Can I claim Social Security spousal benefits at 65 while delaying my own retirement until FRA?
I'm trying to figure out the best strategy for maximizing our Social Security benefits. I'm turning 65 next month and my husband (68) started collecting his Social Security retirement last year. I've heard conflicting information about whether I can apply for spousal benefits now but wait until my Full Retirement Age (67) to claim my own benefits. Would I be eligible to receive 50% of my husband's benefit amount while I wait? My own benefit at FRA would be higher than half of his. I've tried calling SSA three times but kept getting disconnected after waiting over an hour each time. Has anyone successfully done this or know if this strategy still works? I thought they changed the rules but I'm confused about whether those changes would affect me.
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Chloe Martin
Unfortunately, that strategy was eliminated by the Bipartisan Budget Act of 2015. If you file for any Social Security benefit now, you're deemed to be filing for ALL benefits you're eligible for. This means if you apply for spousal benefits, you'll automatically be applying for your own retirement too - and if you're not at FRA yet, your own benefit would be permanently reduced. The only way to get spousal benefits while delaying your own is if you were born before January 2, 1954. Based on your age (turning 65 next month), you were born after that cutoff date.
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Omar Farouk
•Thank you for explaining this! That's disappointing. So there's really no way for me to get any benefits now without permanently reducing my own retirement benefit? I was born in late 1960.
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Diego Fernández
my sister tried to do this last yr and they said nope! they make you take both at once now, sumthin about "deemed filing" i think they called it? unless ur super old and grandfathered in
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Omar Farouk
•Thanks for sharing your sister's experience. Sounds like the rules definitely changed. Did she end up taking both benefits early or waiting until her FRA?
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Anastasia Kuznetsov
The previous responders are correct. What you're describing was called a "restricted application for spousal benefits," but it's no longer available to people born after January 1, 1954. Here are your current options: 1. Wait until your FRA (67) to file for both benefits and receive your full retirement amount plus any spousal supplement if applicable. 2. File now at 65 for both benefits, but your retirement benefit would be reduced by about 13.3% permanently, and your spousal benefit would be reduced as well. 3. File at any point between now and your FRA, with the reduction percentage decreasing the closer you get to 67. If your own benefit at FRA will be higher than half of your husband's, the advantage of waiting becomes even stronger, as you'd only receive a small spousal supplement if any.
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Omar Farouk
•This is so helpful, thank you! One follow-up question - if I wait until my FRA to file for both, how does the spousal supplement work exactly? Will I still get some additional amount if my own benefit is higher than half of his?
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Sean Fitzgerald
When I was trying to figure this out last year, I kept getting busy signals and disconnects when calling Social Security too! I discovered a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an SSA agent in under 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. The agent I spoke with confirmed all the information about restricted applications no longer being available for people our age. It saved me days of frustration!
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Zara Khan
•Is this service legit??? Seems fishy that you have to pay to talk to Social Security when it should be free! What do they actually do?
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Sean Fitzgerald
•It's definitely legit - they just handle the calling and waiting part, then connect you directly to SSA. I was skeptical too but was desperate after trying for days. Once connected, you're talking directly with actual Social Security representatives, not third-party people.
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MoonlightSonata
Anyone else remember when you COULD do this??? My cousin did exactly this back in 2012 - took spousal at 66 then switched to her own at 70. Got thousands more! Now they closed this "loophole" ðŸ˜
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Anastasia Kuznetsov
•Yes, this was called the "restricted application" strategy and was quite valuable for married couples before the 2015 law change. Those born before January 2, 1954 were grandfathered in and can still use this option, but everyone born after that date is subject to deemed filing rules for their entire benefit period.
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Mateo Gonzalez
Wait I'm confused. Isn't SSI different from SSDI? Which one are we talking about here? My nephew gets SSI payments but never worked.
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Chloe Martin
•This discussion is about regular Social Security retirement benefits and spousal benefits, not SSI or SSDI. SSI (Supplemental Security Income) is needs-based for people with limited income and resources. SSDI (Social Security Disability Insurance) is for disabled workers. The original post is about retirement and spousal benefits strategies.
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Anastasia Kuznetsov
To answer your follow-up question: If your own benefit at FRA is higher than 50% of your husband's, then you'll receive your own benefit amount. The "spousal supplement" only comes into play if your own benefit is LESS than 50% of your husband's. In that case, you'd get your own benefit amount plus enough additional money to bring your total up to 50% of his benefit. Since you mentioned your benefit at FRA would be higher than half of his, you'd simply get your own benefit amount with no supplement. This is another reason why waiting until FRA might make sense in your case - you'd be protecting your higher benefit amount from permanent reductions.
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Omar Farouk
•Thank you for explaining this so clearly! Sounds like waiting until my FRA is probably my best option, especially since my benefit will be higher than the spousal amount anyway. I appreciate everyone's help with this confusing topic!
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Zara Khan
THE SSA REPRESENTATIVES LIE!!! When I filed they told me one thing and then did another. GET EVERYTHING IN WRITING! And record the calls if your state allows it!!!! They'll tell you anything to get you off the phone and then you have NO RECOURSE when they mess up your benefits. I'm still fighting them 7 months later!!!
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Diego Fernández
•omg same! my check was supposed to be $1876 and they only gave me $1643 and nobody can explain why!!!
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Omar Farouk
Thank you all for the helpful information! After reading everyone's responses, I think I'll wait until my FRA to file for benefits since my own retirement amount will be higher than the spousal benefit anyway. I'll try using that Claimyr service to actually speak with SSA and confirm all this information. It's frustrating that this strategy is no longer available to people my age, but at least now I understand the rules better.
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