FAFSA dependent status when my child lives at a different address - will this cause problems?
I'm about to fill out the 2025-26 FAFSA for my daughter who's starting college next fall, but I realized she doesn't live with me anymore. She's been living with her dad since our divorce last year (we share legal custody), and I'm supposed to be the one completing the FAFSA based on our custody agreement. Will her having a different permanent address than mine cause problems with her dependent status? Do I need to list both addresses somewhere? I'm worried this might complicate her financial aid or make her ineligible for certain grants. Has anyone dealt with this situation before?
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Zainab Ismail
this doesnt matter at all for fafsa! my kid lived w/ grandparents senior yr of hs but i still filled out the fafsa. they only care about who claims them on taxes & provides more than 50% support
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Miguel Silva
•Thanks for responding! So even though she doesn't physically live with me, I can still list her as a dependent on the FAFSA? What about the household size question - should I still count her in my household even though she doesn't live under my roof?
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Connor O'Neill
The address difference won't affect your FAFSA submission. For dependent status determination, the FAFSA looks at legal relationships and financial support, not physical living arrangements. Your daughter is still considered your dependent for FAFSA purposes if: 1. She's under 24 2. She's not married 3. She doesn't have dependents of her own 4. She's not a veteran 5. She's not in foster care/emancipated minor When completing the FAFSA, you'll list your address as the parent address. For household size, you should include your daughter in your household count, even if she physically lives elsewhere. The FAFSA instructions specifically state that you should include children who would be considered your dependents for federal tax purposes, regardless of where they live.
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Miguel Silva
•This is so helpful! So to be clear, even though she lives with her dad full-time, I should count her in my household size on the FAFSA since we have the custody agreement that I'm responsible for her education expenses? She definitely meets all those other criteria (she's 18, not married, no kids, etc).
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QuantumQuester
My situation was kinda like yours! I was the parent filling out FAFSA but my son lived with his mom most of the time. I just put my address on the form and there weren't any issues. They never even asked where he actually lived! As long as you're the parent who's supposed to fill it out based on your divorce agreement you're good.
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Yara Nassar
•This is ABSOLUTELY WRONG information!!! The FAFSA is supposed to be filled out by the parent who provided MORE FINANCIAL SUPPORT, not whatever your divorce agreement says! I went through this exact situation and had to fix it because my ex tried to file when I provided more support. The school financial aid office flagged it and made us correct it.
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Keisha Williams
Just to clarify some confusion in this thread: For divorced/separated parents, the 2025-2026 FAFSA rules state that the parent who should complete the form is: - The parent who provided more financial support to the student in the past 12 months, OR - If support was equal, the parent with higher income Your custody agreement regarding education expenses is relevant, but the FAFSA specifically looks at actual financial support provided. Different addresses won't affect dependent status, but you do need to make sure you're the correct parent filing based on these rules. Also important: On the household size question, you SHOULD include your daughter regardless of where she physically lives if you provide more than 50% of her support.
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Miguel Silva
•Thank you for this clarification. Our situation is a bit unusual because while she lives with her dad physically, I actually provide more financial support (covering health insurance, car insurance, phone, clothing, and I'm saving for her education). So it sounds like I am the correct parent to file the FAFSA. What a relief!
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Paolo Ricci
Tried callign FSA 4 times to ask this EXACT SAME question last year when filling out for my son. Never got through!!! So frustrating!!!! Ended up just guessing and hoping for the best lol. Did end up getting aid tho so guess it worked?
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Amina Toure
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Yara Nassar
Be careful with the new FAFSA! The rules changed in 2024 and again for 2025-2026. Made this mistake with my daughter - I thought just because I had legal custody that I should file, but it's now ONLY about who provides more financial support. Had to redo the whole application and it delayed her getting her SAI calculation by 3 weeks. Make sure you keep documentation of all financial support you provide just in case they ask for verification!
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Miguel Silva
•Oh wow, that's good to know. I've been keeping all receipts related to her expenses just in case. How exactly did they verify who provided more support? Did they request specific documentation?
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Yara Nassar
•They asked for receipts, bank statements showing payments, and a signed statement explaining which parent paid for what. It was a NIGHTMARE getting my ex to cooperate. If you have Venmo or other payment app transactions, save those too! Anything showing you paying for stuff counts as evidence.
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Keisha Williams
One more important thing: On the 2025-26 FAFSA, there's a specific section where you'll report your marital status as "Divorced or Separated" and then you only report YOUR financial information, not her father's. The student's address won't be a factor at all in the financial calculations. Just be prepared to verify your support if selected for verification. The SAI formula doesn't care about physical addresses - just the financial support relationships.
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Miguel Silva
•That's reassuring! I was worried they might somehow count her father's income too if they knew she lived with him. Sounds like as long as I'm the one providing more financial support, I just report my information. Thanks for clarifying!
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Zainab Ismail
btw one more thing - make sure u have ur FSA ID set up before u start the application bc that was a whole mess for me last time!!! took like 3 days to get it working right
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Miguel Silva
•Good reminder! I created our FSA IDs last week, so hopefully that part will go smoothly at least! It's my first time doing this so trying to be prepared.
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Connor O'Neill
To summarize the correct information for your situation: 1. Different addresses won't affect dependent status 2. You should file as the parent if you provide more financial support 3. Include your daughter in household size regardless of where she lives 4. Only your financial information is needed, not her father's 5. Keep documentation of financial support you provide 6. Be prepared for possible verification The 2025-2026 FAFSA is much more streamlined than previous versions but these fundamental rules about dependent status and divorced parents haven't changed. Focus on documenting the financial support aspect rather than physical living arrangements.
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Miguel Silva
•Thank you so much for this clear summary! This has been incredibly helpful. I feel much more confident about completing the FAFSA now without worrying about the address difference causing problems.
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Nick Kravitz
I went through this exact situation with my son two years ago! The address difference is totally fine - I was stressed about it for nothing. What matters is that you're the parent providing more financial support. Since you mentioned you cover health insurance, car insurance, phone, clothing, and college savings, you're definitely the right parent to file. Just make sure you have good records of all those expenses in case they ask for verification later. The FAFSA system is designed to handle divorced families where kids live with one parent but the other provides more support. Don't overthink it - you've got this!
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Olivia Kay
•This is so reassuring to hear from someone who's been through the exact same thing! I was definitely overthinking it. It sounds like as long as I keep good documentation of all the support I provide (which I've been doing), the process should be straightforward. Thanks for the encouragement - first time doing this and all the conflicting information online was making me anxious!
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Luca Esposito
I was in a very similar situation last year! My daughter lived with her mom but I provided more financial support, so I was the one who needed to fill out the FAFSA. The different addresses caused me so much unnecessary stress, but it turned out to be a complete non-issue. The financial aid office never even questioned it. What really helped me was creating a simple spreadsheet tracking all my support payments - health insurance premiums, car payments, phone bills, etc. Made it super easy when they did select us for verification. The process was actually much smoother than I expected once I realized the address thing didn't matter at all. Good luck with your application!
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Anastasia Fedorov
•That's such a smart idea about creating a spreadsheet to track all the support payments! I'm definitely going to do that - it'll make everything so much easier if we get selected for verification. It's really reassuring to hear from multiple people who've been through this exact situation and had no problems with the address difference. I was getting so worried reading conflicting information online, but hearing from actual parents who've navigated this successfully is exactly what I needed. Thanks for sharing your experience!
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Malik Jackson
I'm going through this exact situation right now too! My daughter moved in with her dad last summer but I still provide most of her financial support. From what I've learned researching this, the physical address really doesn't matter at all for the FAFSA - it's all about who provides more than 50% of the financial support. I was panicking about it initially but then realized I pay for her health insurance, dental, car insurance, phone plan, clothes, and I'm the one putting money aside for college. That clearly makes me the supporting parent regardless of her mailing address. The key thing is just keeping good records of everything you pay for in case they ask for verification later. Sounds like you're in the same boat as me - don't stress about the address difference!
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Sophia Miller
•This is exactly my situation! It's so helpful to connect with other parents going through the same thing. I was really stressed about the address difference, but hearing from everyone here that it's not an issue at all is such a relief. Like you, I cover most of her major expenses even though she doesn't live with me full-time. I'm definitely going to start keeping better records of everything I pay for - the spreadsheet idea someone mentioned earlier sounds perfect. It's reassuring to know that the FAFSA system is set up to handle these kinds of divorced family situations where physical custody and financial support don't necessarily align. Thanks for sharing - it really helps to know I'm not the only one navigating this!
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Derek Olson
Welcome to the FAFSA community! I can see you're dealing with a pretty common situation for divorced parents. Based on everything shared here, you're definitely on the right track. The address difference really is a non-issue - I went through something similar with my nephew when I was helping his mom navigate this process. The FAFSA system is actually pretty well designed to handle these blended family situations where physical custody and financial responsibility don't match up perfectly. Since you're covering the major expenses like health insurance, car insurance, phone, and college savings, you're clearly the supporting parent. Just make sure to keep digital copies of all those payment records - screenshots of insurance payments, bank statements showing transfers, etc. The verification process (if you get selected) is much easier when you have everything organized upfront. One tip that really helped us: create a simple monthly budget breakdown showing what you pay vs what her dad pays. It makes it crystal clear who's providing more support if anyone ever questions it. You've got this - sounds like you're being super thorough and responsible about the whole process!
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Manny Lark
•Thank you so much for the warm welcome and all the helpful advice! The monthly budget breakdown idea is brilliant - I'm definitely going to create one of those. It'll be really useful to have a clear visual of who pays for what, especially since our situation is a bit complex with her living in one place but me covering most expenses. I really appreciate everyone in this community taking the time to share their experiences - it's made what seemed like a scary process feel much more manageable. I'm feeling so much more confident about filling out the FAFSA now!
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Eduardo Silva
Hey Miguel! I just went through this exact same situation last year with my daughter. The address difference is absolutely not a problem at all - I was worried about the same thing and it turned out to be completely unnecessary stress. What matters for the FAFSA is who provides the majority of financial support, not where she physically sleeps at night. Since you mentioned you're covering health insurance, car insurance, phone, clothing, and saving for her education, you're definitely the correct parent to file. The FAFSA system is actually designed to handle these situations where divorced parents have different living and financial arrangements. A couple of practical tips that helped me: - Keep screenshots/receipts of all those payments you make - If you use Venmo, Zelle, or any payment apps, save those transaction records too - Consider making a simple list of monthly expenses you cover vs what her dad covers The whole process was way smoother than I expected once I realized the address thing was irrelevant. You're being really responsible by researching this ahead of time. Best of luck with the application!
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Ella Thompson
•Thank you Eduardo! It's so reassuring to hear from someone who went through the exact same situation. I was definitely stressing unnecessarily about the address issue. Your tips about keeping screenshots and payment app records are really helpful - I've been saving receipts but hadn't thought about capturing those digital transactions. The monthly expense list comparing what I pay vs what her dad pays is a great idea too. It sounds like once I get past worrying about the address difference, the rest should be pretty straightforward. Really appreciate you taking the time to share your experience!
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Ryder Ross
I'm new to this community but wanted to share my experience since I went through this exact situation with my son last year! The address difference really is not an issue at all - I was so worried about it initially but it turned out to be completely unnecessary stress. The FAFSA only cares about who provides more financial support, not where your child physically lives. Since you mentioned covering health insurance, car insurance, phone, clothing, and college savings, you're definitely the right parent to file. I kept detailed records of all my payments (insurance premiums, phone bills, etc.) and when we got selected for verification, it was super straightforward to prove I was the supporting parent. One thing that really helped me was setting up a dedicated folder on my phone for screenshots of payments - made it so easy to track everything! The whole process went much smoother than expected once I stopped worrying about the living situation. You've got this!
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Sarah Jones
•Welcome to the community, Ryder! Thanks for sharing your experience - it's really helpful to hear from yet another parent who went through this exact situation successfully. The dedicated phone folder for payment screenshots is such a smart organizational tip! I'm definitely going to set that up. It's amazing how much unnecessary stress we put ourselves through worrying about things that turn out to be non-issues. All these success stories from parents in similar situations are giving me so much confidence. I'm actually looking forward to getting the FAFSA submitted now instead of dreading it!
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AaliyahAli
I'm new here but wanted to jump in since I'm literally going through this exact same situation right now! My daughter has been living with her mom since our separation but I'm the one who handles all her major expenses - health insurance, car payment, college prep courses, etc. I was so stressed about the address difference until I found this thread. Reading everyone's experiences has been incredibly reassuring. It sounds like the FAFSA system is actually pretty well set up to handle these divorced parent situations where physical custody and financial support don't align. I love all the practical tips about keeping digital records and creating spreadsheets to track expenses. One question for those who've been through verification - about how long did that process take once you submitted your documentation? I'm trying to plan out timing for when my daughter needs to submit her college enrollment deposits. Thanks to everyone for sharing such detailed experiences - this community is amazing!
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