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I'm so sorry for your loss, Astrid. I went through something similar when my father passed last year. One thing that helped me was calling the SSA main number (1-800-772-1213) very early in the morning - around 8 AM when they open - or later in the evening before they close. The wait times tend to be shorter then. Also, if you have a my Social Security account online, you can check there to see if any payments have been processed recently. While you can't report the death online, it gives you a better picture of what's happening with her account. Don't worry too much about the timing - as long as you report it promptly and return any payments received after her death date, you won't be penalized. The SSA understands that families need time to handle these situations.
Thank you Jacob, that's really helpful advice about the timing of calls. I didn't think about calling right when they open - I'll try that tomorrow morning. I do have access to her online account and you're right, it shows her last payment was deposited on December 3rd, so at least nothing has gone through since then. It's reassuring to know that SSA understands these situations take time to sort out. I'm feeling a bit less panicked about the whole process now.
I'm really sorry for your loss, Astrid. Dealing with SSA bureaucracy while grieving is incredibly stressful. A few additional tips that might help: If you're calling SSA, try using their automated callback feature if available - you can request they call you back instead of waiting on hold. Also, when you do get through, ask the representative to put a "death alert" on her record immediately, which should prevent future payments even if you don't have all the paperwork yet. For the $255 death benefit, they can start the application process with just the funeral home's death notification, but you'll need to provide the official death certificate later to complete it. The key thing is getting that initial report filed ASAP to stop the monthly payments. If you're still having trouble reaching them by phone, some people have had success contacting their local congressman's office - they often have direct lines to SSA for constituent services. Hang in there, and don't hesitate to ask for help from family or friends with the paperwork if you need it.
This is incredibly helpful, Carmen! I had no idea about the automated callback feature - that alone could save me hours of sitting on hold. The "death alert" suggestion is brilliant too. I'm definitely going to ask for that specifically when I call. The idea about contacting my congressman's office is interesting - I never would have thought of that as an option. Thank you so much for taking the time to provide such detailed advice during what I know is a difficult situation for everyone dealing with government services right now.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I went through this exact situation when my husband passed away last year. From my experience applying at my local SSA office, it took about 8 weeks from application to seeing the increased payment in my account. The waiting was definitely stressful, especially with ongoing expenses, but I did receive full back pay to the date of entitlement once it finally processed. One thing that helped me was calling SSA about 4 weeks after applying just to verify they had all my documents and to get a status update. Since you're already receiving benefits on your own record, the transition should be smoother than starting from scratch. Your Medicare should continue without interruption since you're not stopping benefits, just getting an increase. I'd recommend checking your mySocialSecurity account online regularly for any updates on your case status. The system is frustratingly slow, but hang in there - you will eventually get everything you're entitled to, including the retroactive payments. Take care of yourself during this difficult time.
Thank you for sharing your experience - it's really comforting to hear from someone who went through the same thing. 8 weeks isn't too bad considering some of the longer wait times others have mentioned. I'm definitely going to follow your advice about calling at the 4-week mark to check on status. It's such a relief to know that the Medicare shouldn't be disrupted since I'm already in the system. I've been checking my online account daily (probably too often!), but it's good to know that's the right approach. The back pay aspect really helps with planning since I know I'll eventually get everything I'm owed. Thanks for the encouragement during this tough time.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I just went through this process myself about 4 months ago when my husband passed away. It took approximately 6 weeks from when I submitted my application at the local SSA office to receiving my first increased payment. What really helped me during the wait was understanding that since you're already receiving benefits on your own record, SSA will process this as a "survivor top-up" rather than switching you to an entirely new benefit. This means your existing $2,150 payment should continue uninterrupted while they calculate the additional amount to bring you up to your husband's benefit level. I'd recommend calling SSA around the 3-4 week mark just to confirm they have all your documentation. Also, definitely keep monitoring your online SSA account for status updates. The good news is that once it processes, you'll receive back pay for the entire waiting period, so you won't lose any money you're entitled to. The Medicare aspect should be seamless since you're already enrolled and this isn't technically a new benefit enrollment. I know the waiting is incredibly stressful when you're dealing with grief and ongoing expenses, but the system does eventually come through. Hang in there!
Thank you so much for explaining the "survivor top-up" concept - that really helps me understand what's happening with my case! I was worried about my existing payment stopping completely, so it's reassuring to know it should continue while they process the additional amount. I'm definitely going to call them at the 3-4 week mark like you suggested. It's also good to hear that 6 weeks seems to be pretty consistent based on everyone's experiences here. I really appreciate you taking the time to share such detailed information during what I'm sure is still a difficult time for you as well.
Ugh, all these rules make my head hurt!! I'm 63 and just trying to figure out if I should keep working or not. Why does social security have to be so COMPLICATED?? Every time I think I understand something, there's another rule or exception!
It's definitely complex, but there's a method to the madness. The earnings test is designed to reflect the original purpose of Social Security - replacing lost income in retirement. The rules balance allowing some work while collecting benefits against the program's primary purpose. Once you understand the reasoning, the rules make more sense, even if they're administratively complicated.
I totally understand the frustration! I'm approaching FRA myself and found it helpful to write down the key dates and limits on a simple chart. For someone at 63, you're dealing with the basic annual limit (around $22,320 for 2024) until you hit FRA. The good news is once you get there, all the complicated rules disappear and you can work as much as you want without any earnings restrictions. Hang in there - it gets much simpler after FRA!
I went through this exact situation two years ago when I hit my FRA in August. The confusion is totally understandable because SSA's website doesn't explain it clearly! You're absolutely right - you CAN earn the full higher limit ($59,520 projected for 2025) during January through June 2025, and it doesn't need to be spread out evenly. I actually earned most of mine in the first quarter doing consulting work. Just make sure you're tracking GROSS earnings, not net pay, and remember it's based on when you performed the work, not when you got paid. The freedom after hitting FRA is amazing - no more spreadsheets tracking every dollar earned!
I still think the whole system is INSANE!!! Why make us wait until 66 and 8 months? Why not just 66 or 67? And the earnings limit is PUNISHING people who work. If I didn't need the money I wouldn't still be working at 66!!! Anyone else feel like the system is designed to confuse us????
The FRA calculation can definitely be confusing! Just to reinforce what others have said - you'll reach FRA in January 2025, not December 2024. SSA uses a specific rule where you "attain" an age on the first day of the month after you actually reach that age milestone. Here's what to expect for your timeline: - 2024: You'll be subject to the earnings limit all year, but it's the higher limit for the year you reach FRA (around $59,520 for 2024) - January 2025: FRA month - no earnings limit from this point forward - February 2025: You'll receive your first full Social Security payment regardless of earnings - Spring 2025: SSA should automatically recalculate your benefit to give you credit for all those months of withheld benefits over the years Keep checking your mySocialSecurity account to make sure your earnings are being recorded correctly. That ARF adjustment could be a nice bump in your monthly payment after all those years of dealing with the earnings test!
This is super helpful! I'm new to understanding Social Security benefits and this breakdown makes it much clearer. One quick question - you mentioned the higher earnings limit for 2024 being around $59,520. Is that different from the regular earnings limit? I thought there was just one limit that applied to everyone under FRA.
Jamal Harris
I'm new to this community and just reading through this entire discussion has been so educational! I'm planning to apply for Social Security retirement benefits in the next few months, and honestly, I had no idea about any of these payment schedule complexities. The birth date payment system, the irregular timing for new beneficiaries in the first few months, the difference between retirement benefits vs other programs - none of this was clear to me before. @Sofia Peña, it sounds like you've gotten great advice here and that your situation is completely normal. From what everyone is saying, you're not missing any money, just experiencing the typical adjustment period as SSA sets up your regular payment schedule. For those of us who haven't applied yet, this thread is like a goldmine of practical information. I'm definitely going to bookmark this and refer back to it when I start my application process. Thanks to everyone who shared their personal experiences - it makes navigating this system feel much less intimidating!
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Victoria Jones
•@Jamal Harris Welcome to the community! I m'also pretty new here and just learning about all this stuff myself. This thread has been incredibly helpful - I had no idea the Social Security payment system was so complex! The birth date schedule thing was completely news to me, and knowing that new beneficiaries experience irregular timing for the first few months is really valuable information. It s'great that people here are so willing to share their real experiences rather than just pointing to confusing official websites. Definitely bookmark this thread - I know I will! Good luck with your upcoming application.
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Adrian Connor
As someone who recently went through the Social Security application process myself, I wanted to share what I learned that might help clarify things. When you apply for benefits to start in a specific month (like September in your case), there's often a lag in how the payment system processes new accounts. From what I experienced and what others have confirmed here, your September 27th payment was indeed for September benefits - you received it correctly. The gap in October is typical for new beneficiaries as SSA's system adjusts your payment schedule to align with the birth date payment calendar. Since your MySocialSecurity portal shows a payment scheduled for early November, that's your October benefit being paid with the adjusted timing. After that, you should start receiving regular payments on your designated Wednesday based on when you were born (2nd, 3rd, or 4th Wednesday of each month). I know it's nerve-wracking when you're counting on this income, but from everything shared in this thread, it sounds like you're experiencing the normal new beneficiary adjustment period. You're not losing any money - just dealing with some timing irregularities while they establish your regular payment schedule. Still worth calling SSA for peace of mind, but you can probably stop worrying about missing payments!
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