Can I switch to spousal benefits when husband's SS is double my amount after starting at 62?
Hi everyone, I'm really confused about spousal benefits and could use some help! I started taking my Social Security at 62 (I know, probably too early but I needed the money). I'm now getting about $1,250 per month. My husband just started collecting his Social Security benefits last month at his full retirement age (66 and 4 months) and he's getting nearly double what I get - around $2,430 monthly. I've heard something about spousal benefits being available when there's a big difference in benefit amounts. Can I switch to getting spousal benefits based on his record now? Would I get more money that way? Does it matter that I already started my own benefits early? The SSA website is so confusing and I can't get through on the phone. Thanks for any advice!
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Hunter Edmunds
Yes, you can potentially receive a spousal benefit, but it won't be a complete 'switch.' Since you've already claimed your own retirement benefits, you would receive what's called a 'spousal add-on.' This means you could get additional money to bring your total benefit up to a maximum of 50% of your husband's Primary Insurance Amount (PIA). However, because you claimed your own benefits early at 62, your spousal benefit will be permanently reduced. The SSA will automatically calculate whether you're eligible for this spousal add-on and should start paying it if you qualify. You need to contact SSA to apply for the spousal benefit - it's not automatic. But be prepared that the add-on might be less than you expect due to the early claiming reduction and other calculations.
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Jade O'Malley
•Thank you! I didn't realize it would be an 'add-on' instead of switching completely. Do you know roughly how much I might get? And when you say my spousal benefit is reduced because I claimed early - does that mean I'm being penalized twice for claiming at 62?
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Ella Lewis
my sister got this. its like they take half of husbands and subtract yours. but she claimed at FRA not early so maybe different 4 u. she got like 500 extra i think
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Andrew Pinnock
•This is not entirely correct. The calculation is more complicated than just subtracting one from the other. The spousal benefit is reduced for claiming before FRA, and the maximum is 50% of the higher earner's PIA, not 50% of what they actually receive.
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Brianna Schmidt
The calculation for spousal benefits when you've already claimed your own retirement benefits is a bit complex, but I'll try to break it down: 1. First, SSA determines what 50% of your husband's Primary Insurance Amount (PIA) would be. The PIA is the benefit he would receive at his full retirement age, not necessarily what he's actually getting. 2. Then they compare that amount to your own benefit at your full retirement age. 3. If 50% of his PIA is higher than your full benefit, you can receive the difference as a spousal add-on. 4. BUT since you claimed at 62, both your retirement benefit AND your potential spousal benefit are permanently reduced. In your case, you'd need to know both your PIA (not just your reduced benefit) and your husband's PIA to calculate this accurately. SSA will do this calculation for you when you apply for spousal benefits. You should definitely apply though - even if the increase is small, it adds up over time!
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Jade O'Malley
•Thank you for explaining this! I wish the SSA made this clearer on their website. Do I have to go into an office to apply for this spousal benefit add-on, or can I do it online?
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Alexis Renard
This whole system is RIDICULOUS! Why should you be PENALIZED for taking YOUR OWN MONEY early when you NEEDED IT??? And now they penalize you AGAIN on the spousal benefit?? This is exactly what happened to my mother and she ended up with barely anything extra despite my dad's benefit being WAY higher. The SSA just makes everything complicated ON PURPOSE so people don't get what they deserve. And good luck trying to talk to anyone there to figure it out - you'll be on hold for HOURS only to get disconnected!!
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Camila Jordan
•I get your frustration, but the reduction isn't really a 'penalty' - it's because you're receiving benefits for more years by claiming early. Still agree that the system is overly complicated though.
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Tyler Lefleur
I was in almost the exact same situation last year. After struggling to reach someone at SSA for weeks (constant busy signals and disconnections), I finally found a service called Claimyr that got me through to a real person at Social Security in about 20 minutes. I explained my situation about potentially qualifying for spousal benefits after my husband filed, and they were able to process my application right over the phone. In my case, I ended up getting about $430 extra per month as the spousal add-on, which has made a significant difference. You can check them out at claimyr.com - they have a video showing how it works at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. Definitely worth it to avoid the frustration of trying to get through yourself.
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Jade O'Malley
•Thank you for sharing this! I've been trying to call SSA for days without getting through. I'll check out that service - $430 extra would make a huge difference for us.
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Andrew Pinnock
My understanding is that when you file for spousal benefits after already receiving your own retirement benefits, you should receive the higher of either: 1. Your own benefit amount, OR 2. Up to 50% of your spouse's benefit (reduced if you claim before your FRA) Since you started at 62, your spousal benefit would be reduced to approximately 32.5-35% of your husband's PIA rather than the full 50%. The exact percentage depends on your year of birth and exactly how many months before FRA you claimed. The good news is that SSA should automatically recalculate this for you when your husband filed. Did you list yourself as a spouse on his application?
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Jade O'Malley
•I'm not sure if he listed me on his application - I'll have to ask him. I thought I needed to apply separately for spousal benefits. So confused now! If it's automatic, I wonder why I haven't seen any increase yet.
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Camila Jordan
Just went through this with my parents! Mom got about $380 more after dad filed, but it took nearly 3 months to start showing up in her direct deposit. SSA is so backlogged right now. You might already be approved but just waiting for processing.
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Madeline Blaze
I'm dealing with weird SS stuff too right now but mine is about disability not retirement but still can't get anyone on the phone either it's so frustrating I've been calling for like 2 weeks straight and when I do get through after waiting forever they transfer me and then I get disconnected anyway sorry not helpful just commiserating
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Tyler Lefleur
•Try the service I mentioned above - Claimyr. It works for all SSA-related calls including disability. Saved me hours of frustration.
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Hunter Edmunds
To follow up on some of the questions and confusion here: 1. The spousal benefit is NOT automatic in most cases - you generally need to apply for it. 2. The maximum spousal benefit is 50% of your spouse's PIA, but that's only if you wait until your own Full Retirement Age to claim spousal benefits. 3. Since you claimed at 62, your spousal benefit will be permanently reduced to around 32.5%-35% of his PIA (depending on your birth year). 4. The actual calculation SSA does is: (reduced spousal benefit amount) - (your own retirement benefit). 5. So you'd receive your own benefit plus potentially some additional amount as the 'spousal add-on.' To apply, you can call SSA at 1-800-772-1213 or visit your local office. I recommend bringing documentation showing both your and your husband's benefit amounts. Also bring your marriage certificate, as they'll need to verify your relationship.
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Jade O'Malley
•Thank you so much for this detailed information! I'll gather my documents and try to make an appointment at our local office. Appreciate everyone's help in understanding this complicated system.
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