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Miguel Silva

FAFSA dependent status when my child lives at a different address - will this cause problems?

I'm about to fill out the 2025-26 FAFSA for my daughter who's starting college next fall, but I realized she doesn't live with me anymore. She's been living with her dad since our divorce last year (we share legal custody), and I'm supposed to be the one completing the FAFSA based on our custody agreement. Will her having a different permanent address than mine cause problems with her dependent status? Do I need to list both addresses somewhere? I'm worried this might complicate her financial aid or make her ineligible for certain grants. Has anyone dealt with this situation before?

this doesnt matter at all for fafsa! my kid lived w/ grandparents senior yr of hs but i still filled out the fafsa. they only care about who claims them on taxes & provides more than 50% support

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Thanks for responding! So even though she doesn't physically live with me, I can still list her as a dependent on the FAFSA? What about the household size question - should I still count her in my household even though she doesn't live under my roof?

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The address difference won't affect your FAFSA submission. For dependent status determination, the FAFSA looks at legal relationships and financial support, not physical living arrangements. Your daughter is still considered your dependent for FAFSA purposes if: 1. She's under 24 2. She's not married 3. She doesn't have dependents of her own 4. She's not a veteran 5. She's not in foster care/emancipated minor When completing the FAFSA, you'll list your address as the parent address. For household size, you should include your daughter in your household count, even if she physically lives elsewhere. The FAFSA instructions specifically state that you should include children who would be considered your dependents for federal tax purposes, regardless of where they live.

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This is so helpful! So to be clear, even though she lives with her dad full-time, I should count her in my household size on the FAFSA since we have the custody agreement that I'm responsible for her education expenses? She definitely meets all those other criteria (she's 18, not married, no kids, etc).

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My situation was kinda like yours! I was the parent filling out FAFSA but my son lived with his mom most of the time. I just put my address on the form and there weren't any issues. They never even asked where he actually lived! As long as you're the parent who's supposed to fill it out based on your divorce agreement you're good.

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This is ABSOLUTELY WRONG information!!! The FAFSA is supposed to be filled out by the parent who provided MORE FINANCIAL SUPPORT, not whatever your divorce agreement says! I went through this exact situation and had to fix it because my ex tried to file when I provided more support. The school financial aid office flagged it and made us correct it.

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Just to clarify some confusion in this thread: For divorced/separated parents, the 2025-2026 FAFSA rules state that the parent who should complete the form is: - The parent who provided more financial support to the student in the past 12 months, OR - If support was equal, the parent with higher income Your custody agreement regarding education expenses is relevant, but the FAFSA specifically looks at actual financial support provided. Different addresses won't affect dependent status, but you do need to make sure you're the correct parent filing based on these rules. Also important: On the household size question, you SHOULD include your daughter regardless of where she physically lives if you provide more than 50% of her support.

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Thank you for this clarification. Our situation is a bit unusual because while she lives with her dad physically, I actually provide more financial support (covering health insurance, car insurance, phone, clothing, and I'm saving for her education). So it sounds like I am the correct parent to file the FAFSA. What a relief!

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Tried callign FSA 4 times to ask this EXACT SAME question last year when filling out for my son. Never got through!!! So frustrating!!!! Ended up just guessing and hoping for the best lol. Did end up getting aid tho so guess it worked?

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Be careful with the new FAFSA! The rules changed in 2024 and again for 2025-2026. Made this mistake with my daughter - I thought just because I had legal custody that I should file, but it's now ONLY about who provides more financial support. Had to redo the whole application and it delayed her getting her SAI calculation by 3 weeks. Make sure you keep documentation of all financial support you provide just in case they ask for verification!

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Oh wow, that's good to know. I've been keeping all receipts related to her expenses just in case. How exactly did they verify who provided more support? Did they request specific documentation?

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They asked for receipts, bank statements showing payments, and a signed statement explaining which parent paid for what. It was a NIGHTMARE getting my ex to cooperate. If you have Venmo or other payment app transactions, save those too! Anything showing you paying for stuff counts as evidence.

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One more important thing: On the 2025-26 FAFSA, there's a specific section where you'll report your marital status as "Divorced or Separated" and then you only report YOUR financial information, not her father's. The student's address won't be a factor at all in the financial calculations. Just be prepared to verify your support if selected for verification. The SAI formula doesn't care about physical addresses - just the financial support relationships.

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That's reassuring! I was worried they might somehow count her father's income too if they knew she lived with him. Sounds like as long as I'm the one providing more financial support, I just report my information. Thanks for clarifying!

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btw one more thing - make sure u have ur FSA ID set up before u start the application bc that was a whole mess for me last time!!! took like 3 days to get it working right

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Good reminder! I created our FSA IDs last week, so hopefully that part will go smoothly at least! It's my first time doing this so trying to be prepared.

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To summarize the correct information for your situation: 1. Different addresses won't affect dependent status 2. You should file as the parent if you provide more financial support 3. Include your daughter in household size regardless of where she lives 4. Only your financial information is needed, not her father's 5. Keep documentation of financial support you provide 6. Be prepared for possible verification The 2025-2026 FAFSA is much more streamlined than previous versions but these fundamental rules about dependent status and divorced parents haven't changed. Focus on documenting the financial support aspect rather than physical living arrangements.

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Thank you so much for this clear summary! This has been incredibly helpful. I feel much more confident about completing the FAFSA now without worrying about the address difference causing problems.

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I went through this exact situation with my son two years ago! The address difference is totally fine - I was stressed about it for nothing. What matters is that you're the parent providing more financial support. Since you mentioned you cover health insurance, car insurance, phone, clothing, and college savings, you're definitely the right parent to file. Just make sure you have good records of all those expenses in case they ask for verification later. The FAFSA system is designed to handle divorced families where kids live with one parent but the other provides more support. Don't overthink it - you've got this!

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