Can I claim spousal benefits if my husband is on SSDI? I'm already collecting Social Security
I've been receiving my own Social Security retirement benefits since I was 67 (now 72). My husband is only 61 and started receiving SSDI about 8 months ago after his heart condition worsened. His monthly benefit is nearly $2,800 while mine is only about $1,100. I'm wondering if I can get any spousal benefits based on his disability record, or do I have to wait until he reaches full retirement age when SSDI converts to regular retirement benefits? The SSA website is confusing me because it mostly talks about spousal benefits when the higher earner is on retirement benefits, not disability. Has anyone navigated this situation before? Would really appreciate some help understanding my options!
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Keisha Thompson
Yes, you CAN potentially receive spousal benefits even though your husband is on SSDI rather than regular retirement benefits! SSDI is treated the same as retirement benefits for spousal benefit purposes. Since your husband's benefit is so much higher than yours, you might be eligible for a spousal benefit that would bring your total up to 50% of his benefit amount. The catch is that since you're already collecting your own retirement, you'll only get the DIFFERENCE between your current benefit and half of his (if that amount is higher). You don't have to wait until he converts to regular Social Security at his full retirement age. Call SSA right away to apply!
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TechNinja
Thank you! I had no idea SSDI was treated the same way. So if I understand correctly, I might get an additional amount on top of my current $1,100 that would bring me up to $1,400 (half of his $2,800)? That would be such a help with medical bills piling up.
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Paolo Bianchi
my wife was in similar situation. she got her own SS then i got SSDI and she got extra $$ from mine even tho im younger then her. it was automatic for us they just sent letter and started paying more. might be different in ur state tho.
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Yara Assad
The spousal benefit process should be the same in all states since Social Security is a federal program. However, the SSA doesn't always automatically adjust benefits - particularly if you were already receiving your own retirement before your spouse began receiving SSDI. It's always best to contact them directly rather than assuming they'll make the adjustment automatically.
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Paolo Bianchi
oh ok didnt know that. guess we got lucky then
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Olivia Clark
WAIT! Be careful about applying for spousal benefits while already collecting your own SS! I tried this last year when my husband got on SSDI and it REDUCED my payment because of some complicated rule about when I filed for my own benefits!!! The SSA person told me I had filed during some \
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Yara Assad
You're mixing up two different situations. Restricted application rules affect people born before January 2, 1954 who want to file for spousal benefits WHILE DELAYING their own retirement benefits. Since the original poster is already receiving her own benefits, these rules don't apply to her situation. She would simply receive the higher of either her own benefit or the spousal benefit (effectively getting a \
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Olivia Clark
Maybe that's it, but I still lost money somehow. The whole system is IMPOSSIBLE to understand and the people on the phone give different answers every time!!! All I know is I thought I'd get more $ and ended up with less.
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Javier Morales
I had EXACTLY this situation with my wife! Here's what you need to know: yes, you can get spousal benefits from your husband's SSDI. BUT, since you're already collecting your own retirement, you'll only get the difference between your benefit and 50% of his (if that 50% is higher). So quick math: 50% of his $2,800 is $1,400. Since you get $1,100, you might qualify for an additional $300 monthly. You need to apply though - they won't automatically give it to you. And good luck getting through to SSA to apply - I spent 3 weeks trying to get someone on the phone!
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TechNinja
Oh, that's really helpful! I've been dreading making that call because last time I needed to talk to SSA, I spent almost 2 hours on hold and then got disconnected. I'll check out that service for sure.
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Connor O'Brien
when my cousin got spousel benefits they took away her medicaid is that gonna happen to you too??
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TechNinja
I'm on Medicare not Medicaid, so I don't think that would be an issue for me. But that's concerning for your cousin - did she get enough extra from the spousal benefits to make up for losing Medicaid?
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Yara Assad
This is mixing up two different issues. Spousal benefits through Social Security won't directly cause someone to lose Medicaid, but the additional income might put them over Medicaid's income limits. This is particularly important for people on SSI (Supplemental Security Income), which is different from SSDI or retirement benefits. For the original poster who's on Medicare and regular Social Security, this shouldn't be a concern.
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Connor O'Brien
oh yeah it was SSI not SSDI sorry i get them confused all the time
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Keisha Thompson
One important thing I forgot to mention - when you apply for the spousal benefit based on your husband's SSDI record, bring along documentation of both your benefits. I've seen cases where SSA representatives get confused about the rules when one person is on disability and the other on retirement. The key regulation is that SSDI benefits ARE treated as if they were full retirement benefits for spousal benefit calculations. Don't let them tell you that you have to wait until he reaches retirement age!
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TechNinja
That's great advice, thank you! I'll gather both our benefit verification letters before I contact them. Is there a specific form I need to fill out to apply for the spousal benefit in this situation?
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Keisha Thompson
You'll want to call and specifically request to file for
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TechNinja
Perfect, thank you so much for your help! I feel much more prepared now.
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Paolo Bianchi
dont they do some kind of math with the primary insurance amount or something?? my brother tried to get spousal from his wifes record and they did some weird calculation with the PIA and then said he wasnt eligible cause of his own benefit. its all so confusing!!!
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Yara Assad
You're referring to the PIA (Primary Insurance Amount) calculation, which is correct. The spousal benefit is calculated as 50% of the higher-earning spouse's PIA. However, if you're already receiving your own retirement benefit, you'll only get the difference between your own benefit and the spousal benefit (if the spousal benefit is higher). There's no double-dipping - you get the higher of the two amounts, not both combined.
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Paolo Bianchi
thx that makes more sense now. wish they would just explain it simple like that on their website!!
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Olivia Clark
What about the earnings test?? If your husband is under FRA and getting SSDI, could that affect spousal benefits? My neighbor said something about this but I don't really understand it.
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Javier Morales
The earnings test doesn't apply to SSDI recipients because they've already been determined unable to engage in substantial gainful activity. The earnings test only affects people who take early retirement benefits (before FRA) and continue working. Since the husband is on SSDI, the earnings test wouldn't apply to his benefits or to any spousal benefits based on his record. That's one advantage of SSDI compared to early retirement benefits.
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Olivia Clark
Oh that makes sense! So many confusing rules with all this stuff!!
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TechNinja
I called SSA this morning and was finally able to get through after trying for two days. The representative confirmed what many of you said - I am eligible for additional spousal benefits based on my husband's SSDI record! They're going to process my application, and I should receive approximately $300 more per month (the difference between my benefit and 50% of his). Thank you all for your helpful advice - I would never have known to apply if not for this community!
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Yara Assad
That's excellent news! Be sure to follow up if you don't see the increase in your benefit within 60 days. Sometimes these adjustments can take a while to process, but they should backpay you to the date of your application if there's any delay. Congratulations on the successful outcome!
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TechNinja
Will do! They said it might take 30-45 days for processing. The extra $300 will make a big difference for us.
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Zainab Ahmed
Congratulations on getting this sorted out! Your success story will definitely help others in similar situations. I'm curious - when you called SSA, did they mention anything about whether the spousal benefit increase will be retroactive to when your husband first started receiving SSDI 8 months ago, or does it only start from when you applied? I know sometimes there can be retroactive payments depending on the timing, and this might be helpful information for others reading this thread who are in similar situations.
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Zainab Ahmed
•Great question! The SSA representative told me that the spousal benefit would only start from the date I applied, not retroactively to when my husband first started receiving SSDI. They explained that unlike some other Social Security situations, spousal benefits based on a spouse's record don't automatically backdate to when the spouse's benefits began - you have to specifically apply for them. So anyone else in this situation shouldn't wait thinking they'll get back payments for the entire time their spouse was on SSDI. The sooner you apply after becoming eligible, the better!
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Sebastián Stevens
This is such valuable information for everyone! I'm in a very similar situation - my husband just got approved for SSDI last month and I've been on my own Social Security for about 3 years. My benefit is only $980 and his SSDI is $2,600, so I'm definitely going to apply for spousal benefits based on what I learned here. The math works out to potentially getting an extra $320 per month ($1,300 minus $980). I had no idea this was even possible until reading this thread. Thank you for sharing your experience and success story - it's given me hope that we can improve our financial situation too!
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Lourdes Fox
•That's so exciting that you found this information helpful! Your situation sounds very similar to the original poster's, and it's great that you're planning to apply right away. Just a heads up from my experience - when you call SSA, make sure you have both your Social Security statement and your husband's SSDI award letter handy. The representative I spoke with asked for specific benefit amounts and dates to verify eligibility. Also, don't get discouraged if it takes multiple attempts to get through on the phone - I ended up calling first thing in the morning around 8 AM and had better luck than calling during midday. Best of luck with your application!
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Javier Morales
This has been such an informative thread! I work as a benefits counselor and wanted to add one more important point for anyone reading this. When applying for spousal benefits while already receiving your own Social Security, make sure to ask the SSA representative to confirm that your application won't negatively impact any other benefits you might be receiving. While spousal benefits themselves are straightforward, the additional income could potentially affect things like Medicare Part B premiums (IRMAA) if it pushes you into a higher income bracket. It's rare, but worth double-checking during your application call. The $300 extra monthly that TechNinja is getting is wonderful, but it's always good to understand the complete picture before making changes to your benefits!
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Yuki Kobayashi
•This is excellent advice from a professional perspective! I hadn't even thought about the IRMAA implications. For someone like me who's right on the edge of different income brackets, that extra $300 could potentially affect my Medicare premiums. When I call SSA next week to apply for spousal benefits, I'll definitely ask them to walk through any potential impacts on my other benefits. It's so helpful to have someone with your expertise sharing these important details that most people (myself included) wouldn't think to ask about. Thank you for adding this crucial information to help everyone make fully informed decisions!
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Isabella Silva
As someone who went through a similar situation with my late husband, I wanted to share a few additional tips that might help others. When my husband was on SSDI and I applied for spousal benefits, the SSA initially told me I wasn't eligible because of some confusion about whether SSDI counts the same as retirement benefits (it does!). I had to speak with a supervisor to get it straightened out. Also, keep detailed records of all your conversations with SSA representatives - dates, times, and names if possible. I found that different representatives sometimes gave conflicting information, so having documentation helped when I needed to escalate. The whole process took about 6 weeks for me, but the retroactive payment back to my application date made it worthwhile. Don't give up if you hit roadblocks - persistence really pays off with Social Security issues!
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Benjamin Carter
•Thank you so much for sharing these practical tips from your personal experience! The point about needing to speak with a supervisor is especially valuable - it's frustrating that frontline representatives sometimes aren't fully informed about how SSDI benefits work for spousal benefit calculations. Your advice about keeping detailed records is spot on too. I've learned from other government benefit situations that having dates, names, and specific details of conversations can make all the difference when you need to follow up or appeal a decision. I'm sorry for the loss of your husband, but I really appreciate you taking the time to share this guidance to help others navigate what can be a confusing and sometimes frustrating process. The 6-week timeline with retroactive payment is also helpful to know - it gives people realistic expectations about the process.
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Lily Young
This entire thread has been incredibly educational! I'm a financial planner and I see so many clients who are confused about spousal benefits, especially when one spouse is on SSDI. What I find most helpful about this discussion is how it clarifies that SSDI is treated exactly the same as retirement benefits for spousal benefit purposes - this is a crucial point that even some SSA representatives seem to get wrong sometimes. For anyone else reading this, I'd also recommend checking your my Social Security account online before calling, as it can give you exact benefit amounts and help you do the math beforehand. The formula is simple: if 50% of your spouse's benefit (whether SSDI or retirement) is higher than your own benefit, you're likely eligible for the difference. TechNinja's success story shows this system really does work when you know how to navigate it!
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Maya Diaz
•Thank you for this professional perspective! As someone new to navigating Social Security, I really appreciate how you've simplified the formula - knowing that 50% comparison rule makes it so much clearer. I'm actually in a somewhat similar situation where my spouse may need to apply for SSDI soon, and I've been worried about how that might affect our benefits. Reading through this entire thread has been like getting a master class in spousal benefits! The point about checking the my Social Security account online first is brilliant - I hadn't thought to do the math beforehand, but that would definitely help me feel more prepared when calling SSA. It's also reassuring to know that even financial planners see confusion about this topic, so I don't feel as overwhelmed about not understanding it initially. This community has been incredibly helpful for someone just starting to learn about these complex benefit rules!
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Dylan Mitchell
This thread has been so helpful! I'm actually in a reverse situation - I'm 63 and considering applying for SSDI due to chronic health issues, while my wife is already collecting her Social Security retirement benefits (she's 69). Her monthly benefit is only $1,200, but if I get approved for SSDI, my estimated benefit would be around $2,400. From reading all these responses, it sounds like she might be able to get spousal benefits based on my SSDI record once I'm approved, even though she's already on retirement benefits. Has anyone dealt with this reverse scenario where the younger spouse gets SSDI after the older spouse is already on retirement? I want to make sure I understand this correctly before going through the SSDI application process.
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Zara Mirza
•Yes, your understanding is absolutely correct! Your situation is just the reverse of what the original poster dealt with, and the same principles apply. Once you're approved for SSDI, your wife should be able to apply for spousal benefits based on your SSDI record, even though she's already collecting her own retirement benefits. Since your estimated SSDI benefit ($2,400) is double her current benefit ($1,200), she would potentially be eligible for an additional $200 per month (bringing her up to 50% of your benefit amount). The key point that's been emphasized throughout this thread is that SSDI is treated exactly the same as retirement benefits for spousal benefit calculations. Just like TechNinja had to actively apply for the spousal benefits, your wife would need to contact SSA once your SSDI is approved - they typically don't make these adjustments automatically. Good luck with your SSDI application, and don't forget to have your wife apply for the spousal benefits once you're approved!
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Leeann Blackstein
This has been such an incredibly informative discussion! As someone who works with seniors navigating Social Security benefits, I can't stress enough how valuable this real-world experience sharing is. What strikes me most is how TechNinja's success story demonstrates that persistence and knowledge really pay off - literally in this case! For anyone else reading this thread who might be in a similar situation, I'd add one more tip: if you're married and one spouse is receiving SSDI while the other is on retirement benefits, it's worth reviewing your situation annually. Sometimes people's circumstances change (like cost of living adjustments affecting benefit amounts) that could make spousal benefits newly available or more advantageous. Also, keep in mind that this spousal benefit eligibility works both ways - whether it's the older spouse on retirement and younger spouse on SSDI (like TechNinja's situation) or vice versa (like Dylan's upcoming situation). The $300 monthly increase TechNinja secured could amount to over $3,600 annually - that's significant money that many people are leaving on the table simply because they don't know these rules exist!
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Chloe Wilson
•This is such excellent advice about reviewing benefits annually! As someone new to understanding Social Security, I hadn't considered that benefit amounts could change over time and potentially make spousal benefits newly available. The point about this working "both ways" regardless of which spouse is older really helps clarify the rules. Reading through everyone's experiences here has been eye-opening - I had no idea so many people were potentially missing out on additional benefits simply due to lack of awareness. The $3,600 annual impact you mentioned really puts it in perspective! I'm going to share this thread with my parents who are both on Social Security to see if they might be in a similar situation. Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences and expertise - this community is amazing for helping people navigate these complex benefit rules!
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