Will I lose SSDI after receiving survivor benefits? And remarriage question for survivor benefits
I've been receiving SSDI for about 5 years now (I'm 57) and recently my ex-spouse passed away. After applying for survivor benefits on their record, I got approved but had to go through their doctors to prove my disability all over again before approval. Now I'm getting two separate checks each month - my regular SSDI and this new survivor benefit. I'm confused though - am I still considered to be on disability? The paperwork isn't clear. Also, I'm wondering about future possibilities. If I were to remarry after turning 60, would I still be eligible to collect on my new spouse's Social Security record if we're married for at least 10 years (if divorced) or just 9 months if they pass while we're still married? I know remarriage before 60 would affect my current survivor benefits, but I'm not clear on what happens after 60 regarding potential FUTURE benefits from a new spouse.
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Lucas Parker
Yes, you're still on SSDI. What you're receiving now is a combination of your own SSDI benefit plus an additional amount from your ex's record as a disabled widow(er). The fact that you had to be evaluated by their doctors was just part of proving you meet the disability requirements for survivor benefits. As for remarriage after 60 - yes, you can keep your current survivor benefits if you remarry after age 60. And if your new marriage lasts at least 9 months and your new spouse passes away, you could potentially receive survivor benefits on their record too (you'd get the higher of the two amounts, not both). Similarly, if you divorce after 10+ years of marriage, you could potentially claim ex-spouse benefits on their record.
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Katherine Hunter
•Thank you - that makes more sense now. So the disability evaluation wasn't to re-qualify me for SSDI but specifically for the survivor benefit? Do you know if the survivor portion ever gets reviewed separately from my regular SSDI continuing disability reviews?
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Donna Cline
i went thru something similar last yr. what happens is they basically just add the survivor amount to ur disability check, ur still disabled according to SSA. they just had to make sure u qualified for the survivor part since thats different rules i think
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Katherine Hunter
•Thanks for sharing your experience! Did they tell you if you'll have separate continuing disability reviews for each benefit or just one review that covers both?
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Harper Collins
You absolutely are still considered disabled. The survivor benefit is just supplementing your SSDI. The reason for the separate medical review was specifically to qualify for the disabled widow(er) benefits, which have their own medical determination process even though you were already approved for regular SSDI. Regarding remarriage - yes, if you remarry AFTER turning 60, you preserve your right to your current survivor benefits AND could potentially qualify for benefits on your new spouse's record if that marriage meets the duration requirements (9+ months if they pass while married, or 10+ years if you divorce). You would receive whichever benefit amount is higher. The SSA system is ridiculously complicated with these scenarios. When I was trying to figure out my own situation, I kept getting disconnected or waiting hours on the phone until I found Claimyr.com - it got me through to an actual SSA representative in about 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. It saved me days of frustration.
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Kelsey Hawkins
•Is that service really legit? I've been trying to get through to SSA for WEEKS about my disability review and keep getting disconnected!!
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Dylan Fisher
NOBODY at Social Security ever explains any of this clearly!!! I went through almost the exact same thing when my husband died (I was already on SSDI) and the SSA office gave me 3 DIFFERENT EXPLANATIONS about whether I was still officially disabled or not. Every time I called I got different information! Then they reduced my Medicare premium without telling me why. The whole system is IMPOSSIBLE to navigate.
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Harper Collins
•You're absolutely right that the communication is terrible. The reality is that you remain on SSDI with all its protections and Medicare benefits, but you're receiving an increased benefit amount due to the survivor benefit. Did your Medicare premium go down because your total income changed? That can affect the IRMAA surcharges.
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Edwards Hugo
Just to add something, I think the medical review you went through was because of the different disability standard for disabled widow(er)s. For disabled widow(er) benefits, they use a stricter definition than regular SSDI sometimes.
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Katherine Hunter
•That's interesting - I didn't realize there were different standards. My SSDI was approved pretty easily years ago, but this review felt more intensive.
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Gianna Scott
To clarify what others have said: 1. Yes, you are still on SSDI. What you're receiving is called "Disabled Widow(er) Benefits" (DWB) in addition to your own SSDI. 2. The medical review was necessary because DWB has its own medical criteria and determination process, even though you were already found disabled under your own record. 3. Regarding marriage after 60: If you remarry after age 60, you can continue receiving benefits on your deceased ex-spouse's record. Additionally, if your new marriage ends (either by death or divorce after 10 years), you could potentially qualify for benefits on your new spouse's record as well. You would receive the highest benefit you're entitled to. 4. Important note: There's a provision called the "family maximum" that might limit the total amount payable on any one earner's record, but that usually comes into play when there are multiple beneficiaries (like when children are also receiving benefits). SSA should be sending you an award letter explaining all this, but they're notoriously unclear in their explanations.
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Katherine Hunter
•Thank you for this detailed explanation! The award letter I got was very confusing - it mentioned both benefits but didn't clearly explain how they work together. Do you know if I'll have separate continuing disability reviews for each benefit in the future?
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Harper Collins
To answer your question about continuing disability reviews (CDRs) - you'll only have one review process. Since you're receiving both benefits based on being disabled, the SSA will conduct a single review that applies to both benefits. If you're found to still be disabled, both benefits continue. If (unfortunately) you were ever found to have medically improved and no longer disabled, you would lose both the SSDI and the disabled widow benefits. However, once you reach your Full Retirement Age (FRA), the disability benefits automatically convert to retirement benefits and the disability reviews stop completely.
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Katherine Hunter
•That's a huge relief! I was worried I'd have to go through separate reviews for each benefit. And good to know they'll convert at FRA - I'm looking forward to not having those reviews anymore.
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Donna Cline
my friend remarried at 62 and kept her dead husbands ss check but i think she gets a lot less than she would if she stayed single. the whole system is so confusing!
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Lucas Parker
•Your friend's situation might be different. If she was receiving survivor benefits and remarried after 60, she should keep getting the same survivor benefit amount. It doesn't get reduced upon remarriage after 60. However, if she was getting spousal benefits from an ex-spouse who was still alive (not survivor benefits), those DO stop upon remarriage at any age. Many people confuse these different types of benefits.
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Dylan Fisher
Anyone else notice how they ALWAYS want to do ANOTHER medical review even when you've been approved for years?? My brother has been disabled since birth (literally) and they STILL make him do reviews every 3 years like he's suddenly going to be cured!! The whole system is designed to wear you down so you give up!!
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Kelsey Hawkins
•My dad had the same experience with his SSDI. Every few years, same paperwork, same doctors saying the same thing. Complete waste of everyone's time and stressful for no reason!
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Caden Nguyen
Welcome to the community! I'm new here but dealing with a similar situation. Reading through everyone's responses has been incredibly helpful - I had no idea about the different medical standards for disabled widow(er) benefits versus regular SSDI. One thing I'm curious about that hasn't been mentioned - does anyone know if there are any income limits or earnings test restrictions that apply differently to the survivor benefit portion versus the SSDI portion? I'm thinking about maybe doing some part-time work in the future and want to make sure I understand all the rules before I make any decisions. Also, Katherine, thank you for asking these questions! The remarriage rules are so confusing and it's great to see the community come together with such detailed explanations.
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Sophie Hernandez
•Welcome to the community! Great question about the earnings test - from what I understand, both the SSDI and survivor benefit portions are subject to the same earnings limits. For 2024, if you're under full retirement age, you can earn up to $1,550 per month without affecting your benefits. If you go over that, they'll reduce your benefits by $1 for every $2 you earn above the limit. But here's the thing - this applies to your total combined benefit amount, not separately to each portion. So if you're getting $1,000 SSDI + $500 survivor benefit and you earn too much, they'll reduce from that total $1,500. The good news is that once you reach full retirement age, there's no earnings limit at all! I'd definitely recommend calling SSA to confirm the current limits for your specific situation before starting any work.
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Aria Washington
I'm also new to this community and found this discussion incredibly informative! I'm currently going through a similar process - I've been on SSDI for about 3 years and my spouse passed away recently. I just started the application process for survivor benefits and this thread has helped me understand what to expect with the medical review. One question I have that I haven't seen addressed yet - does anyone know if the timing of when you apply for survivor benefits affects anything? I waited about 6 months after my spouse's death to apply because I was overwhelmed with everything else going on. Will that impact my benefit amount or is there any retroactive payment for those months I didn't apply? Also, Katherine, I really appreciate you asking about the remarriage scenarios. Even though I'm not thinking about that right now, it's good to understand all the rules for the future. This community seems like such a valuable resource for navigating these complex situations!
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Sean Murphy
•Welcome to the community, Aria! I'm sorry for your loss and glad you found this discussion helpful during such a difficult time. Regarding the timing of your application - the good news is that survivor benefits can typically be paid retroactively up to 6 months from the date you file your application (or from the date you became eligible, whichever is later). So those 6 months you waited shouldn't cost you any benefits - you should receive back pay for that period once your application is approved. The key thing is that survivor benefits are generally payable starting from the month after the worker's death, assuming you meet all the eligibility requirements. The SSA understands that people need time to grieve and handle other affairs before dealing with benefit applications. I'd suggest asking about the retroactive payments specifically when you speak with your SSA representative during the application process, just to confirm the exact dates and amounts. Every situation can be slightly different depending on the specific circumstances. Hang in there - the medical review process can feel overwhelming, but based on what others have shared here, it sounds like it's mainly to establish eligibility for the survivor portion rather than re-evaluating your existing SSDI status.
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Dylan Cooper
As someone new to this community, I want to thank everyone for sharing such detailed and helpful information! I'm currently navigating the SSA system myself and this discussion has been incredibly educational. I wanted to add one point that might be helpful - when dealing with multiple benefits like SSDI and survivor benefits, it's really important to keep detailed records of all your communications with SSA. I've learned to write down the date, time, and name of every representative I speak with, plus a summary of what they told me. The information can be so inconsistent between different representatives that having a paper trail becomes crucial if there are ever disputes about what you were told. Also, Katherine, your questions about the remarriage scenarios were excellent. It's smart to understand all the rules even if you're not planning to remarry anytime soon - life can be unpredictable and it's better to know your options ahead of time. For anyone else going through similar situations, this community seems like such a valuable resource. The real-world experiences people are sharing here are often more helpful than the confusing official SSA documentation!
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CosmicCaptain
•Welcome to the community, Dylan! That's such excellent advice about keeping detailed records - I wish someone had told me that when I first started dealing with SSA. I've had so many contradictory conversations with different representatives that I started doing exactly what you suggested. It's saved me multiple times when I had to reference what a previous agent told me. Your point about this community being more helpful than official SSA documentation really resonates with me. The government paperwork is so confusing and vague, but hearing real experiences from people who've actually been through these situations makes everything so much clearer. Katherine's original questions really opened up a great discussion that I think will help a lot of people who find this thread in the future. It's amazing how many complex scenarios can come up with Social Security benefits that they never clearly explain upfront!
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Jamal Carter
As someone new to this community, I wanted to jump in and thank everyone for this incredibly informative discussion! I'm currently dealing with a similar situation where I'm on SSDI and may need to apply for survivor benefits soon, so reading through all these detailed explanations has been invaluable. One thing that really stands out to me is how much clearer this conversation has made the whole process compared to anything I've been able to find in official SSA materials. The distinction between the SSDI continuing and the separate medical evaluation for survivor benefits makes so much more sense now. Katherine, your questions were spot-on and I'm sure they'll help many people who find this thread in the future. The remarriage rules are particularly complex and it's great to see such thorough explanations from experienced community members. I also want to echo what others have said about keeping detailed records when dealing with SSA. I've started doing this with all my interactions and it's already proven helpful when I had to reference a previous conversation. This community seems like such a valuable resource for navigating these complicated benefit scenarios. Thank you all for sharing your knowledge and experiences!
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Jamal Washington
•Welcome to the community, Jamal! I'm also relatively new here and have been amazed at how helpful and knowledgeable everyone is. This thread has been like a masterclass in Social Security benefits - I've learned more here in one discussion than from months of trying to decipher official SSA materials. It's encouraging to see how people who've been through these situations are willing to share their experiences and help others navigate what can be an incredibly overwhelming process. The fact that so many people are dealing with similar complex benefit scenarios really shows how common these situations are, yet how poorly they're explained by the official channels. I hope your upcoming application process goes smoothly, and don't hesitate to ask questions here - this community clearly has a wealth of practical knowledge to share!
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Dmitry Volkov
As a newcomer to this community, I want to say how incredibly helpful this entire discussion has been! I'm currently navigating a similar situation where I've been on SSDI for several years and recently became eligible for survivor benefits, so Katherine's original questions and everyone's detailed responses have been invaluable. What really strikes me is how much more clearly this community explains these complex scenarios compared to the official SSA materials. The way everyone has broken down the difference between continuing SSDI status and the separate medical evaluation for survivor benefits finally makes sense to me. I was similarly confused about whether I would still be "officially disabled" after adding survivor benefits. I also appreciate all the practical advice shared here - from keeping detailed records of SSA conversations to understanding the earnings limits and remarriage rules. It's clear that many of us are dealing with similar complex benefit situations that SSA doesn't explain well in their standard communications. Thank you to Katherine for asking such thoughtful questions and to all the experienced members who took the time to provide such comprehensive answers. This thread will definitely be a valuable resource for others facing similar circumstances!
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