Can my child get Social Security benefits if only one parent is collecting SS?
I'm trying to figure out the family benefit situation for my kids (12 and 9). I'm approaching retirement age and plan to file for Social Security benefits in a few months, but my wife is 7 years younger than me and nowhere near filing yet. Can my children receive benefits based on just my record alone? Or do both parents need to be collecting Social Security before minor children can qualify? The SSA website is confusing me with all the different scenarios. Anyone here been through this process recently? Thanks for any help!
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StarStrider
Your children can absolutely receive benefits based on just your record alone! When you start collecting your retirement benefits, unmarried children under 18 (or up to 19 if still in high school) can receive up to 50% of your full retirement amount. Your wife doesn't need to be collecting for the kids to qualify. Just make sure when you apply for your own benefits, you also apply for the children at the same time - tell SSA you have minor children so they can process family benefits.
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Luca Esposito
•Are you SURE about this?? My cousin tried to get benefits for her kids when she retired and they told her NO because the kids had to be disabled before 22 or something?? So confusing!! Is it different for retirement vs disability??
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StarStrider
To clarify for everyone - there are different rules depending on the type of benefit. For retirement benefits (which is what the original poster is asking about), minor children CAN receive benefits when a parent retires and starts collecting Social Security. For disability benefits, the same is true. For adult children to qualify, they must have become disabled before age 22. But for minor children under 18, they qualify under either parent's record when that parent starts collecting retirement or disability benefits.
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Zara Ahmed
•Thank you so much for the clear explanation! One more question - is there a maximum amount our family can receive in total? I vaguely remember reading something about a "family maximum" but I'm not sure how that works.
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Nia Thompson
yep my kids got benefits when i retired. wife wasnt old enough for SS but kids still got their checks. they stop at 18 tho so enjoy while it lasts lol
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Mateo Rodriguez
Yes, there is a family maximum benefit (FMB) that limits the total amount payable to a family on one worker's record. It's typically 150-180% of the worker's primary insurance amount (PIA). The actual calculation is complex, but essentially if you have multiple dependents (spouse and/or children) collecting on your record, the total family benefit may be capped. Each dependent might receive less than the full 50% they would otherwise qualify for if the total would exceed the maximum. This is important to factor into your retirement planning.
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Aisha Abdullah
•This happened to my brother. His benefit was around $2,800/month and he thought his three kids would each get $1,400 (50%) but instead they each got about $700 because of that family maximum thing. Still helpful but way less than expected!
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Ethan Wilson
I'm going through this exact process right now. Been trying to get through to SSA for two weeks to set up the children's benefits after I started my retirement. Their phone lines are ALWAYS busy and I can't get an appointment at my local office for 2 months! Anyone know a faster way to reach someone? My kids' benefits are just sitting there not being processed...
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NeonNova
•I had the same problem last month trying to add my grandson to my daughter's disability claim. I found this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me through to a real SSA agent in about 20 minutes instead of waiting on hold for hours or getting disconnected. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU - basically they hold your place in line and call you when they get an agent. Was totally worth it because I got everything resolved in one call instead of wasting weeks trying to get through.
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Zara Ahmed
Thanks everyone for the helpful responses! This clears up a lot of my confusion. I'll definitely apply for the kids when I file for my own benefits. And sounds like I need to research that family maximum benefit more to get a realistic estimate of what they might receive.
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Aisha Abdullah
Just wanted to add that the money for the kids goes to YOU as the parent/guardian until they turn 18, not directly to them. The SSA considers you the "representative payee" and you're supposed to use the money for their benefit. My sister-in-law didn't realize this and was surprised when the checks came in her name.
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Nia Thompson
•yea and they make you fill out a form every year saying how u spent the kids money. not hard but don't ignore those forms or they can stop payments
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Luca Esposito
I wish I'd known about all this when my husband retired!!! Nobody at Social Security told us our daughter could get benefits and now shes already 19 so we missed out on like 4 years of payments we could have had!!! Do they ever give you retroactive benefits if you didn't know you qualified??
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StarStrider
•Unfortunately, retroactive benefits for children are generally limited to six months prior to when you apply. So if you never applied for your daughter, you likely can't recover those missed years. This is why it's so important for everyone to learn about all their potential benefits when filing. The SSA doesn't automatically tell everyone about every benefit they might qualify for.
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Yuki Tanaka
When I was helping my dad with his retirement paperwork last year, the SSA representative specifically asked if he had any minor children (he doesn't). So they do sometimes ask, but I agree they should make this clearer on their websites and publications. Too many families miss out on benefits they're entitled to simply because they don't know to ask.
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