Can I claim spousal benefits at 63 if my husband is at FRA and already drawing Social Security?
My husband turned 67 last month and started receiving his full retirement benefit from Social Security. I'm turning 63 next week and trying to figure out if I'm eligible for any spousal benefits based on his record. I've worked on and off throughout my life but my earnings were always much lower than his. I don't think I'd get much from my own record. Does anyone know if I can apply for spousal benefits now even though I'm under my own full retirement age? And would it be better to take my own smaller benefit now and switch to spousal later, or can I just go straight to the spousal benefit? Social Security's website is so confusing on this topic!
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Katherine Harris
Yes, you can definitely apply for spousal benefits at 63, but there are important things to know: 1. Since you're filing before your own FRA, your spousal benefit will be permanently reduced (roughly 30% less than if you waited until your own FRA) 2. When you apply for spousal benefits before your own FRA, SSA automatically processes what they call a "deemed filing" - meaning they consider you filing for BOTH your own retirement benefit AND the spousal benefit at the same time. They'll pay you the higher of the two amounts. 3. You cannot take your own smaller benefit now and switch to the full spousal later - that option was eliminated for people born after January 1, 1954. Your best course of action depends on your specific earnings record and financial situation. I'd recommend creating a my Social Security account and checking your estimated benefit amounts before deciding.
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Sophia Clark
•Thank you for explaining this. I didn't know about that "deemed filing" rule! So if I understand correctly, I'll automatically be considered to be filing for both benefits. But will my spousal benefit be calculated based on his full benefit amount, or does it get reduced because I'm taking it early?
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Madison Allen
I was in ur exact situation!! filed @ 63 when my husband was 68. They look at BOTH ur record & the spousal and give u whichever is higher. But taking it at 63 means a BIG cut - like 30% less forever!! If u can wait til YOUR full retirment age you'll get a lot more $$$. Its permanent so think carefully!!!!!
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Sophia Clark
•Thanks for sharing your experience! Did you end up regretting taking it early? I'm trying to decide if waiting 4 more years is worth it financially. Did they tell you exactly how much less you received by filing at 63?
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Joshua Wood
When you apply for spousal benefits at age 63, you'll receive approximately 35% of your husband's Primary Insurance Amount (PIA), rather than the full 50% you'd get at your Full Retirement Age. Here's the calculation: - At FRA, spousal benefit = 50% of your husband's PIA - Filing 4 years early (48 months) = reduction of about 15% (0.3125% per month) - So 50% - 15% = approximately 35% of his PIA If your own retirement benefit would exceed this amount, you'll get your own benefit instead. This decision is permanent, so consider your health, financial needs, and longevity expectations carefully. There's no single right answer - it depends on your specific situation.
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Justin Evans
•not ALL of this is right. the spousal reduction is 25/36 of 1% for each of the first 36 months before FRA and then 5/12 of 1% beyond that. its COMPLICATED and why SS reps mess it up all the time!
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Emily Parker
I spent THREE WEEKS trying to get through to Social Security about this exact question. Kept getting disconnected after waiting on hold for hours! Finally got through using a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com). They have this system that holds your place in line and calls you when an agent is available. Saved me hours of frustration! Check out their video: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU The SS agent confirmed that at 63, I'd get about 32.5% of my husband's benefit instead of the full 50%. In my case, that was still better than my own record. Just make sure you understand it's permanent - you never get to switch to the full 50% later.
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Sophia Clark
•Thank you so much for this tip! I've been dreading calling them because everyone talks about how impossible it is to get through. I'm going to check out that service. Did the agent give you any other helpful information about applying?
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Emily Parker
•Yes! The agent told me to have our marriage certificate ready when applying (original or certified copy), and both our birth certificates. Also bring your bank account info for direct deposit. And one tip - ask them to explain ALL the different calculation scenarios. In my case, there was a slight advantage to how they calculated it based on the month I applied.
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Ezra Collins
my sister waited til 67 (her FRA) to get spousal and shes getting over $1600/month. her friend took it at 63 and only gets like $1100. huge difference!!!
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Sophia Clark
•That's a really significant difference! Thanks for sharing those real numbers. It definitely makes me think more about waiting if I possibly can.
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Victoria Scott
Don't forget about Medicare! If you file for SS benefits at age 63, you'll still need to separately apply for Medicare when you turn 65. Those systems don't automatically talk to each other like many people think. And if you're still working and have health insurance through an employer, there's a whole other set of rules about when to enroll without penalties.
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Sophia Clark
•I hadn't even thought about the Medicare angle! Thanks for bringing that up. I do have health insurance through my employer currently, but I'm not sure how long I'll keep working.
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Katherine Harris
One other important consideration: Once you file for benefits, there's a limit to how much you can earn from working before they start reducing your benefits (the earnings test). For 2025, if you're under FRA for the full year, they deduct $1 for every $2 you earn above $23,110. This stops once you reach your FRA. So if you're still working or planning to work, make sure to factor this into your decision. Many people are surprised when their benefits get reduced because of earnings.
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Sophia Clark
•This is really helpful information. I do work part-time and make about $15,000 per year. Sounds like I'd be under the limit, but good to know it exists. If I pick up more hours, I'll need to watch this carefully.
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Madison Allen
ALSO!!! don't forget bout TAXES!! up to 85% of ur SS benefits can be taxable depending on ur other income. we didnt realize this and ended up owing a bunch at tax time that first year ðŸ˜
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Sophia Clark
•Oh no! Thanks for the warning. I'll definitely talk to our tax person before making a final decision. This is getting more complicated than I thought!
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