How long will my teenagers receive Social Security child benefits while my husband is claiming at 68?
My husband (67, turning 68 this year) started collecting his Social Security retirement benefits last year. We have two teenagers who are receiving child-in-care benefits right now. They're currently 16 and 14 (turning 17 and 15 this year). Both will remain in high school until they're 19. I'm 56 years old and wondering about a couple things: 1) How long will my children continue receiving their benefits? Do they stop at 18 or can they continue until they finish high school at 19? 2) Once my kids are no longer eligible, would I qualify for any type of spousal benefits even though I'm still under FRA? I won't be 62 when the kids age out - I'll only be 59. I've tried calling SSA three times but get disconnected after waiting for over an hour. Really hoping someone here has experience with this specific situation. Thanks!
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Liam O'Reilly
Children can receive benefits until they turn 18, or 19 if they're still attending high school full-time. Once your oldest turns 18, SSA will send a form that needs to be completed by the school to verify enrollment for continued benefits until graduation or age 19, whichever comes first. Regarding your benefits, unfortunately, you won't be eligible for spousal benefits until you reach 62, regardless of whether your children are receiving benefits or not. The only exception would be if you were caring for a child under 16 or disabled (which won't apply once your youngest turns 16).
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Aria Washington
•Thank you for explaining this! So just to clarify - my youngest will turn 16 next year, and that means I would lose eligibility for any benefits until I turn 62? Is there any other way I could qualify for benefits before then?
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Chloe Delgado
my kid got checks til 19 because he was still in school. they send u a form u gotta get filled out by the school. but u cant get anything til ur 62 sorry
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Ava Harris
•Actually I think the mom might still qualify for mother's benefits while caring for children under 16. But yeah once the youngest hits 16 those would stop.
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Jacob Lee
Let me add some specific details here since I went through this exact situation last year. Your children will receive benefits until age 18. Then, if still in high school, they can continue until graduation or age 19, whichever comes first. SSA will send Form SSA-1372 (Student's Statement Regarding School Attendance) about 3 months before their 18th birthday. As for your benefits, there are two types you need to understand: 1. Mother's/Father's benefits - These are available if you're caring for the beneficiary's child under 16 2. Spousal benefits - Available at age 62+ Since your youngest will be 16 next year, you will NOT be eligible for any benefits until you reach 62. There's no workaround for this unfortunately - it's one of those annoying gaps in the SS system. I recommend scheduling an appointment at your local field office to discuss your specific situation. Phones are nearly impossible lately.
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Aria Washington
•This is so helpful - thank you! I was hoping there might be some provision for this gap period, but sounds like I'm out of luck. I'll definitely make an appointment at our local office to confirm everything.
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Emily Thompson
This system is RIDICULOUS!!! I'm in the exact same boat except my kids are 15 and 13. My husband is 70 and when my youngest hits 16, I'll lose benefits until I'm 62 - SIX YEARS with NOTHING even though my husband paid into the system for 45+ years!!! How are families supposed to plan for this?? Does anyone know if Congress is looking at fixing this gap???
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Sophie Hernandez
•I understand your frustration, but this gap has existed in the system for decades and isn't likely to change soon. The best approach is to plan for it financially. Perhaps look into part-time work or adjusting your budget to account for the reduced household income. Many families face this challenge, and while it's difficult, having advance knowledge helps with planning.
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Daniela Rossi
I had the WORST time trying to deal with this over the phone. Spent literally 17 hours over 2 weeks trying to get answers from SSA about my kids' benefits (similar situation - they were 17 and 15). Finally found a service called Claimyr that got me connected to a real SSA agent in 20 minutes instead of waiting on hold for hours. Saved my sanity! Check out their video to see how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU or go to claimyr.com They confirmed what others said - benefits continue until 18, or 19 if still in high school. And yes, there's unfortunately no spousal benefits until 62 once your youngest turns 16.
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Aria Washington
•Thanks for the tip about Claimyr. After three failed attempts to reach someone, I'm willing to try anything! I'll check out the video.
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Ava Harris
•Does this service actually work? I've been trying to get through to SSA for weeks about my disability review.
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Daniela Rossi
•@profile7 Yes, it actually worked for me after wasting days trying to get through. They got me connected to a real agent who answered all my questions about the school attendance form and benefit continuation.
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Sophie Hernandez
To address your questions specifically: 1. Children's benefits: Your children can receive benefits until age 18, or up to 19 years and 2 months if they remain in secondary education (high school). The benefits stop either at graduation or when they turn 19 and 2 months, whichever occurs first. 2. Your benefits: You're encountering what's often called the "widow's gap" (though in your case it's more of a spouse's gap). Under current regulations: - While caring for a child under 16: You qualify for mother's/father's benefits - Ages 16-61: No benefits available unless disabled - Age 62+: Eligible for early spousal benefits This gap period is unfortunately a known issue in the Social Security system. You might consider discussing with a financial advisor how to bridge this period, as many families need to adjust their financial planning around this gap.
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Emily Thompson
•I hate that they call it a "gap" like its some little oopsie in the system. Its a HUGE PROBLEM that leaves women without support for YEARS!!!
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Sophie Hernandez
•You're right that it's a significant issue for many families. It particularly impacts women who may have reduced their work hours or left the workforce to care for children. While it's beyond the scope of a forum to change policy, I always recommend people contact their congressional representatives if they feel strongly about Social Security policy issues.
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Ava Harris
I think you're confusing CIC (Child-in-Care) benefits with child's benefits. CIC is what YOU get for taking care of children under 16. Your kids are getting child's benefits which continue until 18 (or 19 if still in high school). The CIC benefits for you will stop when your youngest turns 16, as others have mentioned.
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Aria Washington
•Oh, you're right - I was mixing up the terminology! So I'm currently receiving mother's benefits (CIC) because my youngest is under 16, and those will stop next year. The kids' benefits continue until they're 18/19. Thanks for clearing that up!
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Chloe Delgado
does ur husband have good retirement besides ss? my friend had to go back to work when her kid turned 16 cuz of this stupid rule
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Aria Washington
•He has a small pension but not enough to cover the gap. I'm already working part-time, so I'll probably need to increase my hours. Just wish they'd warned us about this when we first applied!
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