Social Security check after death - will SS reclaim October payment and still send November benefit?
My mother passed away on November 11th and I'm trying to figure out what happens with her Social Security payments. We share a joint bank account where her SS benefits are deposited on the 23rd of each month. I'm confused about two things: 1) Will Social Security take back her October payment since she died in November? 2) Will her final November payment still come on the 23rd even though she passed away on the 11th? Has anyone dealt with this situation before? The local SSA office has a 3-week wait for appointments and I'm getting conflicting info online. Thanks for any help.
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Ben Cooper
I'm sorry for your loss. Unfortunately, Social Security benefits are not payable for the month of death, regardless of what day in the month the person dies. So no, there won't be a November payment on the 23rd. As for October's payment, that should remain since she was alive for all of October - they won't take that back. You should report her death to SSA as soon as possible though, as continuing to receive benefits after death can create problems.
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Khalid Howes
•Thank you for the clear answer. So she won't get November's check since she died during November, but October's payment is secure. That helps a lot. Do you know the best way to report her death? Should I wait for the appointment or is there a faster way?
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Naila Gordon
sry about ur mom. when my grandpa died last year they took back his last check! it was a whole mess and they even charged the bank an overdraft fee which was SO not fair. make sure u tell the bank what happened!
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Khalid Howes
•Wait, they took back his last check? Was that for the month he died in or the month before? I'm worried they'll take back October's money which we already used for some of her final expenses.
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Cynthia Love
What the first responder said is correct. Social Security benefits are paid in arrears - meaning the payment received on October 23rd was for September, and the payment she would have received on November 23rd would have been for October. Since she was alive all of October, that payment (which would arrive Nov 23) is still payable to her estate. There will be no payment for November since she passed during that month. You need to contact SSA immediately to report her death. This isn't something you should wait on. If they deposit money they shouldn't have, they will take it back and that can cause problems with your account.
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Khalid Howes
•Oh wait, so the October 23rd deposit was actually for September, and the November 23rd deposit would be for October? That makes more sense. So we should still receive one more payment on November 23rd, which is for October when she was still alive the whole month. Is that right?
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Darren Brooks
When my dad died we got NOTHING for his month of death even though he died on the 29th! Social Security doesn't pay partial months, it's ridiculous that they can keep a whole month's worth when someone dies at the end!!!!
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Rosie Harper
•Yep thats how it works. SS is paid for living through the whole month. So unfair when someone dies on the last day and they keep the whole check!!
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Cynthia Love
To clarify for everyone - Social Security benefits are paid in the month FOLLOWING the month for which they are due. So: - Payment received on October 23rd was for September - Payment that would come on November 23rd would be for October - Payment that would come on December 23rd would be for November Since the person was alive all of October, the payment for October (which arrives in November) should still be paid. But since she died in November, there will be no payment for November (which would normally arrive in December). This is why it's critical to report the death promptly - to prevent incorrect payments that will later be reclaimed.
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Elliott luviBorBatman
•Just to add, call SSA right away at 1-800-772-1213 to report the death. You'll need her Social Security number and death certificate (or at least the funeral home info if you don't have the certificate yet). Don't wait for an appointment - this needs to be reported immediately.
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Demi Hall
I've tried calling the SSA death reporting line over 50 times when my aunt passed away last month! Keep getting disconnected or waiting for hours. Finally had to take a day off work and go to the office in person. The system is broken!
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Ben Cooper
Yes, most funeral homes will report the death to Social Security as part of their services. However, you should still follow up with SSA directly to ensure everything is handled correctly with her benefits. The funeral home reporting just starts the process, but doesn't take care of all the details regarding her benefits and final payments. To summarize what others have said correctly: 1. The payment received October 23rd was for September 2. The payment that would come November 23rd is for October (she should get this) 3. There will be no payment for November since she wasn't alive the entire month Also, be prepared that if you're handling her estate, you may be eligible for a one-time death benefit of $255 if you were her spouse or dependent child, but this has to be applied for separately.
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Khalid Howes
•Thanks everyone for clearing this up. I'll double-check with the funeral home to see if they reported her death already, and then follow up with SSA directly. I appreciate all the help during this difficult time.
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Naila Gordon
hey dont 4get to ask about the death benefit! i think its like $255 or something. not much but its something!
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Cynthia Love
•The $255 death benefit is only payable to a surviving spouse who was living with the deceased or to dependent children. It's not payable to adult children handling a parent's estate unless they were dependents.
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Sophie Footman
I'm so sorry for your loss. This is such a difficult time and dealing with bureaucracy on top of grief is exhausting. Just wanted to add that if you're having trouble getting through to SSA by phone, you can also report the death online through your mother's my Social Security account if she had one set up, or you can visit your local SSA office. Sometimes going in person, even without an appointment, can be faster than waiting on hold for hours. Also, make sure to keep records of when you reported the death in case there are any issues later. The community here has given you great advice - the November payment for October should still come through since she was alive all of October. Hang in there.
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Val Rossi
•Thank you Sophie, that's really helpful. I didn't know you could report a death online through the my Social Security account - I'll check if my mom had one set up. The idea of going in person without an appointment is also worth considering since the phone lines seem impossible. I really appreciate everyone taking the time to help me understand this process during such a tough time.
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Natalie Chen
I'm so sorry for your loss, Khalid. Losing a parent is never easy, and dealing with Social Security on top of everything else can feel overwhelming. From what I understand about SSA rules, you should still receive the November 23rd payment since it's actually for October when your mother was alive the entire month. However, there won't be any payment for November itself since she passed away during that month. I'd strongly recommend calling SSA at 1-800-772-1213 as soon as possible to report her death - don't wait for that appointment. The sooner you report it, the less likely there will be complications with incorrect payments later. If you can't get through by phone (which seems to be a common problem), consider going to the local office in person. Some offices will help walk-ins for death reports even without appointments since it's time-sensitive. Take care of yourself during this difficult time.
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Isabella Russo
•Thank you Natalie, that's really kind of you. You're absolutely right that it feels overwhelming trying to handle all this bureaucracy while grieving. I'm definitely going to try calling the SSA number today and if I can't get through, I'll head to the local office to see if they can help me as a walk-in for reporting the death. Everyone here has been so helpful in explaining that the November payment should still come since it's for October when she was alive. I really appreciate this community taking the time to guide me through this confusing process.
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Alexis Renard
I'm so sorry for your loss. Having gone through this with my father last year, I can tell you that the community here has given you accurate information. You should indeed receive the November 23rd payment since it covers October when your mother was alive the entire month. Social Security pays in arrears, so that November deposit is actually her October benefit. However, there will be no payment for November since she passed during that month. One thing I'd add is to make sure you have multiple copies of the death certificate ready - you'll need them for various agencies and institutions. Also, if your mother had any automatic bill payments coming out of that joint account, you might want to review those since the Social Security payments will stop after the October benefit. The SSA phone system is definitely frustrating, but keep trying or go in person if possible. They really do need to know about her passing as soon as possible. Take care of yourself during this difficult time.
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Ella Russell
•Thank you Alexis, that's really practical advice about getting multiple copies of the death certificate and reviewing automatic bill payments. I hadn't thought about the bills that might be coming out of the account once the Social Security payments stop. That's definitely something I need to look into soon. It's reassuring to hear from someone who has been through this process that the information here is accurate about receiving the October benefit in November. I'll make sure to get those death certificates ordered and start reviewing what other financial matters need attention. Thanks for thinking of those practical details during such an emotional time.
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Beatrice Marshall
I'm so sorry for your loss, Khalid. Going through this process while grieving is incredibly difficult. Based on my experience helping a family member navigate this same situation, I can confirm what others have said - you should receive the November 23rd payment since it's actually for October when your mother was alive the entire month. Social Security benefits are paid a month behind, so that payment is rightfully hers. However, I'd recommend acting quickly to report her death. When I dealt with this, I found that calling the SSA number (1-800-772-1213) very early in the morning (around 8 AM) gave me the best chance of getting through. If that doesn't work, definitely try going to your local office as a walk-in - many offices will prioritize death reports even without appointments since they're time-sensitive. Also, make sure to inform your bank about the situation so they're aware that Social Security payments will be stopping after this final October benefit. This can help prevent any confusion if SSA accidentally deposits funds that need to be returned later. Take care of yourself during this difficult time.
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Dylan Hughes
•Thank you Beatrice, that's really helpful advice about calling early in the morning to get through to SSA. I hadn't thought about timing my call strategically like that. Your tip about informing the bank is also smart - I'll make sure they know what's happening so there aren't any surprises if something gets deposited that shouldn't be. It's comforting to hear from people who have actually been through this process and can confirm the information about receiving that final October payment. I really appreciate everyone in this community taking the time to share their experiences and help guide me through this difficult situation.
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Ian Armstrong
I'm so sorry for your loss, Khalid. Losing a parent is heartbreaking, and having to navigate government bureaucracy during grief makes it even harder. Based on what others have shared here, it sounds like you should receive the November 23rd payment since Social Security pays a month behind - so that deposit would actually be for October when your mother was alive the entire month. One thing I'd suggest is trying to call SSA at different times of day if the morning doesn't work. I've heard that sometimes calling right after lunch (around 1-2 PM) when call volume might be lower can help. Also, if you do go to the SSA office in person, bring a copy of the death certificate if you have it, or at least the funeral home information - it can speed up the process. Please take care of yourself during this difficult time. This community has given you great guidance, and it's clear people here understand how overwhelming this process can be.
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Lucas Lindsey
•Thank you Ian, that's really thoughtful advice about trying different times to call SSA. I'll definitely try the afternoon timeframe if the morning doesn't work out. It's good to know that bringing the death certificate or funeral home info can help speed things up if I go in person. I'm really grateful for how supportive and helpful everyone in this community has been - it makes dealing with all these confusing government processes feel much more manageable when you have people who understand what you're going through and can share practical tips from their own experiences.
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