When to apply for Social Security survivor benefits before turning 60?
My husband passed away last year and I'll be turning 60 in November 2025. I know I can start claiming survivor benefits at 60, but I'm confused about the application process. How soon before my birthday should I start the application? Do I need to wait until exactly 60, or can I apply a few months before? The SSA website says processing can take time but doesn't give clear guidance on when to start. I don't want to miss any payments but also don't want to apply too early and get rejected. Anyone been through this recently?
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Jamal Brown
You should definitely apply about 3 months before you want benefits to begin. I applied for survivor benefits right at 3 months before my 60th birthday last year, and everything was processed perfectly. The payments started the month of my birthday. The SSA rep told me they actually recommend applying 3-4 months in advance so they have time to process everything. Waiting until your birthday or after means you might miss payments. Just be sure to specify on the application that you want benefits to begin at age 60.
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Zoe Kyriakidou
Thank you! That's exactly what I needed to know. Did you apply online or did you have to go into an office? I've heard different things from different people.
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Mei Zhang
my sister did this last yr. she applied 2 months b4 turning 60 but had to wait forever to get approved. SSA is super backed up now!
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Zoe Kyriakidou
Oh no! How long did it take for her to get approved? I'm worried about a gap in my income if it takes too long.
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Liam McConnell
I went through this in 2024. Applied exactly 3 months before turning 60 and got my first payment the month of my birthday. Just make sure you have ALL the documents ready - death certificate, marriage certificate, birth certificates, your husband's Social Security number, and your direct deposit information. They'll want to verify your identity too, so have your ID ready. Good luck!
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Zoe Kyriakidou
Thanks for the document list! I have everything except I need to order a new copy of our marriage certificate. I'll do that right away.
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Amara Oluwaseyi
The official SSA guidance is to apply for survivor benefits 3 months before you want benefits to start. In your case, that would be 3 months before your 60th birthday in November 2025, so around August 2025. However, there are a few important things to know about survivor benefits at age 60:1. Benefits taken at 60 are reduced to 71.5% of what you'd receive at your Full Retirement Age.2. The earnings test applies if you're still working. For 2025, if you earn above $22,750 (estimated), your benefits will be reduced by $1 for every $2 you earn above that limit.3. You can switch to your own retirement benefits later if they would be higher.Also, be aware that the initial processing time is currently running about 45-60 days for most survivor claims, so the 3-month window gives plenty of time.
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Zoe Kyriakidou
This is really helpful information. I am still working part-time, but I earn less than $20,000 a year, so it sounds like I won't be affected by the earnings test. And yes, my own retirement benefit at 67 will be higher, so I plan to switch later. Thank you!
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CosmicCaptain
I went through this nightmare last year! Applied 3 months before turning 60 but couldn't get through to anyone when I had questions. Kept getting disconnected or waiting for HOURS!!! Finally had to ask my daughter to help me figure it out. The website kept giving errors and I almost missed my window. So frustrating!!!
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Giovanni Rossi
If you're having trouble reaching SSA by phone, try using Claimyr (claimyr.com). I was in the same situation trying to file for widower benefits and kept getting disconnected. With Claimyr, I got through to a real person at SSA in about 15 minutes instead of waiting for hours. They have a video showing how it works at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. Much better than dealing with the constant busy signals and disconnections!
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Mei Zhang
dont forget if ur still working SSA will take away some of ur $$ - its dumb but thats how it works
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Amara Oluwaseyi
You're referring to the earnings test, which is important to understand. For survivor benefits claimed before Full Retirement Age, SSA withholds $1 for every $2 earned above the annual limit ($22,750 estimated for 2025). However, these aren't permanently \
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Fatima Al-Maktoum
I'd like to add something important that others haven't mentioned. If you've remarried before age 60, you won't be eligible for survivor benefits on your deceased husband's record. But if you remarry AFTER turning 60, you can still receive survivor benefits from your deceased spouse's record. Also, you might want to compare what you'd get from survivor benefits at 60 versus waiting until 62 for your own retirement. Sometimes one strategy works better depending on your specific situation and benefit amounts. SSA won't necessarily tell you the optimal strategy, so it's worth asking them to calculate both scenarios for you.
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Zoe Kyriakidou
I haven't remarried, so that's not an issue. But your point about comparing benefits is really good. I hadn't thought about looking at both scenarios. I'll definitely ask them to calculate the difference between taking survivor benefits at 60 versus my own retirement at 62. Thank you!
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Liam McConnell
Make sure you book an appointment for your application! I just showed up at my local office and had to wait 4 hours, only to be told I should have made an appointment. Total waste of time.
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Jamal Brown
Actually, for survivor benefits, you can't apply online - you have to either call SSA or visit an office. But you're absolutely right about the appointment. Never just show up! I called the national number (1-800-772-1213) to schedule mine. Had to call right when they opened at 8am to get through.
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Zoe Kyriakidou
Thank you everyone for all the helpful advice! I'm going to apply in August 2025 (3 months before my November birthday) and make sure I have all my documents ready. I'll call the SSA to schedule an appointment since it sounds like I can't apply for survivor benefits online. I really appreciate all the tips about the earnings test and comparing benefit options. This community has been so helpful!
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