Can I claim SS spousal benefits at 62 if my husband is on SSDI, not yet at FRA?
My husband (64) has been receiving SSDI for 6 years after a workplace accident. I'll be turning 62 in August and started researching whether I could file for spousal benefits. I'm getting conflicting information online and even from different SSA reps! Some say I need to wait until my husband converts from disability to regular retirement at his FRA (67), while others say I can apply at 62 regardless of whether he's on SSDI or regular Social Security. I'm totally confused about how this works. Does anyone know if I can claim spousal benefits while he's still on disability or do I really need to wait until he reaches 67? My own retirement benefit would be quite a bit smaller than half of his, so I'm hoping to get the spousal amount sooner rather than later.
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Brianna Schmidt
Yes, you absolutely CAN file for spousal benefits when your husband is on SSDI. For spousal benefit purposes, SSDI is treated exactly the same as regular Social Security retirement. You don't need to wait until he reaches FRA and converts to retirement benefits. You can apply as soon as you reach 62, though keep in mind you'll get a reduced amount by claiming before your own FRA. Your benefit would be approximately 32.5% of his full benefit amount rather than the 50% you'd get by waiting until your FRA.
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Andrew Pinnock
•Thank you so much! That's a huge relief. Do you know if I need any special documentation when I apply? Or just the standard marriage certificate and IDs?
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Alexis Renard
when my wife was on disabilty i had same question and got wrong info from ss office on phone! they told me to wait but later found out from another worker I could of been getting benefits for almost a year i missed out on! definitely apply right away
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Camila Jordan
•This happens ALL THE TIME with SSA. I've gotten different answers from different people on the SAME DAY!!! It's like they don't even train their employees properly. And then you lose out on money you deserved because THEY gave you bad information. So frustrating!!!
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Tyler Lefleur
My sister just went through this exact situation last year. She applied at 62 while her husband was still on disability (he's 59). Got approved no problem. Good luck!
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Madeline Blaze
To clarify the technical details: Under Social Security rules, SSDI (Social Security Disability Insurance) is considered the same as retirement benefits for spousal benefit purposes. The law specifically defines a "disability insurance benefit" as a "primary insurance amount" that can trigger auxiliary benefits like spousal benefits. You can apply at 62, but be aware that: 1. You'll receive a permanently reduced amount (about 32.5% of his PIA instead of 50%) 2. If you're still working, the earnings test will apply until you reach your FRA 3. If your own retirement benefit is close to the spousal amount, it might be worth running calculations both ways Bring your marriage certificate, birth certificate, Social Security card, and a photo ID when you apply.
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Andrew Pinnock
•Thank you for the detailed explanation! Regarding point #2 - I'm still working part-time (about $18,000/year). Will that affect my spousal benefits?
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Madeline Blaze
•Yes, with earnings of $18,000 in 2025, the earnings test will reduce your benefits. For 2025, the earnings limit is $22,560 if you're under FRA the whole year. Your benefits would be reduced by $1 for every $2 you earn above that limit. Since you're earning under the threshold, your benefits shouldn't be affected by the earnings test. Just be aware that if you increase your hours or get a raise that pushes you over the limit, it would impact your benefit amount.
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Max Knight
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Tyler Lefleur
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Max Knight
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Emma Swift
I think everyone is missing the point about disability vs retirement!!! SSDI ISN'T THE SAME as regular social security!!! I had to wait until my husband switched from disability to retirement benefits at his FRA before I could claim spousal. The SSA office in Dallas told me this specifically last year!
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Brianna Schmidt
•With all due respect, the information you received was incorrect. This is unfortunately common with SSA representatives who sometimes provide contradictory information. Per the Social Security Handbook section 306.1, spouses can claim benefits on a disabled worker's record just as they would on a retired worker's record. The disability-to-retirement conversion at FRA is an internal accounting change that doesn't affect spousal eligibility.
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Alexis Renard
•ya i think you got wrong info cause my wifes on disabilty and i get spousal no problem
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Camila Jordan
When I was trying to figure this out for my mom, I kept getting different answers too! So frustrating! She ended up waiting 8 months unnecessarily because one SSA rep gave her the wrong info. Make sure you apply RIGHT AWAY when you turn 62 since they only do 6 months of retroactive benefits for spousal (not the full 12 months they do for some other benefits). Don't lose out on money like my mom did!!!
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Andrew Pinnock
•That's really good to know about the 6-month retroactive limit. I'll definitely apply right when I turn 62 in August. Thanks for the warning!
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Alexis Renard
dose anyone know if they check if your married for real? my friend and his girfriend been together 25 years but never got married legal, shes thinking of applying on his record
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Brianna Schmidt
•Your friend should be very careful about this. SSA requires legal marriage documentation for spousal benefits (except in common law marriage states where common law is recognized). Falsely claiming marriage status to obtain benefits is fraud and can result in serious penalties, including having to pay back all benefits with penalties and possible criminal charges.
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Tyler Lefleur
I remember when I applied for spousal, they wanted our marriage certificate from 1982! Took me forever to find it in the attic. Make sure you have all your paperwork ready before you apply!
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Olivia Van-Cleve
As someone who just went through this process myself, I can confirm that you absolutely CAN apply for spousal benefits at 62 while your husband is on SSDI! I was in almost the exact same situation - my husband has been on disability for 4 years and I just turned 62 last month. I applied online and was approved within 3 weeks. The key thing to remember is that SSDI counts the same as retirement benefits for spousal purposes. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise! I'd recommend applying online at ssa.gov if possible - it was much easier than trying to get through on the phone. Just have your marriage certificate, birth certificate, and Social Security numbers ready. Good luck!
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Carmen Sanchez
•Thank you so much for sharing your recent experience! It's really reassuring to hear from someone who just went through the exact same situation. I'm feeling much more confident about applying online when I turn 62 in August. Did you have any issues with the online application, or was it pretty straightforward? I've heard mixed things about the SSA website being glitchy sometimes.
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Lucas Schmidt
I work as a benefits counselor and can confirm what others have said - you absolutely can claim spousal benefits at 62 while your husband is on SSDI! The confusion often comes from SSA reps who aren't fully trained on this rule. SSDI and retirement benefits are treated identically for spousal benefit purposes under Section 202(b) of the Social Security Act. A few tips for your application: - Apply online at ssa.gov if possible to avoid phone wait times - Have your marriage certificate, birth certificates, and SSNs ready - Consider whether the reduced benefit (about 67.5% of the full spousal amount) makes sense for your situation - Remember that at your FRA, if your own benefit grows larger than the spousal amount, SSA will automatically switch you Don't let misinformation cost you months of benefits you're entitled to receive!
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Sean Murphy
•Thank you for this professional perspective! As someone new to navigating Social Security, it's really helpful to hear from a benefits counselor who deals with these situations regularly. Your point about misinformation costing people months of benefits is exactly what I'm worried about - I've already gotten conflicting advice from different sources. I'm definitely going to try the online application route when I turn 62. Quick question - when you mention the reduced benefit being about 67.5% of the full spousal amount, is that calculation based on claiming at exactly 62, or does it vary by month if I wait a bit longer?
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Anastasia Fedorov
•The reduction percentage varies by month! At exactly 62, you'd get about 32.5% of your husband's full benefit amount (which is 65% of the 50% spousal rate). For each month you delay past 62 until your FRA, the reduction decreases slightly. So if you wait a few months past 62, you'd get a bit more than 32.5% but still less than the full 50% you'd receive at your FRA. The calculation is pretty complex, but SSA's website has benefit calculators that can help you figure out the exact amount based on your specific timing. As a newcomer to all this Social Security stuff, I'm finding these online tools really helpful for planning!
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