Can my older husband (63) claim spousal benefits from my SSDI at 57? Or must he use his own SS record?
I've been receiving SSDI benefits for about 3 years now (I'm 57). My husband just turned 63 last month and we're trying to figure out the best way for him to claim Social Security. His earnings history isn't great because he was self-employed for many years and had some lean periods where he couldn't contribute much. We're wondering if he can collect spousal benefits based on my disability record, or if he's limited to just claiming his own retirement benefits? Would one option give him more monthly income than the other? He's still working part-time but wants to fully retire next year. Any insights would be really appreciated! We've tried calling the SSA but keep getting disconnected after long waits.
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Zara Rashid
Yes, your husband may be eligible for spousal benefits based on your SSDI record, but there are some important things to understand: 1. He can apply for spousal benefits since he's already past 62 (the minimum age) 2. If he claims now at 63, he'll get a reduced spousal benefit (roughly 35% of your primary insurance amount instead of the full 50%) 3. SSA will automatically give him whichever is higher - his own benefit or the spousal benefit 4. If he's still working, he's subject to the earnings test until his Full Retirement Age (probably 66 and some months for him) The earnings test could reduce or eliminate his benefits if he makes over $22,320 in 2025 (they deduct $1 for every $2 earned above that limit).
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Sean Doyle
•Thank you so much for this information! I had no idea about that earnings test. Do you know if he would get more by waiting until his FRA to apply for the spousal benefits? Or does it not matter since I'm on SSDI and not regular retirement?
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Luca Romano
my wife got disability and i got 1/2 of her check when i turned 62... but they take out of it cuz i still work my construcion job. its better than nothing tho! they just make u fill out a form every year about how much u make
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Nia Jackson
•This is partially correct but misleading. You don't automatically get 1/2 of your spouse's disability benefit. The spousal benefit at 62 is actually 35% of the disabled worker's primary insurance amount (PIA). It only increases to 50% if you wait until your Full Retirement Age. And yes, the earnings test applies until you reach your FRA.
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Mateo Hernandez
The real question is whether your husband's own benefit at his full retirement age would be higher than 50% of your SSDI benefit. If it is, then he'd be better off claiming his own benefit. Has he created a my Social Security account? He can see his estimated benefit amounts there.
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Sean Doyle
•That's a good point. He does have an account but we're confused by the estimates. It shows different amounts at different ages but doesn't say anything about spousal benefits based on my record. Is there a way to calculate that comparison ourselves?
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CosmicCruiser
As someone who went through this exact situation with my husband, I can tell you that Social Security will automatically pay your husband the higher benefit amount (his own or the spousal benefit). But what tripped us up was the earnings limit - my husband was still working part-time and ended up having to pay back some benefits when we filed taxes! He might want to wait until his Full Retirement Age if he's still earning good money. After FRA, the earnings test goes away completely and he'd get the full 50% spousal benefit if that's higher than his own. One thing we learned the hard way - have him apply for BOTH benefits (his own and spousal) in the same application. They don't automatically check both if you don't mention it.
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Sean Doyle
•Thank you for sharing your experience! That's really helpful to know about applying for both benefits at once. Did you find it was better for your husband to wait until FRA, or did he claim early?
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Aisha Khan
To directly answer your question: Yes, your husband can potentially receive spousal benefits based on your SSDI record, but Social Security will automatically pay him the higher of either his own retirement benefit or the spousal benefit. He cannot receive both. At age 63, he would receive a reduced amount - approximately 35% of your Primary Insurance Amount (PIA) rather than the 50% he would get at his Full Retirement Age. If he's still working, the earnings test will apply until he reaches his FRA (likely 66 and some months, depending on his birth year). For 2025, SSA will deduct $1 for every $2 he earns above $22,320. For a precise comparison of his options, he should contact SSA directly to have them calculate the exact benefit amounts.
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Ethan Taylor
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Luca Romano
Wait u can get ur own SS and spousal?? My brother in law said u can only get one or the other not both
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Zara Rashid
•Your brother-in-law is correct. You can only receive one benefit - whichever is higher. The SSA will calculate both and automatically give you the higher amount. You cannot receive both simultaneously.
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Sean Doyle
I'm getting so confused by all the different rules! Let me see if I understand correctly: 1. My husband can apply for spousal benefits based on my SSDI 2. He'll get either that OR his own benefit (whichever is higher) 3. If he claims at 63, he gets a reduced amount 4. If he's earning too much, they'll take some back So is there ANY advantage to him claiming early? Or should he just wait until his Full Retirement Age? His health isn't great either, so we're worried about waiting too long...
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Mateo Hernandez
•Whether to claim early is a personal decision based on your specific circumstances. The advantage of claiming early is getting benefits sooner - more total payments over time if longevity is a concern. The disadvantage is permanently reduced monthly amounts. With health concerns, sometimes claiming early makes sense. The typical break-even point is around age 80 - if he expects to live beyond that, waiting provides more lifetime benefits. If not, claiming earlier might be better. Given your situation, I'd recommend having that conversation with an SSA representative who can provide the exact dollar amounts for different scenarios.
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