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Can I get spousal Social Security at 63 when my husband's on SSDI? What about survivor benefits?

My husband has been receiving SSDI for years and just turned 65 last month. I'll be 63 next week and I'm trying to figure out my options. I worked part-time most of my life raising our kids, so I don't have enough credits to qualify for my own Social Security benefits. I've been getting so many different answers about whether I can collect spousal benefits now or if I have to wait until my full retirement age (67). Also - and I hate to even think about this - what happens with benefits if my husband passes away while I'm still 63? Would I get the full amount he gets or some reduced amount? The SSA website confuses me more every time I read it! Anyone been through similar situations? I tried calling SSA three times but got disconnected after waiting over an hour each time.

Natalie Wang

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u can get spousal benefits at 62 but theyre reduced permanantly. you'll get like 35% less than if u waited till YOUR full retirement age. doesnt matter that he's on SSDI, still works same way. if he passes (sorry) you get survivor benefits but also reduced if you take before YOUR full retirement age.

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Michael Adams

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Thanks for responding. So does that mean I'd get about 32.5% of his benefit amount now instead of 50% if I waited until I'm 67? And for survivor benefits, would I get his full amount or some percentage? This is all so confusing!

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Noah Torres

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Let me clarify this situation with the correct information: 1. Spousal benefits: You can claim as early as age 62, but you'll receive a permanently reduced amount. At 63, you'd receive approximately 37.5% of your husband's Primary Insurance Amount (PIA) instead of the full 50% you'd get at your full retirement age. 2. Survivor benefits: If your husband passes away, you could claim survivor benefits as early as age 60, but again with a reduction. At age 63, you'd receive approximately 79.6% of his full benefit amount (either his SSDI amount or what he would receive at his full retirement age). His SSDI benefits automatically convert to retirement benefits at his full retirement age, but the amount stays the same. This conversion doesn't affect what you'd receive as a spouse or survivor.

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Michael Adams

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Thank you so much for the detailed explanation! So I'd get 37.5% now but 50% if I wait until 67. And as a survivor I'd get about 80% of his benefit at my current age. That helps me understand the tradeoffs better.

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Samantha Hall

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My sister just went through this!!! She started taking spousal at 63 and a half and got about 41% instead of the full 50%. But she decided the bird in hand was worth it rather than waiting 3 more years. Everyone's situation is different though!!

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Michael Adams

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It's helpful to hear about someone who's been through it. Did your sister have any issues with the application process? I'm wondering if I should just go ahead and apply now.

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Ryan Young

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There's an important factor to consider: if you take reduced spousal benefits early, and then your husband passes away, your survivor benefit will NOT be affected by your early spousal benefit decision. The survivor benefit is calculated separately based on when you claim it relative to YOUR full retirement age. Also, since you mentioned he's on SSDI - that doesn't change anything about your eligibility. SSDI converts to regular retirement benefits at full retirement age (though the amount stays the same). For spousal benefit purposes, it's treated the same way. You might want to run some calculations: if your monthly expenses are covered without taking benefits early, waiting until your FRA would give you significantly more over your lifetime, especially if you have longevity in your family.

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Sophia Clark

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Not OP but waiting isn't always best!!! I waited till my FRA for spouse benefits and my husband passed away 2 months later. I would've collected THOUSANDS more if I'd just taken it early!! NOBODY can predict the future!!!

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Michael Adams

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That's a good point about the survivor benefits being calculated separately. I'm trying to weigh starting smaller payments now versus larger ones later. We're managing okay financially at the moment, but having that extra income would definitely help with rising costs.

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when I tried 2 apply for spousal benefits they made me wait 6 months just to get an appointment!!! and then they told me I was eligible for more on my own record anyway so I wasted all that time. the system is BROKEN!!!

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Samantha Hall

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My neighbor said something about there being a limit on how much you can earn if you take SS before full retirement age. Does anyone know if that applies to spousal benefits too?? Just wondering if there's anything else the OP needs to know.

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Noah Torres

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Yes, the earnings limit applies to spousal benefits as well. In 2025, if you claim any Social Security benefits before your full retirement age, your benefits will be reduced by $1 for every $2 you earn above $22,835 (approximate 2025 limit based on inflation adjustments). However, if the original poster isn't working or doesn't plan to work, this wouldn't affect her situation. This is only relevant if she's claiming benefits early AND has earned income from employment or self-employment.

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Natalie Wang

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btw make SURE you actually dont qualify for your own benefits. my wife thought she didnt have enough credits but when she finally applied they found some missing work history and she qualified for her own benefit which was more than the spousal!

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Michael Adams

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I'll definitely double check this. I worked on and off for about 15 years total, but a lot was part-time. I checked my Social Security statement online last year and it showed 28 credits (need 40). But maybe there's something missing like your wife's case.

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Ryan Young

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Another important point: If you apply for spousal benefits now and your husband passes away later, you can switch to survivor benefits. The reduction in your survivor benefit would be based on your age at the time you apply for survivor benefits, not when you applied for spousal benefits. If you can manage financially, waiting until your full retirement age to claim spousal benefits would give you the full 50% of his PIA. However, there's always the time value of money to consider - getting some benefits for 4 years versus waiting for the full amount. I suggest creating a simple spreadsheet to calculate your lifetime expected benefits under different claiming scenarios. This can help you make a more informed decision based on your specific financial situation.

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Michael Adams

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I appreciate the detailed advice. I hadn't thought about creating a spreadsheet to compare the options - that's a great idea. I'll try to work through some numbers and see what makes the most sense for our situation.

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