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Can my 13-year-old receive Social Security benefits when I claim retirement benefits at 62?

I'm planning to take early retirement at 62 next summer and just noticed something confusing when reviewing my Social Security statement. Under the 'Survivors Benefits' section, it mentions my 13-year-old daughter could get benefits if I die, but I can't find ANYTHING about whether she'd be eligible for benefits while I'm still alive and just collecting retirement. Does anyone know if children get benefits when a parent starts collecting Social Security retirement? My ex-wife has been telling me our daughter could get a monthly check once I start collecting, but I don't want to count on that money for her college fund if it's not true. I've tried calling SSA twice but kept getting disconnected after 45+ minutes on hold.

Yes, your child CAN receive benefits when you start collecting retirement! These are called "child's benefits" and they're available to unmarried children under 18 (or up to 19 if still in high school). Each eligible child can receive up to 50% of your full retirement benefit amount, even if you take early retirement at 62. However, there's a Family Maximum Benefit that caps the total your family can receive based on your record, usually between 150-180% of your full benefit. This is different from survivor benefits, which is why you only saw it mentioned in that section. You should definitely factor this into your planning, but be aware that taking early retirement at 62 will permanently reduce both your benefit AND any benefits your daughter receives.

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Thank you so much! That's exactly what my ex was telling me but I couldn't find it anywhere on my statement. Do you know if these child benefits would affect my daughter's eligibility for college financial aid? That's our main concern since we're trying to maximize what she'll qualify for in 5 years.

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I went through this exact situation last year. When I filed for retirement, I brought my son's birth certificate and was able to apply for his benefits at the same time. The SSA representative told me it's called "auxiliary benefits" in their system. My son gets about $875/month now and will until he graduates high school. One thing to watch for - there's something called the "family maximum" that limits the total benefits paid on your record. If you have multiple children or an ex-spouse also collecting on your record, it might reduce what each person gets.

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my neice gets this too but they didnt tell her about it when her dad filed!!! she had to apply separately and lost 6 months of payments because she didnt know. make sure u ask specifically about child benifits when u apply

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Adding to what others have shared, those child benefits can be REALLY complicated with the family maximum calculation. When I filed at 62, my 14-year-old twins each qualified for benefits, but they didn't get the full 50% each because of the family maximum. Also, if your daughter has any income from a job, there are earnings limits that could reduce her benefits. And YES, these benefits absolutely count for financial aid calculations on the FAFSA, which really messed up our expected family contribution when my oldest applied for college. I've been fighting with SSA for months about an overpayment notice because they said my son earned too much at his summer job. Their phone lines are IMPOSSIBLE!

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I've been trying to get through to SSA about my daughter's benefits for weeks with no luck. I found this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that gets you through to an actual SSA agent without the wait. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU It worked for me when I needed to fix an issue with my daughter's benefits - finally got it resolved instead of getting disconnected over and over.

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does anyone know if the child has to live with the retired parent to get benefits?? my grandson lives with me (his grandmother) but my son-in-law is turning 62 and filing for SS next month. can my grandson still get benefits based on his dads record even tho he doesn't live with him?? they don't have a formal custody agreement if that matters

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The child doesn't need to live with the parent to qualify for benefits on their record. As long as the relationship is established (through birth certificate or legal documentation), living arrangements don't affect eligibility. However, the person who has custody of the child (you, in this case) would need to be the representative payee who receives and manages the benefits on behalf of the child.

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Be careful about counting on this money!! My sister's kids got their benefits reduced because of the family maximum when both she AND her ex-husband filed for retirement benefits in the same year. Something about dual entitlement and benefits being offset. Social Security explained it to her 3 different times and she still doesn't understand how they calculated it.

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That's good to know - my ex-wife isn't anywhere near retirement age yet, but I'll keep that in mind. The whole system seems incredibly complicated. I'm definitely going to make an appointment with SSA to go over all the calculations before I file.

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when i started getting ssdi my son got benefits and it was automatically added when i filed. but retirement mite be different?? u should apply for both at same time to make sure u dont miss paymens

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There's actually a difference between SSDI and retirement when it comes to children's benefits. With SSDI, they automatically check for eligible children in most cases. With retirement benefits, you often need to specifically apply for the child's benefits at the same time. The technical terms SSA uses are different but the concept is similar - dependent children can qualify under either program.

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Something important that hasn't been mentioned yet: If your daughter receives these benefits, they will need to be reported on college financial aid applications (FAFSA). These count as unearned income for the child and can significantly impact financial aid eligibility. Since you mentioned college funds, this is something to consider in your planning. Also, there are specific rules if your child works while receiving benefits. In 2025, beneficiaries under 18 can earn up to $22,300 without any reduction in benefits (this is the current annual earnings limit which gets adjusted yearly).

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This is SO important! We lost almost $8,000 in financial aid because of the SS benefits my son received. The FAFSA counts it as the CHILD'S income which is assessed at a much higher rate than parent income. We would have been better off financially if I had delayed my retirement until after he started college. DEFINITELY talk to a financial aid advisor about this before making decisions.

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This is really helpful information everyone! I had no idea about the FAFSA impact - that's a huge consideration since we're hoping she'll qualify for need-based aid. It sounds like I need to run the numbers on whether the 5 years of child benefits would be worth the potential reduction in college financial aid. Does anyone know if there's a way to estimate what the family maximum would be in my situation? I only have one child and no ex-spouse collecting benefits, so I'm hoping we'd get closer to the full 50%. Also, when you all applied for the child benefits, did you need to bring any specific documentation beyond the birth certificate? I think I'm going to try that Claimyr service someone mentioned - after two failed attempts at calling SSA, I really need to speak with someone who can walk me through all these calculations before I make any decisions.

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As a newcomer to this community, I wanted to share some additional resources that might help with your decision-making process. I recently went through a similar situation and found that the SSA's online Retirement Estimator tool (ssa.gov/benefits/retirement/estimator.html) can give you preliminary estimates for both your retirement benefits and potential auxiliary benefits for dependents. One thing I learned that hasn't been mentioned yet is that you can actually apply for retirement benefits up to 4 months before you want them to start. This gives you more time to gather documentation and plan the timing, especially if you're trying to coordinate with college financial aid considerations. Also, regarding the FAFSA impact that several people mentioned - I discovered that some states have different rules for how Social Security benefits are treated in their state financial aid programs. It might be worth checking with your state's higher education agency to understand the full picture of how these benefits could affect aid eligibility beyond just federal aid. The local SSA offices can provide a personalized benefit statement that shows projections for different claiming ages, including estimates for dependent benefits. When I made my appointment, I specifically asked for a "benefit projection worksheet" and they were able to print out scenarios showing benefits at 62, full retirement age, and age 70, along with the corresponding child benefit amounts. Hope this helps with your planning! This community has been such a great resource for navigating these complex decisions.

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Thanks for sharing those resources, Kiara! As someone completely new to both this community and Social Security planning, I really appreciate the practical tips about the online Retirement Estimator and being able to apply 4 months early - that timing flexibility could be really valuable. Your point about state-specific financial aid rules is something I hadn't considered at all. I'll definitely need to research how my state treats Social Security benefits in their aid calculations. It's becoming clear that this decision has so many more layers than I initially realized! The "benefit projection worksheet" sounds like exactly what I need to request when I schedule my SSA appointment. Having those concrete scenarios with different claiming ages and the corresponding child benefit amounts will help me model out the long-term financial impact much better. This thread has been eye-opening for me - I came in thinking this was a straightforward question about whether child benefits exist, and now I realize I need to consider timing strategies, FAFSA impacts, state aid rules, and family maximum calculations. Thanks to everyone who has shared their experiences and expertise!

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