Can my husband claim his deceased brother's uncashed Social Security checks to help with funeral expenses?
My brother-in-law unexpectedly passed away last week and my husband is listed as his next of kin. While going through his affairs, we found that he had 3 months of Social Security retirement checks (about $4,200 total) that he never cashed before he died. We're struggling with the funeral costs which are nearly $7,500, and honestly that money would really help right now. Is there any way for my husband to claim those uncashed checks since he's next of kin? Also, what's the proper procedure to notify SSA about his death and stop future payments? Can we handle any of this online or do we have to visit an office? Any advice would be greatly appreciated during this difficult time.
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Ava Johnson
I'm very sorry for your loss. Unfortunately, uncashed Social Security checks must be returned to SSA - they don't automatically transfer to next of kin. However, you should look into the Lump Sum Death Benefit of $255 that can be paid to a surviving spouse or child. Your husband may qualify for this if his brother was unmarried with no dependent children. Regarding notification, you should report the death to SSA as soon as possible by calling 1-800-772-1213. You cannot report deaths online. The funeral home usually reports the death, but it's good to follow up. Any checks received after death must be returned. Don't cash them as this can lead to complications.
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ElectricDreamer
•Thank you for the information. That's disappointing about the checks. I didn't know about the $255 death benefit - while it's not much, anything helps right now. Do you know if we need to provide any specific documentation when calling to report his death?
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Miguel Diaz
When my mom died last year we were in the same boat with 2 uncashed checks. we tried cashing them but the bank refused once they knew she passed. the funeral home reported her death but SS was still sending checks for 2 MORE months!!! we had to take all those checks to the local SS office and they made us sign a form. they were super strict and even warned us about fraud penalties. i don't think theres any way around it, those checks are going back to the govt. sorry.
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Zainab Ahmed
•This happened with my aunt too!! Such a pain dealing with SSA after someone dies. We got the runaround for WEEKS trying to return those stupid checks. The government wants their money back fast but takes forever to process anything for us regular folks. 🙄
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Connor Byrne
While the previous commenters are correct that the uncashed checks must be returned, your husband should look into whether he qualifies for any survivor benefits based on his relationship to his brother. This would depend on several factors such as his age, disability status, and whether he was financially dependent on his brother. For reporting the death: call the SSA at 1-800-772-1213 between 8am-7pm Monday-Friday. You'll need your brother-in-law's Social Security number and death certificate. The funeral home likely already reported it, but always follow up. Regarding burial expenses, check if your brother-in-law was a veteran - the VA provides burial benefits. Some counties also offer indigent burial assistance if finances are limited.
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ElectricDreamer
•Thank you for the detailed response. My husband wasn't dependent on his brother, so I don't think he'd qualify for survivor benefits. His brother wasn't a veteran either. I'll definitely check about county assistance though - we hadn't thought of that option.
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Yara Abboud
I went through this last year with my father. You absolutely CANNOT cash those checks - it's considered fraud. But here's something that might help: if your brother-in-law had any unpaid bills in the month he died (rent, utilities, medical expenses), you might be able to file for what's called "underpayment" which allows the last month's benefit to be paid to the next of kin to cover these expenses. The process for reporting death and handling underpayment claims is a nightmare though. I spent WEEKS trying to get through on the 800 number - constant busy signals, disconnections, and 2+ hour hold times. Eventually I used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an agent in about 20 minutes instead of hours. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. Having a direct line to an actual person made dealing with this so much easier during an already difficult time.
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ElectricDreamer
•Thank you for mentioning the underpayment option - we'll definitely look into that since he did have outstanding medical bills. And I appreciate the tip about Claimyr. The thought of spending hours on hold right now is overwhelming, so anything that makes this process easier sounds worth it.
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PixelPioneer
is the brother in law SURE he wasnt cashing his social security checks??? lot of times people forget they signed up for direct deposit years ago and the money is going straight to a bank account. my uncle thought he wasnt gettin his checks for 6 months and turns out they were goin into an old account he forgot about!!! might wanna check that before doing anything else
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ElectricDreamer
•That's a good point, but we've checked his accounts. He was very old-fashioned and insisted on paper checks - he didn't trust direct deposit. We found the physical uncashed checks in his desk drawer while cleaning out his apartment.
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Keisha Williams
MY CONDOLENCES FOR YOUR LOSS. I had similar situation when my sister passed in 2022. SSA is VERY STRICT about this!!! Any benefits not paid out before death are NOT payable to anyone except in specific circumstances (spouse or dependent child usually). The $255 death benefit is a JOKE considering funeral costs these days!!! It hasn't been increased since the 1950s!!!! BANKS WILL REPORT YOU if you try to cash those checks, so don't even try it. SSA considers this FRAUD and they will come after you. TRUST ME ON THIS!!! Just return them and save yourself the headache.
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ElectricDreamer
•Thank you for the warning. We definitely won't try to cash the checks - it's not worth getting into legal trouble. You're right that $255 is almost insulting compared to today's funeral costs, but I guess every little bit helps.
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Zainab Ahmed
Have you checked with the funeral home? When my grandma died last year they helped us fill out paperwork for the death benefit and gave us info on some local charities that help with funeral expenses. Most funeral directors deal with this stuff all the time and know what resources are available.
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ElectricDreamer
•We haven't specifically asked about assistance programs, only discussed the payment plans they offer. That's a good suggestion - I'll call the funeral director tomorrow to see what resources they might know about. Thank you.
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Ava Johnson
Just to clarify something important: if your brother-in-law had a surviving spouse or dependent children, they might be eligible for those uncashed checks as underpayments. Since that doesn't apply here, another option is to check if your husband's brother had any outstanding medical bills from the month he died - there's a provision where those benefits can sometimes be applied to those expenses if properly documented. Also, when you contact SSA, ask specifically about the "underpayment" process rather than just about getting the checks. The representative will be able to determine if there's any possibility of receiving those funds under specific circumstances. The death benefit application (for the $255) is Form SSA-8 which you can download from ssa.gov and submit with the death certificate.
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ElectricDreamer
•Thank you for the additional information. He was never married and had no children, but he did have significant medical bills from his final illness. We'll definitely ask about the underpayment process and download that form. I appreciate the specific guidance - it helps to know exactly what to ask for when dealing with bureaucracy.
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