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Dominic Green

When will my wife receive my full Social Security benefits after I die? Both at FRA

My wife and I are both at full retirement age (she's 67, I'm 68). I'm the higher earner and currently receiving about $2,800/month in SS retirement. She gets about $1,100 on her own record. I've been trying to understand what happens with our benefits if I pass away before her. Will she automatically get my full benefit amount instead of hers? Do we need to file anything in advance to make sure this happens smoothly? Also wondering if there's any downside to her switching to my benefit as a survivor. Thanks for any help understanding this.

Hannah Flores

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When you pass away, your wife will be eligible to receive your full benefit amount as a survivor benefit, assuming she's at or past her full retirement age (which she is). She won't receive both benefits - the SSA will pay the higher of the two amounts, so she would get your $2,800 instead of her $1,100. There's nothing you need to file in advance, but she will need to report your death to Social Security and apply for survivor benefits when the time comes. She can't do this online - she'll need to call SSA or visit an office.

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Dominic Green

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Thank you for explaining! That's a relief to know she'll get the full amount. Do you know if there's any delay between when I pass and when she would start receiving the higher amount? I worry about her having to manage finances during that gap.

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My dad passed last yr and mom got his SS but took almost 3 months!!! had to keep calling and calling. so frustrating

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Dominic Green

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3 months! That's concerning. Did your mom have financial troubles during that waiting period?

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yeah it was tight. they told her to expect 6-8 weeks but it took longer. she had to use savings.

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I went through this when my husband died. You should know there's also a one-time death benefit of $255 your wife can claim. Not much but every bit helps. One important thing - she should NOT wait to report your death because benefits can only be paid from when she applies. The SSA won't automatically know you've died or switch her over. She needs to call them within a month of your passing. And yes, there's usually a gap between applying and receiving the higher benefit. Make sure you have some emergency savings set aside for her to manage during that period.

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Dominic Green

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Thank you for sharing your experience. I hadn't thought about the need to report quickly - that's really important info. And that $255 death benefit seems almost insulting given today's costs, but I guess every bit helps as you said.

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Grace Lee

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my neighbor had this EXACT situation last year!!! her husband died and SSA kept sending HIS check for 2 months after he died. then they wanted ALL that money back and stopped both checks until it was fixed!! she had NO income for almost 2 months while they sorted it out!!! be CAREFUL!!!

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Hannah Flores

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That's why it's so important to report the death promptly to SSA. Continued payments after death are considered overpayments that must be returned. This can definitely create a difficult financial situation.

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Mia Roberts

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When my husband passed, I tried for WEEKS to get through to SS on the phone. Always busy or disconnected! I finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an agent in under 10 minutes. Totally worth it since I was able to report his death and apply for survivor benefits in one call. They have a video that shows how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU Just sharing because the phone system is impossible these days and this saved me a lot of stress during an already difficult time.

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Dominic Green

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Thank you for this suggestion. I've heard from others how hard it is to get through on the phone. My wife isn't very comfortable with technology so anything that makes the process easier would help her a lot. I'll check out that video link.

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Grace Lee

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does it actually work?? i tried calling SS for 3 days straight last month!!

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Mia Roberts

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Yes, it worked for me. Got through in about 7 minutes when I'd been trying for days on my own. The agent I spoke with was able to help me report my husband's death and start my survivor application all in one call.

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The Boss

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I work with retirement planning and here's what you should know about survivor benefits: 1. Your wife will receive 100% of your benefit amount since she's at FRA 2. There's a typical processing time of 6-8 weeks for survivor claims 3. Benefits are not retroactive to the date of death - only from application date 4. She'll need your death certificate when applying 5. If she has direct deposit already set up, that doesn't change Other important note: if your wife is still working, there's no earnings limit that would reduce survivor benefits since she's past FRA. Also, survivor benefits are treated the same as regular SS for tax purposes.

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Dominic Green

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Thank you for these clear points. Good to know about the earnings limit not applying. My wife works part-time but earns under $20,000 a year so it's good to know that won't affect anything.

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Actually the rules for SSI and SSDI are different when it comes to survivors. If your getting SSDI then your wife gets less I think.

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The Boss

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You're confusing benefit types. The original poster is discussing retirement benefits (RSDI), not SSI or SSDI. SSI is needs-based assistance, while SSDI is disability insurance. Different rules apply to each program, but in this case they're talking about retirement benefits, not disability or SSI.

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oh ok my bad. I get confused with all the different programs!

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Hannah Flores

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One more thing I should mention - if you're concerned about your wife having to navigate the system after your passing, you might want to create a simple document for her with: 1. Your Social Security number 2. Where your important documents are kept 3. Contact information for SSA 4. A basic checklist of what she'll need to do This can make things much easier during a difficult time. I've seen many spouses struggle with the administrative aspects while grieving.

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Dominic Green

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That's excellent advice. I'll put together a folder with all this information. My wife handles our day-to-day finances but I've always managed the retirement accounts and Social Security matters, so this would be very helpful for her.

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did u know they MAKE ur wife go in person to apply for the survivor thing?? my friends mom couldnt do it on the website had to call and make appointment. took FOREVER

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That's correct. Survivor applications cannot be completed online currently. They require either a phone interview or in-person appointment. This is one reason why it's important to contact SSA as soon as possible after a death occurs.

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As someone who just went through the survivor benefits process myself, I want to emphasize how important it is to have all your paperwork organized beforehand. When my husband passed 6 months ago, having everything in one place made a huge difference. A few practical tips: Make sure your wife knows where to find your Social Security card, marriage certificate, and birth certificate - she'll need copies of these. Also, if you have any pension or 401k benefits that might affect her Social Security, document those too since they can sometimes impact timing. The emotional toll of dealing with bureaucracy while grieving is real, so anything you can do now to simplify the process for her will be a gift. Consider even doing a practice run - call SSA together now just to understand the process so she's familiar with it.

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CosmicCaptain

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This is incredibly thoughtful advice. I'm sorry for your loss, and thank you for taking the time to share these practical insights. The idea of doing a practice call together is brilliant - it would help her feel more confident and familiar with the process when she actually needs it. I hadn't considered how other retirement benefits might complicate things, so I'll make sure to document our 401k and pension information as well. Your point about the emotional toll is so important - anything we can do now to remove obstacles later seems worth the effort.

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I'm dealing with a similar situation with my parents right now. One thing that hasn't been mentioned yet is that if your wife remarries before age 60, she would lose eligibility for survivor benefits from your record. But if she remarries at 60 or later, she can keep receiving your survivor benefits. Just something to keep in mind for long-term planning, though I know it's probably not something you want to think about right now. The financial planning aspect of all this can be overwhelming, but it sounds like you're being very thoughtful about making sure she's prepared.

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Charity Cohan

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Thank you for bringing up the remarriage rules - that's definitely something I hadn't considered. You're right that it's not pleasant to think about, but it's important information for comprehensive planning. The age 60 threshold is good to know. I appreciate everyone sharing their experiences and practical advice here. It's helping me put together a much more complete picture of what my wife might face, and what I can do now to make things easier for her later.

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I'm going through something similar with my elderly parents right now. One additional thing to consider is making sure your wife has her own my Social Security account set up online at ssa.gov. Even though she can't apply for survivor benefits online, having the account gives her access to view her current benefits, download benefit verification letters, and get familiar with the SSA online system. Also, if you haven't already, consider setting up automatic bill pay for your major expenses from a joint account that she has full access to. This can help bridge any gap during the benefit transition period. My mom found it really helpful that dad had set up most bills to auto-pay, so she didn't have to worry about missing payments while dealing with the paperwork and waiting for survivor benefits to kick in.

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This is really practical advice! I hadn't thought about setting up the my Social Security account for her - that's a great way to get her familiar with the system before she actually needs it. The automatic bill pay suggestion is also excellent. We have most of our major bills set up this way already, but I should double-check that she has access to all the accounts and knows the login information. It's these kinds of day-to-day financial details that could become overwhelming during an already stressful time. Thanks for sharing what worked for your parents!

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Aisha Mahmood

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This is such valuable information everyone is sharing! As someone who works in elder services, I'd like to add that many local Area Agencies on Aging offer free assistance with Social Security applications, including survivor benefits. These counselors are specifically trained to help navigate the SSA system and can often accompany your wife to appointments or help with phone calls if needed. Also worth noting - if your wife has any cognitive issues or finds paperwork overwhelming, she can designate a representative payee or authorize someone to help her with SSA matters using Form SSA-1696. This could be an adult child or trusted family member who could assist with the application process and ongoing management. The key is setting these supports up now while you're both able to make these decisions together, rather than trying to figure it out during a crisis.

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This is incredibly helpful information about Area Agencies on Aging! I had no idea these services were available. My wife is generally sharp with finances, but the idea of having a backup support system in place is really appealing. The Form SSA-1696 is something I definitely want to look into - maybe we could set up one of our adult children as an authorized representative just in case. Thank you for mentioning the importance of setting these things up proactively. It's making me realize how much peace of mind comes from having these safety nets in place before they're actually needed.

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