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Confused about Social Security survivor benefits - mom only getting $535 after dad's death with $3400 benefit

My father passed away 3 months ago at age 85, and I'm trying to help my mom (76) navigate her Social Security benefits. The situation doesn't make sense to me. Before Dad died, he received about $4200/month in Social Security. Mom only gets around $440/month because she didn't work enough quarters for full benefits (she took early retirement at 62). After Dad died, Mom received a letter from SSA saying she'd get the $255 death benefit plus survivor benefits of only $670/month. That's nowhere near Dad's benefit amount! When she called SSA, the representative just said "you're already getting what you're entitled to" without explanation. I've heard from several friends that widows typically get their spouse's full benefit amount if it's higher than their own. Mom's new total is just a tiny increase from what she was getting before. Does SSA gradually increase survivor benefits over time before reaching the higher amount? Or should she have immediately received something closer to Dad's $4200? I feel like something's wrong here but can't get a straight answer from SSA. Any insights from those who've been through this process would be deeply appreciated.

Anastasia Popov

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When I went through this with my mom last year, we discovered she was eligible for close to my father's full benefit amount. It sounds like your mom might be caught in what's called the "Government Pension Offset" (GPO) or "Windmill Exclusion Provision" (WEP) if she ever worked for a government job where she didn't pay into Social Security. Or there might be confusion because she was already receiving spousal benefits while your dad was alive. I highly recommend using Claimyr (claimyr.com) to get through to a real SSA agent who can explain exactly what's happening. I wasted weeks trying to get through on my own, but Claimyr got me connected to an agent in under 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU You need to speak with a tier 2 specialist who can review her exact situation - the frontline reps often don't fully understand these calculations.

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NeonNinja

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Thank you for this suggestion. Mom never worked a government job, just part-time retail for about 15 years, so I don't think it's WEP or GPO. I'm starting to think maybe she was already getting the maximum spousal benefit while Dad was alive? But that doesn't make sense either because she was only getting $440, which is nowhere near half of his $4200. I'll check out Claimyr - at this point I'm desperate to talk to someone who can explain what's happening.

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Sean Murphy

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I think I know what's happening here. Your mother was likely already receiving a spousal benefit while your father was alive, not her own retirement benefit. When a spouse has a small benefit on their own record, SSA automatically gives them a "top up" to bring them to 50% of their spouse's benefit (reduced if they claimed early). This is called the spousal benefit. When your father passed away, your mother would switch from getting a spousal benefit (up to 50% of his amount) to a survivor benefit (up to 100% of his amount). BUT - and this is crucial - the survivor benefit is ALSO reduced if she claimed ANY benefits before her Full Retirement Age (FRA). Since she claimed at 62, which is well before her FRA of probably around 66, her survivor benefits are permanently reduced by a significant percentage (potentially 28-30%). So the calculation is likely: 1. Dad's benefit: $4200 2. Reduction for early claiming: ~30% 3. Resulting survivor benefit: ~$2940 But wait - you said she's only getting $670? That still seems way off unless there's another reduction factor. Was your father already receiving reduced benefits because HE claimed early?

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Zara Khan

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this is exactly it ^^^ happens all the time people think they get the full amount but early claiming means permanent reduction and you cant switch back

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Luca Ferrari

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I went through EXACT same thing with my husband!!!!!! The SS office told me I was CRAZY when I said I should get more after he passed!!! Turns out they had ME WRONG in their system!!!! They had me down as taking benefits at 62 but I WAITED till 65!!!! Made a HUGE difference when they fixed it. DEMAND to talk to a supervisor and have them review EVERY DETAIL!!!! They make MISTAKES all the time!!!!

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NeonNinja

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Oh wow, that's concerning. I'll definitely ask them to double check her claiming age in their system. Mom did claim at 62, but maybe there's some other error like what happened to you. How long did it take to get it fixed, and did they backpay you the difference?

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Nia Davis

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Your mother's situation is actually fairly common, though confusing. Here's what's likely happening: 1. Your mother was already receiving what's called a "deemed spousal benefit" while your father was alive. This means SSA was already giving her both her earned benefit (~$440) plus a supplement to reach the maximum she was entitled to as a spouse. 2. Because she claimed at 62, her maximum potential spousal benefit while your father was alive would have been around 32.5% of his PIA (Primary Insurance Amount) instead of the full 50% she'd get if she claimed at her FRA. 3. Now that your father has passed, she's eligible for survivor benefits, but again, claiming any benefits before her FRA results in a permanent reduction. The exact reduction depends on how many months before FRA she claimed. 4. There's also a limit called the RIB-LIM (Retirement Insurance Benefit Limitation) that can come into play with survivor benefits when someone claimed early retirement. I recommend requesting an appointment with an SSA Claims Specialist specifically. Regular representatives often don't understand these complex situations. Ask them to explain the RIB-LIM calculation if it applies to your mother's case.

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Mateo Martinez

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What the heck is a RIB-LIM? I've never heard of this and my husband died last year. Now I'm worried I'm not getting the right amount either!

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QuantumQueen

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My aunt just went thru this mess. If ur mom was getting spousal benefits while ur dad was alive, then she already WAS getting a portion of his benefits. When someone dies, the smaller benefit between the couple goes away completely. Sounds like ur dad's big check died with him and ur mom just continues with her smaller amount plus maybe a bit more. Super unfair but thats how they do it. Social Security is VERY confusing!!!

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Nia Davis

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Actually, that's not quite right. When a spouse dies, the survivor is entitled to the higher of their own benefit or their deceased spouse's full benefit (subject to reductions if claimed early). The smaller benefit doesn't simply continue - there's a specific calculation for survivor benefits. In this case, there appear to be multiple reduction factors at play, including the mother claiming early at 62. This permanently reduces both her retirement benefit and any future survivor benefits she might claim.

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Mateo Martinez

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i had similar issue. took 5 calls to finally get someone who knew what they were talking about. turns out my wifes benefit was reduced by my pension from old job where i didnt pay into SS. its called GPO or WEP or something. maybe check if that applies?

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Sean Murphy

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You're referring to either the Government Pension Offset (GPO) or the Windfall Elimination Provision (WEP). These only apply if someone worked in a job not covered by Social Security (typically certain government positions). From what the OP described, their mother worked in retail, which would have been covered employment with Social Security taxes withheld, so GPO/WEP likely doesn't apply in this case.

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NeonNinja

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Thank you all for the helpful replies! I'm learning so much. I've scheduled another call with SSA for later this week and I'm going to ask specifically about: 1. The early claiming reduction (mom did claim at 62) 2. Whether the RIB-LIM is affecting her case 3. Verification of all her claiming dates and work history I'll update when I learn more. It's frustrating that something so important to seniors is this complicated!

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Luca Ferrari

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GOOD LUCK!!!! Bring NOTES!!! They will try to RUSH you off the phone!!! Don't let them!!!! Ask to SPEAK TO A SUPERVISOR if they can't explain it CLEARLY!!!

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Anastasia Popov

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Just wanted to circle back - did you try Claimyr to get through to SSA? I found their service so helpful when dealing with my mom's benefits. The regular SSA phone line had me on hold for hours, but Claimyr got me through in minutes. Definitely worth checking out at claimyr.com if you're still having trouble getting answers.

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NeonNinja

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I'm going to try it tomorrow! I tried calling SSA directly again today and got disconnected twice after waiting over an hour each time. This is so frustrating when we're just trying to understand Mom's benefits. I'll let you know how it goes with Claimyr.

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Nia Davis

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One more important thing to mention: Make sure you're talking to a Claims Specialist who understands the "maximization of survivor benefits" calculations. The $670/month figure still seems unusually low unless there are other factors at play. Be sure to ask them to explain exactly how they calculated her new benefit amount, including any applicable reductions for early claiming. Request a detailed breakdown in writing - this is your right as a beneficiary. Also, if they determine there has been an error, be aware that SSA can typically only pay retroactive benefits for up to 6 months, so it's important to get this resolved quickly if there is indeed a mistake.

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NeonNinja

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That's really helpful advice about requesting the calculation in writing. I'll definitely do that. And I didn't know about the 6-month limit on retroactive payments - that creates some urgency to get this figured out. Thank you!

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