How soon can I file for child auxiliary benefits after my SS retirement application? Need timeline and steps
I just applied for my own Social Security retirement benefits last week (turned 62 in March). Now I need to apply for benefits for my 12-year-old daughter who lives with me full-time. The SSA rep I talked to was confusing - she first said I need to wait until my own benefits are approved before applying for my daughter, but then mentioned something about filing within a certain timeframe for backpay? I'm totally lost! How soon after applying for my own benefits can I submit her application? Is there a waiting period? And what documentation will I need for her application? Her mother isn't in the picture if that matters. Thanks for any guidance!
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Ashley Adams
You don't need to wait for your own benefits to be approved! You can and SHOULD apply for auxiliary benefits for your child immediately. There's actually a potential benefit to filing her application within 6 months of your own application - it can help establish protective filing date considerations. You'll need: your daughter's birth certificate, your custody documentation (since mom isn't involved), your SS number, and possibly school records showing she lives with you. You can file online or call to schedule an appointment.
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Zoe Gonzalez
•Thank you! This is so helpful. The rep made it sound like I had to wait. Do you know if I need the original birth certificate or will a certified copy work? And should I file online or go to the local office?
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Alexis Robinson
i got my benefits last yr and did my daughters right after mine got approved. honestly wasnt a problem. think its easier that way cuz then they have ur record all set up in system
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Aaron Lee
I'm in almost the exact same situation! Just applied for retirement 3 weeks ago (I'm 63) and have a 14-year-old son. The SSA office told me I HAD to wait until my benefits were approved before they'd even accept his application. Now I'm worried we're missing out on something important. Has anyone actually successfully applied for a child's benefits before the parent's application was approved??
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Ashley Adams
•Yes, you absolutely CAN file for your child before your own application is approved. The SSA representative gave you incorrect information. You should call the SSA main number back and speak with someone else, or consider using an expedited service to get through quickly. Different representatives sometimes give conflicting information, unfortunately.
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Chloe Mitchell
I'm an advocate who helps people navigate SSA benefits, and I want to clarify a few things: 1. You can file for your child's auxiliary benefits any time after you file your own claim - no need to wait for approval 2. There's a 6-month retroactivity window for filing dependent applications that relates to potential retroactive benefits 3. For a 12-year-old dependent, you'll need: birth certificate (certified copy is fine), your identification, proof of custody/living arrangement, and school records showing your address 4. File at the SSA office in person if possible - auxiliary applications for children are sometimes problematic online 5. If your retirement application gets denied for any reason, your daughter's application would also be denied since her eligibility stems from yours
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Zoe Gonzalez
•This is exactly what I needed! So if I understand correctly, as long as I apply for her within 6 months of my own application, we won't lose any potential payments? And is there any advantage to waiting until my application is approved first?
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Chloe Mitchell
•Correct - filing within 6 months protects potential retroactive benefits. There's NO advantage to waiting until your application is approved first. In fact, filing simultaneously or right after your own application is ideal because it establishes her place in line. The system links your applications together, and when your retirement is approved, they'll immediately process hers.
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Michael Adams
My daughter got her benefits right away when I got my disability approved last year. The money really helps with her expenses. Good luck!
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Natalie Wang
The SSA phone lines are absolutely IMPOSSIBLE to get through on these days! I spent 3 hours on hold trying to ask a similar question about my grandson's benefits and eventually got disconnected. Then tried again the next day and same thing happened. It's ridiculous we can't get basic information about our benefits! I discovered a service called Claimyr that got me through to an actual SSA agent in about 20 minutes instead of waiting for hours. It was totally worth it - check out their demo video at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. The agent I spoke with confirmed you can absolutely file for your child right away, doesn't matter if your own benefits are approved yet or not.
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Zoe Gonzalez
•Oh wow, I'll check that out! I've been trying to call back for more info and kept getting disconnected too. Is this service legitimate? It seems too good to be true after my frustrating experiences with the SSA phone lines.
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Natalie Wang
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Noah Torres
ssA is so confusing!!!!! I filed for my granson last year and they made me wait till my benefits got approved first. Now reading this I think they made a mistake and he missed out on 3 months payments!!!!! Who can i talk to about fixing this??
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Chloe Mitchell
•You may be able to request a reconsideration if it's been less than 60 days since the initial determination. If it's been longer, ask specifically about 'administrative finality' rules and whether good cause might apply for reopening the determination due to misinformation from SSA. Bring any proof you have of attempting to file earlier.
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Ashley Adams
One other important thing: make sure you understand how your early retirement (at 62 instead of Full Retirement Age) impacts BOTH your benefit amount AND your daughter's. She'll receive approximately 50% of what your PRIMARY INSURANCE AMOUNT would be at Full Retirement Age (not 50% of your reduced early retirement amount), but it's also subject to the family maximum benefit calculation. This is a complex calculation, but very important to understand for your financial planning.
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Zoe Gonzalez
•I didn't realize her benefit was based on my FRA amount rather than my reduced amount. That's actually better than I thought! Is there any calculator online where I can estimate what her monthly payment might be?
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Ashley Adams
•Unfortunately, the SSA calculators don't handle child benefits well. A rough estimate: if your FRA benefit would be $2000 (even though you're taking reduced benefits at 62), your daughter would receive approximately $1000/month. However, the family maximum usually caps total household benefits at 150-180% of your PIA. Your best bet is to ask the SSA representative to calculate this specifically for you when you apply.
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Alexis Robinson
make sure u bring all ur documents for ur kid they r super picky and will make u come back if u forget anything
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Aaron Lee
I'm getting so many conflicting answers from SSA about this same issue! Last week one rep told me to apply for my son right away, this week another one says I need to wait. Does anyone know if there's a specific regulation or rule I can reference when I talk to them?
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Chloe Mitchell
•Reference POMS GN 00204.030 regarding protective filing and dependent applications. Also, POMS RS 00202.001 covers who may receive child's benefits. Mentioning these specific program operations manual references sometimes helps get more accurate information from representatives.
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Ava Rodriguez
As someone who just went through this process 6 months ago, I can confirm you absolutely DO NOT need to wait for your retirement benefits to be approved first! I filed for my 10-year-old son's auxiliary benefits just 2 weeks after submitting my own retirement application, and it worked out perfectly. Here's what I learned: the SSA systems are designed to process these applications together once your retirement is approved. My son's benefits started the same month as mine, and we didn't lose any potential payments by filing early. Pro tip: when you go in person (which I highly recommend over online for child applications), bring extra copies of everything. I brought my son's birth certificate, custody papers, school enrollment records, and proof he lives with me full-time. The whole process took about 45 minutes, and the representative was able to link his application directly to mine in their system. Don't let one confused rep delay you - the sooner you file, the better protected you'll be for any retroactive payments!
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Ayla Kumar
•This is really reassuring to hear from someone who actually went through it recently! I was getting so stressed about potentially missing out on benefits because of the conflicting information. Your timeline sounds similar to what I'm planning - I filed my retirement application last week and was hoping to get my daughter's application in within the next week or two. Did you notice any difference in processing times between your application and your son's, or did they really process them together like a package deal?
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Mikayla Brown
I went through this exact same process with my daughter last year and want to echo what others have said - you absolutely CAN file for your child's benefits right away! The SSA rep who told you to wait was giving incorrect information, which unfortunately happens more often than it should. Here's what worked for me: I filed my daughter's application just 10 days after my own retirement application (I was 63). Both applications were processed together, and her benefits started the same month as mine with no delays or lost payments. For documentation, I brought her birth certificate (certified copy worked fine), my ID, school records showing our address, and since her father wasn't involved, I also brought a notarized statement about sole custody. The whole appointment took about an hour. One thing that really helped was being persistent when I got conflicting information. I called back and specifically asked to speak with someone who handles auxiliary benefits for children. The second rep I spoke with was much more knowledgeable and confirmed that filing simultaneously is not only allowed but actually recommended. Don't let that initial confusion delay you - get her application in as soon as possible to protect any potential retroactive benefits!
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Diego Fisher
•Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It's really helpful to hear from someone who went through the exact same situation. I'm definitely going to push forward with filing my daughter's application this week. The part about asking to speak with someone who specifically handles auxiliary benefits for children is a great tip - I think that might be why I got such confusing information initially. Did you end up going to your local SSA office in person, or were you able to handle everything over the phone after that second call?
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Khalil Urso
I'm so glad I found this thread! I'm in a very similar situation - just filed for my retirement benefits 2 weeks ago at age 62 and have a 13-year-old daughter. The SSA rep I initially spoke with also told me I had to wait, but after reading all these responses, I'm definitely going to file her application right away. One question I haven't seen addressed yet - since I'm filing for early retirement at 62, will my reduced benefit amount affect how much my daughter receives? I'm getting conflicting information about whether her benefit is calculated based on my reduced amount or my full retirement age amount. Also, does anyone know if there's a specific form number for the child's application, or is it just part of the general auxiliary benefits process? Thanks to everyone who shared their experiences - this has been incredibly helpful in clearing up the confusion!
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Diego Mendoza
•Great question about the benefit calculation! Your daughter's benefit will actually be based on your Primary Insurance Amount (PIA) at full retirement age, NOT your reduced early retirement amount. So even though you're taking a reduction by filing at 62, her benefit would be approximately 50% of what your full retirement age benefit would have been. This is actually better for her than if it were based on your reduced amount! As for forms, there isn't a separate form number - when you apply for auxiliary/dependent benefits for a child, it's typically done using the same SSA-1 (Application for Retirement Insurance Benefits) but with additional sections completed for the dependent. The SSA rep will walk you through this when you apply. Given that it's only been 2 weeks since your application, you're still well within that 6-month window everyone mentioned for protecting retroactive benefits. I'd definitely recommend calling back or visiting in person this week to get her application filed!
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Hunter Hampton
I just went through this exact process 2 months ago and can confirm what everyone is saying - you absolutely do NOT need to wait! I filed my 11-year-old son's auxiliary benefits just 5 days after my own retirement application (I'm 63) and everything went smoothly. The key thing I learned is that different SSA reps have varying levels of knowledge about auxiliary benefits, which explains the conflicting information you received. When I called back and specifically mentioned I wanted to file for "child auxiliary benefits under my retirement claim," I got connected to someone much more knowledgeable who immediately confirmed I could file right away. Here's what made the process smooth for me: I went to the local office in person with my son's certified birth certificate, school enrollment records, my driver's license, and documentation showing he lives with me full-time (since his mom isn't involved either). The whole appointment took about 30 minutes, and they linked his application directly to mine in their system. Both of our benefits started the same month with no delays or lost payments. Don't let that initial confusion hold you back - file her application this week to protect any potential retroactive benefits within that 6-month window everyone mentioned!
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Logan Scott
•This is exactly the kind of real-world experience I needed to hear! It's so frustrating that different SSA reps give such conflicting information about something that should be straightforward. Your timeline of just 5 days between applications really reinforces what everyone else is saying about not needing to wait. I'm definitely going to follow your approach and specifically mention "child auxiliary benefits under my retirement claim" when I call - that seems like it might help get me connected to someone who actually knows this process. Thanks for sharing all the documentation details too, especially since you're also dealing with the absent parent situation like me. I'm feeling much more confident about moving forward with this now!
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Rhett Bowman
I just want to add my voice to everyone saying you can file immediately - don't wait! I made the mistake of listening to the first SSA rep who told me to wait until my retirement was approved, and I ended up missing out on 2 months of benefits for my 15-year-old daughter. When I finally got a knowledgeable rep on the phone (took 3 tries!), she confirmed that I could have filed right away and that the delay cost us money. Here's what I wish I had known: bring EVERYTHING when you go in person. I had to make two trips because I forgot to bring school records showing my daughter lived with me. Also, if you're dealing with an absent parent situation like many of us here, consider bringing a notarized statement about sole custody or lack of contact - it can speed things up. The good news is once everything was properly filed, both our benefits started immediately and the process was much smoother than I expected. Don't let that initial confusing conversation delay you any further - get her application in this week while you're still well within that 6-month protective filing window!
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Theodore Nelson
•Thank you for sharing your experience about the 2-month delay - that's exactly what I was worried about! It's so frustrating that inconsistent information from SSA reps can actually cost people money. Your point about bringing everything on the first trip is really helpful. I'm going to make a checklist: birth certificate (certified copy), school records, my ID, and documentation about sole custody since her mother isn't involved. I'm definitely not going to wait any longer after hearing all these stories about successful immediate filings. Going to call tomorrow and specifically ask for someone who handles child auxiliary benefits, then schedule an in-person appointment to get this done properly. Thanks for the reality check about how this delay can actually impact benefits!
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Emily Sanjay
I went through this same situation just 4 months ago with my 14-year-old son when I filed for early retirement at 62. The confusion you experienced is unfortunately very common - I got three different answers from three different SSA reps! Here's what I learned after finally getting it sorted out: You can absolutely file for your daughter's auxiliary benefits RIGHT NOW. Don't wait another day. I filed my son's application just 8 days after my retirement application, and both benefits started the same month with no issues. The magic words when you call are "I need to file for child auxiliary benefits under my pending retirement claim." This seems to get you connected to reps who actually understand the process. I also recommend going in person if possible - the online system for child benefits can be glitchy. For documentation, bring: her certified birth certificate, school enrollment records, your ID, and since mom isn't in the picture, any custody documents or a notarized statement about sole custody. I also brought utility bills showing she lives with me. One thing that really surprised me: my son's benefit is calculated on what my FULL retirement age benefit would be (not my reduced early retirement amount), so it's actually higher than I expected. The family maximum still applies, but it's definitely worth getting the ball rolling immediately. Don't let that confusing initial conversation cost you money - file this week while you're still in that protective 6-month window everyone keeps mentioning!
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