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Can my 84-year-old mom switch to my late dad's Social Security survivor benefits after taking her own at 62?

Mom took her Social Security at 62 (she's 84 now) while Dad waited until his full retirement age to start collecting. Dad passed away last month and we're trying to figure out if Mom can switch to survivor benefits based on his record. Would she get his full amount or would it be reduced because she took her own benefits early? The funeral home said something about survivor benefits but didn't really explain the details. Mom's monthly payment is about $1,250 and Dad was getting around $2,750. Does anyone know how this works? Does her age now (84) matter or just the fact that she started her own benefits early?

Jayden Reed

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Yes, your mom can absolutely switch to survivor benefits! When a spouse passes away, the surviving spouse can receive the higher of either their own benefit or their deceased spouse's benefit. Since your dad's benefit was higher, your mom should be eligible to receive his full $2,750 amount (minus any Medicare premiums). The fact that she claimed her own benefits early at 62 doesn't affect her survivor benefits at this point. What matters is that she's now the surviving spouse. She needs to contact Social Security as soon as possible by calling 1-800-772-1213 to report the death and apply for survivor benefits. She'll need your dad's death certificate. Just be prepared for potentially long wait times when calling.

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Grace Johnson

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Thank you so much! This is such a relief to hear. I was worried her early filing would somehow reduce the survivor amount. I'll help her make the call to SSA tomorrow. Does she need anything besides the death certificate when we call?

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Nora Brooks

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my mom went thru this last yr... its definetly true she can get his full amount! but ssa doesnt automatically switch her, u HAVE to call them and apply 4 the survivor benfit. took my mom almost 2 months to get anyone on the phone tho ugh

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Grace Johnson

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Ugh, that's what I was afraid of. She really needs that higher payment ASAP since she's struggling with just her lower amount. Any tips for actually getting through to someone?

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Eli Wang

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I've been through this process and can confirm what others have said - your mom will receive your dad's higher benefit amount. The technical term is that she'll receive the "greater of" her own benefit or up to 100% of your dad's benefit. One important thing: Survivor benefits are NOT retroactive very far back, so apply immediately. She'll only get back payments from the time of application, not from the time of death. Every month of delay means lost money. When she calls, she'll need: - Your dad's death certificate - Their marriage certificate - Both their Social Security numbers - Her banking information for direct deposit - Her ID But honestly, getting through to SSA is the biggest challenge right now. I spent days trying to reach someone.

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Grace Johnson

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Thank you for the list! I didn't realize she'd need the marriage certificate too. I'll make sure to have all of this ready. It's so frustrating that waiting to get through means potentially losing money that she's entitled to.

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Cassandra Moon

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The SSA phone system is COMPLETELY BROKEN!!! I tried for THREE WEEKS to get through for my own issue and kept getting disconnected or told to call back later. This is how they treat seniors who paid into the system their whole lives?? DISGRACEFUL!!! Your poor mother shouldn't have to deal with this stress after losing her husband. The whole system needs to be overhauled!

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Zane Hernandez

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I know right? My aunt tried calling for weeks too. Eventually she just gave up and drove to the local office even though she has mobility issues. It's ridiculous they make it so hard.

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Grace Johnson

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Ethan Scott

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sorry about ur dad. when my husband died the funeral home actually filed something with ss for me. did they do that for ur mom? they should have but maybe check with them.

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Grace Johnson

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Thank you for the kind words. The funeral home did say they filed something, but they also said Mom still needs to call SSA directly to apply for the survivor benefits. I think maybe they just reported the death? It wasn't very clear.

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Jayden Reed

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To clarify what happens with the funeral home: They typically submit Form SSA-721 (Statement of Death by Funeral Director), which only notifies SSA of the death. This doesn't automatically start survivor benefits - that requires a separate application. Also, I want to point out that your mom will need to specifically ask for the "Lump Sum Death Benefit" of $255 when she calls. It's not much, but it's something, and SSA doesn't always mention it if you don't ask. One last thing - her benefits will convert to survivor benefits the month after application approval, not retroactively to your dad's death, so time really is of the essence here.

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Grace Johnson

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Thank you for this extra information! I'll make sure to ask about the death benefit too. She can definitely use that $255. I'm now very motivated to get her application in ASAP so she doesn't lose any more money.

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Zane Hernandez

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My grandma got survivors benefits last year but she was so confused because they kept asking her about her own retirement date. I think it DOES matter when your mom took her benefits originally because my grandma had to fill out some extra paperwork. Maybe different rules for different ages? I'm not sure but thought I'd mention it just in case.

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Eli Wang

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The rules are actually quite straightforward, though SSA representatives sometimes create confusion. For a widow/widower at full retirement age or older (which at 84, OP's mother definitely is), they're entitled to 100% of the deceased spouse's benefit if it's higher than their own, regardless of when they claimed their own benefits. The confusion might arise during the application process, but the end result should be receiving the higher amount.

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Nora Brooks

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one more thing... when my mom finally got her survivors benefits they gave her back pay from when my dad died, not just from when she applied! so make sure ur mom asks about that!!

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Jayden Reed

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That's not typically how it works - survivor benefits are usually payable from the month of application, not death. Your mom may have had a unique situation, or perhaps she applied within the same month as your dad's passing. The official policy is that retroactive benefits for widow(er)s are limited to 6 months maximum, and only if the application is delayed beyond the first eligible month. But it never hurts to ask!

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