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My partner was receiving SSDI benefits before he passed away unexpectedly four months ago. We weren't married but have a 3-year-old daughter together. I applied for survivor benefits for our daughter right after the funeral, but there's been nothing but silence from SSA since then. The online status just says 'processing' and I can't get through on the phone at all. Our daughter was already receiving benefits as his dependent when he was alive, so I thought this would be straightforward. I'm struggling financially without that income. I also heard something about possible caretaker or mother's benefits for me as the surviving parent caring for our child? Does anyone know if that's real and if I qualify even though we weren't married? The funeral home said they reported his death to Social Security, but I'm worried something is wrong with the application.
I've been planning my retirement for a while now and have a question about potentially receiving two types of Social Security benefits. I'll reach my full retirement age in 2027 (I'm 65 now) and plan to retire and apply for my SS benefits then. I work full-time currently with a decent income. My situation is a bit complex - I was married for 21 years before divorcing, and my ex-spouse passed away about 3 years ago. I know I qualify for Social Security retirement benefits based on my own work record, but I'm wondering if I'm also eligible to receive survivor benefits based on my deceased ex-spouse's record? If I am eligible for survivor benefits, is there a way to find out how much I might receive? I've heard conflicting things about whether you can receive both your own benefits AND survivor benefits, or if you just get the higher of the two. The SSA website is confusing me more than helping! Any advice would be greatly appreciated. This will make a big difference in my retirement planning.
Since your ex-spouse had already started receiving benefits when they passed away, your survivor benefit would generally be based on what they were actually receiving. However, there are some exceptions: 1. If your ex was receiving reduced benefits because they claimed early, your survivor benefit would be limited to the larger of: - What your ex was receiving when they died - 82.5% of your ex's full retirement age benefit 2. If your ex delayed claiming beyond their full retirement age, your survivor benefit would include any delayed retirement credits they earned. This is another reason why getting the specific numbers from SSA is so important. They can tell you exactly what the survivor benefit amount would be based on your ex's specific claiming history.
I'm in a very similar situation - divorced after 18 years of marriage, ex-spouse passed away 2 years ago, and I'm approaching my FRA. The information in this thread has been incredibly helpful! One thing I learned from my research is that you might also want to check if your ex-spouse had any other retirement benefits (like a federal pension or railroad retirement) that could affect your Social Security survivor benefits. There are some offset rules that can reduce SS benefits if the deceased had certain types of government pensions. Also, if you're having trouble getting through to SSA by phone, try visiting your local Social Security office early in the morning. I went right when they opened and only waited about 20 minutes. The representative was able to give me exact benefit calculations on the spot and helped me understand all my options. Good luck with your planning - it sounds like you're being really thoughtful about maximizing your benefits!
My husband started collecting Social Security at 62 (about $1,750/month) because of some pretty serious health issues. His doctor doesn't think his condition will improve, and I'm trying to plan ahead for our future. I'm currently 59 and still working full-time. If something happens to my husband, and I wait until my full retirement age (67) to claim survivor benefits, would those benefits be based on what he's actually receiving now (the reduced amount) or what he would have received at his full retirement age? I've heard conflicting information about this from friends and family, and I'm trying to make some financial plans. The difference could be significant for my budget planning. Has anyone dealt with this situation before? I'd really appreciate any insight!
Thank you all so much for this incredibly helpful information! I understand the situation much better now. To summarize what I've learned: 1. If I wait until my FRA to claim survivor benefits, I'll get the higher of either his current benefit ($1,750) or 82.5% of his FRA amount (about $1,930) 2. I should look into whether my husband might qualify for SSDI, which could eliminate the reduction entirely 3. I need to compare my own retirement benefit to the survivor benefit when the time comes and consider claiming strategies This gives me a much better foundation for financial planning. I really appreciate everyone taking the time to explain all this!
I'm new to this community but wanted to share something that might help with your situation. My mother went through this exact scenario - my father took early retirement at 62 due to health issues, and she was worried about the impact on her future survivor benefits. One thing that really helped her was getting a detailed benefit estimate from Social Security showing exactly what her survivor benefits would be under different scenarios. You can request this by calling SSA or visiting a local office. They'll run the calculations based on your husband's actual earnings record and show you the RIB-LIM calculations others have mentioned. Also, regarding the SSDI option that Sophia mentioned - that's definitely worth pursuing if your husband's condition meets their disability criteria. The process can take time, but if approved, it would not only potentially increase his current monthly benefit but also ensure your future survivor benefits aren't reduced. Even if he's already receiving retirement benefits, he can still apply for disability if his condition has worsened. Hope this helps, and I'm sending positive thoughts for your husband's health!
I'm finally ready to collect retirement benefits and filed my application back in August to start receiving Social Security in January 2025. Just got an email notification saying my application was approved (yay!), but I'm totally confused about when I'll actually see money in my account.Do they send the January payment in February? I was thinking I'd get two months' worth at once but now I'm second-guessing myself. Also, does the payment date have anything to do with my birthday (which is on the 19th), or is it a fixed schedule for everyone?This whole process has been more confusing than I expected. The approval notice was super vague with no details about amounts or timing. I'd appreciate if anyone could share their experience with the payment schedule!
Thank you all for the helpful information! I'm feeling much more clear about things now. Just to make sure I understand correctly:1. My January benefit will be paid in February on the third Wednesday (since my birthday is on the 19th)2. I should be able to see my benefit amount in my online account soon3. I'll only get one month's payment at a timeI'm not working anymore so I don't need to worry about the earnings limit. I'll check my online account for the benefit verification letter and if I can't find the information there, I might try that Claimyr service to talk to someone directly.Really appreciate everyone's help!
You've got it exactly right! Just wanted to add one more tip - when you do get that first payment in February, keep the deposit notification or check your bank statement carefully. Sometimes there can be small deductions you weren't expecting (like Medicare premiums if you're enrolled), so it's good to understand what the final net amount looks like. Also, if you don't see the benefit verification letter in your online account within the next week or two, definitely follow up. Having that exact amount ahead of time really helps with budgeting. Congratulations on your retirement!
I'm 65 now and started my own Social Security at 63 and a half. Since I worked for state government, I got hit with both WEP and GPO reductions. My situation just changed because my ex-husband passed away in March 2025. I received this strange letter from SSA stating I'd be eligible for about $2,870 monthly as a survivor, but then it said "we cannot pay you at this time." I never even applied for survivor benefits! I think they just sent it because they knew we were once married and I'm already in their system. Here's my confusion - with all this WEP/GPO repeal talk, I'm wondering if that $2,870 amount is what I'd get if I applied right now OR if I waited until my Full Retirement Age (which is 66 and 8 months). My current benefit is only about $690/month, so this would be life-changing money. I called SSA last week and got this agent who kept insisting I was already receiving my ex's benefits (completely wrong). When I tried to explain I just wanted to know the difference between claiming survivor benefits now versus waiting until FRA, he just kept saying he couldn't tell me anything unless I formally applied. I don't want to apply blindly - if waiting until FRA would mean significantly more money, I'd wait! But that survivor amount is over 4 times my current benefit, so I'm really torn. How do I get accurate information about my specific scenario without committing to anything? Any suggestions on what specific questions I should ask to get through to someone who understands my situation?
One additional point that might be helpful: Since you mentioned the WEP/GPO repeal, it's worth noting that the legislation includes a 5-year phase-out period. The offset reduction starts at 20% in the first year and increases by 20% each subsequent year until fully eliminated. This means if you decide to wait until your FRA to claim survivor benefits, you'll likely benefit from at least some reduction in the GPO offset, potentially increasing your benefit amount significantly beyond what you'd receive if claiming now. This is another reason why getting those detailed projections from a Technical Expert is so important - they can model how the phase-out might affect your specific benefit amounts over the next few years.
Thank you for this additional information! I wasn't clear on the phase-out schedule. That's a really important consideration - waiting until my FRA might give me both the full survivor benefit amount AND less GPO reduction due to the phase-out timing. This makes me lean even more toward waiting, but I'll definitely get those projections first.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Thais. Your situation sounds incredibly complex, and I can understand why you're feeling frustrated with the conflicting information from SSA representatives. One thing that might help is to know that you have options for how to approach this. Since you're already receiving your own reduced retirement benefit, you could potentially switch to survivor benefits if they would be higher (even after GPO reduction), or you might be eligible for what's called a "restricted application" that could maximize your benefits. Given the timing with the WEP/GPO repeal phase-out starting soon, and the fact that you're only about a year away from your FRA, I'd strongly recommend getting professional help to run the numbers. Consider reaching out to a certified Social Security claiming strategist or a fee-only financial planner who specializes in Social Security optimization. They can often get clearer answers from SSA than we can as individuals, and they'll help you model different scenarios including the phase-out timeline. The difference between claiming now versus waiting could literally be tens of thousands of dollars over your lifetime, so it's worth investing in professional guidance to make sure you get this right. Don't let SSA's confusing processes rush you into a decision that could permanently reduce your benefits.
Heather Tyson
Just to give you an expectation on payment amounts: if your partner was receiving $2,500 per month in SSDI, your daughter would be eligible for approximately $1,875 monthly (75% of his benefit). The good news is that once approved, they will pay all months due from the date of death forward as a lump sum, then continue with monthly payments. I also wanted to clarify something important - while you mentioned you were already receiving dependent benefits for your daughter while her father was alive, the survivor benefit amount is usually higher than the dependent benefit amount. So there's typically an increase in the monthly payment after the conversion to survivor benefits is complete.
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Morita Montoya
AuthorThank you for explaining this. His SSDI was about $1,950/month and she was getting around $975 as his dependent. So the survivor benefit would be around $1,460? That would make a huge difference for us.
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GalacticGladiator
I'm so sorry for your loss and the stress you're going through with this process. As someone who recently navigated the SSA system after a family death, I wanted to share a few things that might help: First, don't lose hope - your daughter absolutely qualifies for survivor benefits since she was already receiving dependent benefits on her father's record. The conversion should be straightforward once they process it. A few suggestions that worked for me: - Document every interaction you have with SSA (dates, times, who you spoke with, what was discussed) - If you haven't already, ask specifically for a "case manager" to be assigned to your daughter's claim - Consider contacting your local congressman's office for help - they have caseworkers who can sometimes get SSA to respond faster on stalled cases The waiting is absolutely brutal, especially when you're struggling financially. But based on what others have shared here, it sounds like once it goes through, you'll get all the back pay which should help with the bills that have piled up. Hang in there - you're doing everything right and advocating well for your daughter. The system is just painfully slow right now.
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