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Medicare for disabled adult child - waiting 2 years after starting my Social Security retirement?

I'm really confused about Medicare eligibility for my disabled son (age 38). I've been collecting my retirement benefits for about 14 months now, and when I contacted Social Security last week about getting him on Medicare, the representative told me he can't qualify until I've been on Social Security for at least 2 full years. That doesn't sound right to me... I thought disabled adult children could get Medicare through their parent's work record once the parent starts collecting. Does anyone know if this 2-year waiting period is actually correct? I'm worried because his current insurance is terrible and he desperately needs better coverage for his treatments.

The SSA rep is confusing two different rules. For a disabled adult child (what SSA calls a Disabled Adult Child or DAC), they can receive BENEFITS on your record when you start collecting retirement, but Medicare eligibility works differently. Your son would need to be approved for DAC benefits first, and then there's typically a 24-month waiting period from his first disability benefit payment before Medicare begins - it's not tied to how long YOU'VE been collecting. Has your son been approved for DAC benefits yet?

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Thank you! No, he hasn't been approved for DAC benefits yet. I didn't realize that was a separate process. Do we need to file an application specifically for that? The rep didn't mention anything about this when I called.

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I went through this exact thing with my daughter!!!! The SS office told me WRONG information THREE TIMES!! They kept saying different things each time I called. Your son needs to apply for DAC (Disabled Adult Child) benefits first, then after he's approved there's a 24 month waiting period for Medicare. BUT the 24 months starts from when he's eligible for DAC, not necessarily from when he applies!!! So get him applied ASAP!!

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this happened to my nephew too, SS people don't even understand their own rules sometimes lol

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To clarify the process: Your adult disabled son needs to file for Childhood Disability Benefits (CDB, also called Disabled Adult Child benefits) on your record. There's Form SSA-4-BK for this. Once approved, there's a 24-month waiting period before Medicare starts. The wait begins from his entitlement date, not your retirement date. Also important: your son must have become disabled before age 22 to qualify. If you haven't filed for the CDB yet, that's step one.

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This is incredibly helpful. No one at SSA explained this process to me. My son's disability began when he was 19, so it sounds like he should qualify. Is there any way to expedite this 24-month waiting period? His current insurance barely covers anything.

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I had to call SSA about 15 times before I finally got someone who knew what they were talking about with my disabled daughter's Medicare. The phone lines are absolutely terrible - I'd wait 2+ hours just to get disconnected. Finally I tried this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me through to an agent in about 20 minutes instead of hours. They have a demo video at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU that shows how it works. Saved me so much frustration when dealing with the DAC application process. Might be worth checking out since you'll probably need to call SSA multiple times to get this sorted.

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did this actually work? i'm always skeptical of services like this but i've been trying to reach SSA for 2 weeks about my benefits and keep getting disconnected

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Yes, it actually did work for me. I was skeptical too but was desperate after getting disconnected three days in a row. They got me through to an agent who helped file my daughter's DAC application correctly. Definitely worth it to avoid the endless hold music!

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my cousin had to do this for her son and the wait sucks but nothin u can do about it. make sure u have ALL his medical records going back to when he was 19 showing the disability. SS is super picky about proof! good luck

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There are some exceptions to the 24-month Medicare waiting period though! If your son has End-Stage Renal Disease or ALS, the waiting period is waived. Also, if he was previously entitled to benefits that were terminated, and he becomes entitled again within 5 years, any previous months of entitlement count toward the 24 months.

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He doesn't have either of those conditions unfortunately. He has severe schizophrenia that developed when he was 19. I appreciate the information though - it's helpful to know what the exceptions are.

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ALSO!!! I forgot to mention - while you're waiting for Medicare to kick in, check if your state has a Medicaid program for disabled adults! My daughter qualified for Medicaid during the Medicare waiting period and it helped SOOO much with her medical bills!!!

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this is good advice 👍 medicaid saved us big time during the wait

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One more thing to consider: Once your son is approved for DAC benefits, he might be eligible for SSI (Supplemental Security Income) during the Medicare waiting period if his income and resources are low enough. SSI recipients automatically qualify for Medicaid in most states, which could help with healthcare costs while waiting for Medicare. You should specifically ask about this when you call SSA about the DAC application.

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Thank you for this suggestion! I'll definitely ask about SSI when we apply for the DAC benefits. He has very little income and resources, so this might be an option for us. I really appreciate everyone's help - I feel much better informed now than after talking to the SSA representative.

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Just wanted to add that you should also ask about retroactive benefits when you file the DAC application. If your son's disability onset was before age 22 and you've been collecting retirement benefits for 14 months, he might be entitled to back payments from when you first started collecting (or up to 12 months before the application date, whichever is less). This could provide some financial help while you're navigating the Medicare waiting period. Also, make sure to keep copies of EVERYTHING you submit - SSA has a tendency to lose paperwork and you'll want documentation of what you filed and when.

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I'm new here but went through something similar with my brother last year. One thing I learned that might help - when you call SSA to start the DAC application process, ask to speak specifically with a "disability specialist" or ask to be transferred to the disability determination unit. The general customer service reps often don't have complete knowledge about DAC benefits and the Medicare waiting periods. Also, if possible, try calling first thing in the morning (8 AM) when they open - the wait times are usually shorter then. The whole process can be really overwhelming, but once you get the right person on the phone who understands DAC benefits, it becomes much clearer. Hang in there!

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Thank you for the tip about asking for a disability specialist! I had no idea there were different types of representatives at SSA. That explains why I got such confusing information when I called - the person I spoke with probably wasn't familiar with DAC benefits. I'll definitely try calling at 8 AM and specifically ask to speak with someone who handles disability cases. It's really helpful to know that other people have successfully navigated this process, even though it seems so complicated right now.

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I'm going through this exact same situation with my adult son right now! He's 35 and became disabled at 20, and I just started my retirement benefits 8 months ago. The SSA representative I spoke with gave me completely different information - they said he could get Medicare immediately once approved for DAC benefits. It's so frustrating how inconsistent the information is! I'm definitely going to call back and ask specifically for a disability specialist like Oliver suggested. Has anyone had success getting clearer timelines on how long the DAC application process itself takes? I'm worried about the gap in coverage while we're waiting for everything to get processed.

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I'm dealing with this too and it's so confusing getting different answers every time! From what I've learned reading through this thread, it sounds like that rep gave you incorrect info - there's definitely a 24-month Medicare waiting period after DAC approval, not immediate coverage. As for processing times, when I applied for my daughter's DAC benefits last year, it took about 3-4 months to get the initial decision. But I've heard it can vary a lot depending on how complete your documentation is and which office handles it. The key thing I learned is to submit ALL medical records from when the disability started - they really scrutinize the onset date since it has to be before age 22. Good luck with your application!

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As someone who went through this exact situation with my adult son two years ago, I can confirm that the SSA representative gave you completely incorrect information. The 2-year waiting period they mentioned doesn't exist for DAC Medicare eligibility. Here's what actually needs to happen: Your son needs to file for Disabled Adult Child (DAC) benefits on your work record first - this is a separate application from your retirement benefits. Once he's approved for DAC benefits, THEN there's a 24-month waiting period before Medicare begins, and this 24-month period starts from his DAC entitlement date, not from when you started collecting retirement. Since his disability began at 19 (before age 22), he should definitely qualify. I'd recommend calling SSA back and asking specifically to speak with a disability specialist rather than a general representative - they're much more knowledgeable about DAC rules. Also, definitely apply for Medicaid in your state during the Medicare waiting period if possible. The whole process took about 4 months for us to get the DAC approval, but it was worth it. Don't let that first rep's confusion delay you from getting started!

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This is such a helpful breakdown, thank you! It's frustrating how much misinformation is out there about this process. I'm definitely going to follow your advice and call back to speak specifically with a disability specialist. The 4-month timeframe you mentioned for DAC approval is really useful to know for planning purposes. Did you have any issues with documentation or was the process fairly straightforward once you got connected with the right people at SSA? I'm trying to prepare mentally for what might be a long road ahead, but hearing success stories like yours gives me hope that we can navigate this system successfully.

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@Manny Lark This is incredibly helpful! I m'a newcomer here but dealing with a similar situation for my brother who s'32 and became disabled at age 20. We ve'been getting the runaround from SSA for months now with conflicting information. Your step-by-step explanation makes so much more sense than anything we ve'been told. Quick question - when you say it took 4 months for DAC approval, was that from the time you submitted the application or from when you first contacted SSA? I m'trying to figure out if we should expect additional delays just in getting the paperwork process started. Also, did you have to provide extensive medical documentation going back to when the disability first occurred? We re'trying to gather records from over a decade ago and it s'been challenging. Thanks for sharing your experience - it s'exactly what newcomers like me need to hear!

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@Jay Lincoln Welcome to the community! I m'also new here but have been learning so much from everyone s'experiences. The documentation piece you mentioned is really important - from what I ve'gathered reading through this thread, SSA is very particular about having medical records that clearly establish the disability onset date before age 22. It might be worth contacting your brother s'doctors from that time period to see if they still have records, or check with hospitals where he was treated. Some people have mentioned that incomplete documentation can really slow down the process, so it s'probably worth taking the extra time upfront to gather everything you can. Also, based on what others have shared, it sounds like the 4-month timeframe usually starts from when the complete application is submitted with all supporting documents, not from the initial contact. Have you been able to speak with a disability specialist yet, or are you still dealing with general reps?

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@Jay Lincoln Welcome to the community! I m'also relatively new here but have been learning so much from everyone s'experiences. The 4-month timeframe that Manny mentioned is really helpful to know. From what I ve'gathered reading through all these posts, the medical documentation piece seems to be really crucial - especially proving that the disability onset was before age 22. It sounds like you re'being smart to start gathering those older medical records now, even though it s'challenging. Have you tried contacting the medical providers directly to request records, or are you working through a different approach? I m'in a similar boat trying to collect documentation going back to when my son s'disability started at 19. It s'definitely overwhelming, but seeing how many people in this community have successfully navigated this process gives me hope that we can figure it out too!

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@Jay Lincoln The 4 months was from when we submitted the complete application to getting the approval decision. But getting to that point took us an extra month or so of gathering documents and dealing with SSA to make sure we had everything right. For medical records, yes, they wanted extensive documentation going back to the disability onset - it was definitely challenging to track down records from 12+ years ago! Some of the older medical offices had closed or moved, so we had to do some detective work. My advice is to start gathering records ASAP while you re'dealing with the application process, and don t'be afraid to ask the disability specialist for guidance on exactly what types of records they need most. They were actually pretty helpful once we got connected with the right person. Also, if you can t'find some older records, focus on getting recent comprehensive evaluations that document the ongoing disability - sometimes that can be just as valuable as the historical records.

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@Jay Lincoln Welcome to the community! I went through this same confusing process with my disabled daughter about 18 months ago, so I totally understand the frustration with getting conflicting information from different SSA reps. To answer your questions - the 4 months Manny mentioned is typically from when you actually submit the complete DAC application, not from initial contact. The key is getting all your documentation together first before submitting, which can take weeks or even months depending on how far back you need to go for medical records. For the medical documentation, yes, you ll'need comprehensive records showing the disability onset before age 22. I had to get records going back 15 years for my daughter, and some doctors offices' had closed or moved their records to storage facilities. Start by contacting every healthcare provider your brother saw around the time his disability began - hospitals, specialists, even his regular doctor. Many places charge fees for older records usually ($20-50 ,)but it s'worth it to have complete documentation. Also, if you re'having trouble getting old records, SSA can sometimes help by sending medical release forms directly to providers. The whole process is definitely overwhelming, but once you get the right paperwork together and speak with a knowledgeable disability specialist at SSA, it becomes much more manageable. Hang in there!

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@Jay Lincoln Welcome to the community! I m'new here too but have been learning so much from everyone s'experiences. The 4-month timeline that Manny mentioned is really helpful to know. From what I ve'gathered reading through all these responses, it sounds like gathering those old medical records is going to be crucial since SSA is very strict about proving the disability onset was before age 22. You might want to start requesting records from all the doctors/hospitals your brother saw around age 20 - even if it seems like a lot of work upfront, having complete documentation will probably save time in the long run. Have you tried contacting the medical records departments directly? Sometimes they can expedite requests if you explain it s'for a disability application. Good luck with the process!

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Welcome to the community! I'm also relatively new here but have been following this thread closely since I'm in a similar situation with my disabled daughter. From what I've learned reading everyone's experiences, it sounds like you'll definitely need extensive medical documentation going back to when your brother's disability first started at age 20. Several people mentioned that SSA is really strict about proving the disability onset date since it has to be before age 22 for DAC eligibility. I'd suggest starting to gather those medical records now even while you're waiting to speak with a disability specialist - it seems like having complete documentation upfront can help speed up the approval process. The Claimyr service that @QuantumQuest mentioned earlier in the thread might be worth looking into if you're having trouble getting through to SSA by phone. Good luck with your brother's case!

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