely will. This thread has been so much more helpful than anything I found on official EDD pages. I'll come back and post an update when I have one.
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Avery Saint
seconding this — please update! I'll probably still be going through my own adjudication by then lol
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Alice Fleming
these kinds of real outcomes are way more useful than generic info
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Ana Erdoğan
One more thing worth mentioning — if you do end up getting denied and you appeal, try to get to your appeal hearing in person if possible rather than by phone. I appealed a denial a couple years ago and my lawyer friend strongly advised showing up in person. The ALJ takes you more seriously when you're physically present and it's easier to reference documents on the spot.
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Steven Adams
This is generally good advice though the option depends on your local CUIAB office and scheduling. Some hearings are still done primarily by phone. But if in-person is an option, showing up demonstrates commitment to your case.
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Zoe Wang
AuthorI really hope it doesn't come to an appeal but it's helpful to know that option exists and that the in-person approach can make a difference. The CUIAB — is that the California Unemployment Insurance Appeals Board?
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Steven Adams
Yes exactly — California Unemployment Insurance Appeals Board. They handle all UI appeal hearings. If you're denied you have 30 days from the notice date to file your appeal, so don't delay if that happens.
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Sophia Carson
honestly the whole system is set up to make you give up. the phone lines, the delays, the confusing forms, the adjudication limbo... feels intentional sometimes. i know people who just stopped pursuing legitimate claims because the process was so exhausting. don't let them grind you down OP, your situation sounds like a real case
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Samantha Howard
I feel this so hard. The friction in the system is real. But I will say that once I actually got connected to a live agent (via Claimyr as I mentioned) the individual agents were actually pretty helpful. The systemic access problem is the real barrier.
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Avery Saint
Yeah the not being able to reach anyone is the worst part. You can deal with waiting if someone just tells you 'we have your claim, here's what's happening.' The silence is what kills you
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Sophia Carson
exactly. a little transparency would go such a long way. just tell people where they are in the queue
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Zoe Wang
UPDATE: Wanted to come back since a few people asked. It's been about 4.5 weeks since I posted this. My claim went into adjudication as expected. I had my phone interview about 2 weeks in — answered all their questions, stayed consistent with my original statement, referenced the texts and emails I had. They said they'd make a determination within 2-3 weeks. Just got the letter two days ago: APPROVED. I was so relieved I actually cried. They determined the termination did not constitute misconduct. All my back weeks are processing now. For anyone going through this — document everything, keep certifying, don't give up.
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Hassan Khoury
CONGRATS!! This is such a great outcome and genuinely helpful for everyone reading this thread later. Thank you for coming back to update!
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Avery Saint
Oh my gosh this gives me so much hope. I'm still waiting on mine (week 3 of adjudication) but seeing your outcome makes me feel like it's possible. Thank you for updating!!
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Victoria Stark
This is the best possible outcome and exactly what the evidence suggested should happen. Congrats! And to anyone finding this thread later — childcare emergencies leading to termination do NOT automatically mean denial. Document, communicate, certify, and fight for what you're owed.
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Connor Richards
Wonderful news. Your case is now a data point for everyone who finds this thread searching 'can I get unemployment if I get fired for not having a babysitter.' The answer, at least for documented good-faith situations like yours, is yes.
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