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Can heirs claim unclaimed Social Security survivor benefits after both spouses have passed away?

Just discovered something that's really upsetting our family. My father-in-law passed away about 8 months ago at 79. While going through his financial records, we realized he never filed for survivor benefits after my mother-in-law died 6 years ago. She had a higher earning record than him, and based on our calculations, he could have received an additional $425/month for those 6 years - that's over $30,000 he missed out on! Is there ANY way for us as his beneficiaries/estate to file a retroactive claim for these uncollected survivor benefits? Has anyone successfully gotten the SSA to pay out benefits that should have gone to someone who is now deceased? I've called the SS office twice now but keep getting different answers from different reps.

Malik Jackson

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Unfortunately, I don't think this will work out in your favor. Social Security benefits generally don't become part of someone's estate. The right to file for benefits ends when the person dies - they can't be claimed retroactively by heirs or the estate. This is different from private pensions or retirement accounts that can pass to beneficiaries. Your father-in-law's unclaimed survivor benefits essentially expired when he passed away.

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Emma Thompson

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That's what I was afraid of. So frustrating to think about all that money that could have helped with his medical bills in those final years. Is there any appeal process or exception we could try? It just seems so unfair when he was entitled to those benefits.

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So sorry for your losses. There is a small window where you MIGHT be able to claim something, but it's very limited. If your father-in-law died within 6 months of becoming entitled to survivor benefits, there might be a possibility for the estate to file for those 6 months of benefits. But from what you've described, it sounds like he was eligible for survivor benefits for years before passing, so this exception wouldn't apply. The SSA is very strict about benefits dying with the beneficiary - they don't consider these as assets that can be inherited.

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Emma Thompson

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Thank you for this information. It's been 6 years since my mother-in-law passed away, so it sounds like we're well beyond any window for claiming these benefits. Just frustrating that nobody at Social Security ever reached out to let him know he was eligible for more money.

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StarSurfer

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My granmohter had the same situation!!! The goverment keeps this quiet becuse they dont want 2 pay ppl wat they deserve!! Its ur money and they stole it from ur family!!! The hole system is rigged against seniors!

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While I understand the frustration, Social Security doesn't automatically notify people about benefits they might qualify for. The system requires individuals to apply for benefits - they don't automatically start. This is why it's so important for people to contact SSA when a spouse passes away to understand all options.

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Ravi Malhotra

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Emma Thompson

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Thanks for the tip about Claimyr. I'll definitely check it out. The inconsistent information is what's driving me crazy - first rep said absolutely not possible, second one said 'maybe' but couldn't explain how. I need to talk to someone who actually knows the policies.

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This happened to my family too! We didn't find out my dad could have claimed my mom's higher benefit until after he passed. So much money left on the table. I think the most frustrating part is that nothing in the system flags this for people.

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Omar Hassan

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Yup, I've seen this happen SO many times. SS office should automatically notify surviving spouses about survivor benefits instead of making people figure it out themselves. My sister works in elder law and says this is super common especially with older men who don't realize they could get their wives' higher benefit.

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I've worked in elder law for many years, and unfortunately, the previous commenters are correct. Per Social Security regulations, once a potential beneficiary dies, their right to unclaimed benefits dies with them. This differs from other government benefits like VA benefits, which sometimes can be claimed by survivors for a limited period. The only exception might be if your father-in-law had actually filed for survivor benefits before his death but died before receiving payment. In that specific case, there's a possibility of the estate receiving those particular payments. But for benefits he never applied for, there is no retroactive claim option for the estate or heirs. For others reading this thread: ALWAYS check with Social Security when your spouse passes away, even if you're already receiving your own retirement benefits. The survivor benefit might be higher, and you can switch to whichever is greater.

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Emma Thompson

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Thank you for the clear explanation. We've learned an expensive lesson, that's for sure. I just wish there was more proactive communication from SSA about these options.

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StarSurfer

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is ur father in law's estate still open??? maybe u could apply as him??? they wouldnt know, right??

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Please do NOT do this. That would constitute fraud, which is a federal offense with serious criminal penalties. Social Security verifies death information thoroughly through multiple systems now. Attempting to apply for benefits using a deceased person's information is illegal.

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This whole thread is making me realize I need to check if my own mom is getting the right benefits. She's been on her own SS since my dad died 3 years ago, but I never thought to check if his benefit would be higher. She's 76 now. Is it too late for her to switch?

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Malik Jackson

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It's not too late! Have your mom contact Social Security immediately. If she qualifies for a higher survivor benefit, she can switch. However, they will only provide up to 6 months of retroactive benefits, so she's unfortunately lost some money for the period beyond that. But she can still potentially get the higher amount going forward.

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After looking at the SSA's POMS (Program Operations Manual System) which is their internal policy guide, I can confirm there's a relevant section on this: GN 02301.030 - Underpayments - Living Claimant Dies Before Payment is Received. This confirms that once a person dies, they can no longer become entitled to benefits they didn't claim while alive. The only payments that can go to an estate are ones that were actually due to the beneficiary but not received before death (like if your dad filed but died before the first payment arrived). Take this as a lesson for everyone else in the family - make sure you're getting ALL benefits you're entitled to. The Social Security website has a benefits screening tool that can help identify what you might qualify for.

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Emma Thompson

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Thank you for looking that up. I guess we're out of luck, but at least now I understand why. I'll definitely be more proactive about making sure other family members are getting all their entitled benefits.

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